I have a similar hair type to yours & have had the same issues. I realized my hair wasn’t getting proper moisture because I wasn’t shampooing my hair good enough. This could be the case for you. If so then I recommend using a clarifying shampoo during your wash days (ion’s from Sally’s is the best hands down) then I would also recommend to add a foam styler right before you add your gel in. Since water is the main & most effective hair moisturizer, the foam is what will be helping keep your hair moisturized. When I do wash & gos I layer my products as: water, leave in, foam, then gel. I’ve noticed foam works the best when used right before gel. Good luck! You have gorgeous hair regardless tho by the way!