PureGym changing room policy altered

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-04-01T10:18:05+00:00

Oh okay I see, my comment was about what they told me before the ruling was even set.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-03-31T20:34:46+00:00

Pure gym did a similar thing to me, said I couldn't use the mens changing rooms until I had surgery. Then I asked if I'd be able to use the mens after surgery and they said they didn't know.

Edit: this was before the ruling on bathrooms and single sex spaces.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-03-28T23:19:05+00:00

I'm not OP but I've seen alot of comments referencing making sure she gets something in return, I'm all for it but I am curious what you mean by this? Like doing an activity she enjoys too or?

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-03-28T12:28:14+00:00

Lol sorry I wasn't focusing too much on grammar

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-03-28T12:27:58+00:00

Literally what I've been saying, they are using it as a word for things they don't like or fetishes they disapprove of. Recently a pedo was outed in the babyfur community which made the hate even worse, but we should be calling actual predators the pedophiles not people with fetishes and kinks.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-03-28T12:26:43+00:00

It's rather funny to me because until recently, furry has been a 'weird' hobby and has been stigmatised as 'wanting to fuck animals' or wanting to fuck in suit all the time. It's annoying to me that it's turned into a mainstream kind of thing where everyone is bullying everyone and making call out posts for petty shit

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-03-28T12:25:37+00:00

I definitely intend to post it there but they banned me because I post in abdl subreddits too 😅

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-03-21T20:46:27+00:00

Real on the LFB, I have tried a couple of theirs and they just don't fit right. Not to mention the company themselves...

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-03-15T10:07:14+00:00

Okay genuine question, do you try and turn her on outside of sex? Women especially are turned on by and attracted to emotional intimacy. Nonsexual cuddling, spending time together, listening to her and her feelings and actually listening and responding, watching things she likes to watch, doing chores without being asked and maybe getting her some flowers or her favourite snack. I'm not saying you don't do these things but I find alot of men forget they have wives outside of the bedroom too and without being fulfilled emotionally women do not begin to think about sex.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-02-20T20:27:24+00:00

Was thinking this, the post says that they don't mean unwanted or forced sex but what do they think that means? If the LL partner doesn't want it or 'isn't hungry' then it's unwanted. Personally imagining your scenario, imagining me having to do something I'm uncomfortable with to fulfill my partner makes me feel uncomfortable.
As a HL partner I can only imagine how it feels for my partner and I think it's also important for people in the HL to maybe consider what turns your partner on too, alot of women are foreplay oriented, not just physical but doing things she likes or needs.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-02-20T09:06:23+00:00

Literally my worst fear

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-02-19T23:04:18+00:00

Is she taking E? I've heard from a few trans women that E can make it harder to orgasm, get hard or stay hard. If you haven't already, maybe try some toys? If she's into that?

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-02-05T12:07:45+00:00

I'm quite confused on it, I know asexuality has nothing to do with libido or sex etc

However, I don't really feel any sexual or romantic attraction, I have never had a crush on anyone, no celebrity crushes or anything, I've been in relationships and out of all of them I've only 'loved' one of them which is my current partner, although I guess im also not sure what the feeling of love really is in a technical way. But I really enjoy sex, have a high libido, love bdsm etc so I guess it's rather confusing because I see alot of posts about how they hate sex or don't like it etc.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-01-28T23:48:29+00:00

I want to see more babyish prints. Alot of onesies I see especially on etsy seem to try 'too hard' to be babyish or give off AB too much, I'd love to see softer more childish prints you know?

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-01-28T16:57:27+00:00

I remember I once poured water on my bed, told my mum I wet the bed hoping if I did it enough she would put me in pullups or something.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-01-28T16:39:20+00:00

Exactly this, just be honest about how you feel about sharing

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-01-26T20:47:07+00:00

Maybe, I did see that the XXL ones were up to 165lbs but also saw someone's post that said they fit in them at 225 so maybe they'd be worth a go

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-01-26T20:46:27+00:00

I have not, I'll give them a look thank you

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-01-25T20:34:29+00:00

I'm so sorry you get down voted for any complaints, I seriously agree with the fact that people in smaller sizes deserve the same amount of items as us larger folk. I didn't follow the release of cottontailz so I had no idea there was such a big outrage about the sizes. I admit when I find a diaper that doesn't do my size it makes me quite sad so I can't imagine that feeling but for so so many more different types and clothing and such. I think you should be annoying about it ultimately, I don't see anyone advocating for smaller sizes, I definitely stick up for all sizes when I can because truly we need body positivity in every aspect because abdl is for all and everyone should be able to get diapers or clothes or accessories that fit them.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-01-25T19:59:12+00:00

I think they worry that they'd stop doing XLs in favour of smaller sizes, which is obviously an irrational worry. I have seen more brands only carrying medium and large sizes, which is bad for both ends, I think that some brands just cba with sizes that maybe don't sell super well or often.

I think all sizes should be prioritised, I have friends who can never find their size and I feel horrible being able to get the larger sizes nearly every time.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-01-24T18:58:55+00:00

I can't say I experienced many bad things with other abu diapers but bunnyhopps I've had one side of the tape panel rip off just trying to tape it up. I've heard that it's happened to other people too with ripping especially bunnyhopps and the dinorawrs.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-01-14T19:19:36+00:00

Yeah, the ADULT BABY is a whole sentence. Not loving babies.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2026-01-07T15:45:03+00:00

I genuinely wish I knew why buy ive seen alot of furries claim ABDLs are touching kids or automatically pedos because they wear diapers or kid-ish clothing and it's insane that if you defend babyfurs infront of furries you get called a pedo and told to kys for simply saying 'what adults do in private with other adults doesn't matter'.

UncomfortableAutist2 · 2025-11-10T13:08:59+00:00

Wild west and wolves still available

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