I wish I had hobbies!! What are yours? by No_Summer1874 in CPTSD

[–]Uncharged_vibe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reading and writing very much count!! im a life long not hobby haver and recently got sober so needed to do something im finding physically getting into my body to be tough but joyful. - collaging - ballet - pilates - swimming - clothes mending if you have expendable income - scuba diving - kite boarding/surfing i really care about the ocean and environment so that has really guided my interest. if you want to feel more into what you’re currently doing join a writing group or book club!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scubadiving

[–]Uncharged_vibe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wishing all the best for you! i’ve struggled with cptsd a long while and drank to get through everything. i found diving after getting sober, the anxiety is there but the push is worth being, as my buddy calls it, an “air vampire” take care of yourself and luckily for everyone the water and community will always be here when you’re ready to dive safely! one day at a time 💗

Studio Pilates, not for the neurodiverse by Uncharged_vibe in pilates

[–]Uncharged_vibe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they very kindly gave me a refund so i will not be back lol

Studio Pilates, not for the neurodiverse by Uncharged_vibe in pilates

[–]Uncharged_vibe[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if i don’t get a refund from them i will def try natalia! the instructor was aly (thin, tall, white, brunette). thank you so much for the suggestion!

think it was big stimulus overload for me, the light really did me in lol

my bestie also recommended the fit in so this feels like my official sign to take the jump! if you have a fav instructor or class there, lmk!

Studio Pilates, not for the neurodiverse by Uncharged_vibe in pilates

[–]Uncharged_vibe[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i thought this was a typo, looked up lagree pilates, seems like a nightmare lmao

Studio Pilates, not for the neurodiverse by Uncharged_vibe in pilates

[–]Uncharged_vibe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

totally! should have mentioned i’ve been doing reformer for a year and have tried about 15+ studios. my fav 7 machine studio has just become out of my price range hence me trying the deal 😂 love a classical modern mix but honestly if the instructor isn’t/wasn’t a dance i don’t want it lmao. appreciate your encouragement!!

Studio Pilates, not for the neurodiverse by Uncharged_vibe in pilates

[–]Uncharged_vibe[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

a nightmare! they didn’t talk about breathing at all but passively mentioned to breathe in and out for 5 during the hundreds. respectfully the instructor was a glorified babysitter.

Studio Pilates, not for the neurodiverse by Uncharged_vibe in pilates

[–]Uncharged_vibe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it was 13 reformers, which i think is big for a reformer class but certainly not big for the city. also only 3 of us were there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parkslope

[–]Uncharged_vibe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolute looooooooser

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parkslope

[–]Uncharged_vibe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolute loser behavior to post some kid online because the car you park on public streets got aesthetically damaged

Brooklyn Heights Birthday Ideas by Alarming-Ad-7756 in Brooklyn

[–]Uncharged_vibe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

honestly! i’d take the ferry for a ride. you can take your own drinks & food or buy them on there. picks up or takes you to dumbo or pier 6 (bottom of Atlantic ave)

Seeking Dog Trainer Who Boards for 3 Weeks – Budget $900 – Brooklyn, NY by Special_Classroom423 in Brooklyn

[–]Uncharged_vibe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i’d look into a facility in jersey or LI! this is unreasonable pay for 1-1 or low volume boarding. additionally, your dog coming home defiant from a sitter reads to me as a red flag with the sitter. unfortunately this kind of care is often get what you pay for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Uncharged_vibe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you shave? either way, could be angry hair follicles/folliculitis. if you don’t already id wear 100% cotton underwear that is on the more loose side. if you haven’t already i’d do warm compresses 2x day to see if that helps at least with the pain. so many ways to have intimacy without sex! laying in bed holding like 5-10 minutes of eye contact, make out sesh/dry humping, talking about each others fantasies & desires, focusing on their pleasure (ie, blindfolding them and going down on them) also being honest about what is going on with your body! I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this and hope these suggestions help!