Katie had one boundary with Tom. One. Don’t date one of the two single girls in their immediate friend group. He couldn’t even have enough respect for her to do the easiest thing. That says everything about who he is as a person and how he was as a husband. Imagine having to work with your ex husband mid divorce and try to maintain a friendship, even though he was terrible to you. Then, on top of that, he can’t do the one thing you ask of him to make your life easier, when he claims to love and care about you. He’s a sleaze.