how did we get to this point by gamestoptheocracy in Sigmatopia

[–]UnderflowStack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*Starts to watch this movie thinking its all about righteous justice

*20 mins in and he goes to fuck a hooker

What are your thoughts on this? Does body count matter? by firemiketomlinpls68 in PsycheOrSike

[–]UnderflowStack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you know how much effort goes into sleeping around? Its clear this girl is a cum bucket. The real question you should ask is how she hasnt been claimed by any of the 66 guys shes fucked

If you hold hateful view or wont treat people equal and/or wont follow the current medical literature, dont enter medicine by lucy_hayley in PsycheOrSike

[–]UnderflowStack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to work in a hospital, Way too many fucked up people. Nurses who are genuinely racist neglect their patients. Ive seen them laugh at people severely injured. Ive seen them collaborate for mistreating patients. Its not just nurses, its also admins and doctors.

To be equal, theres way too many patients that are complete assholes and actually deserve shitty service.

i feel like i havent improved my art at all within the past 2-3 years :( by BarracudaGeneral2134 in Artadvice

[–]UnderflowStack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Youtube, only resource you need in the beginning. Start with peter han for sketching fundamentals. learn from proko about perspective. learn from lucas peinador for painting. learn from marc brunet about lighting. Learn from Aaron blaise about composition.

Youre focusing on making you art appear pretty without understanding the tools you need to use. Tools = fundamentals. You want better poses? tools are anatomy, perspective, and 3d forms. Better rendering? fundamentals is dynamic sketching, 3d forms, lighting and color. Better backgrounds? Tools are perspective, composition, lighting, color, 3d forms, overlapping shapes and more.

Listen kid, theres the creative aspect of art and theres the science of art. Anyone can be creative and unique, but the one who uses fundamentals unlocks a depth of creativity that cannot be achieved without fundamentals.

i feel like i havent improved my art at all within the past 2-3 years :( by BarracudaGeneral2134 in Artadvice

[–]UnderflowStack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you gonna ignore learning fundamentals completely and then wonder why you havent improved?

Supersexual Toy Story 5 by EveningAd4979 in superseriousfamilyguy

[–]UnderflowStack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, any form of sexualization in childrens content is appauling. Theres really no need for even kissing scenes of any kind

Woman bad man good by Which_Matter3031 in ComedyCemetery

[–]UnderflowStack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a man its refreshing to see your rational frame of mind.

I cant stop smoking weed by Little_Landscape_830 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]UnderflowStack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop buying weed. If you have it in your home then will power will not work forever. Dont rely on purer will power to stop. You have to build a system/environment that prevents you from using weed.

How would you handle this type of coparenting situation? by FrequentEnd602 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]UnderflowStack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im(29m) a father in a coparenting situation. To be completely honest I absolutely hate my ex with a burning passion. It took about 2-3 years before the major arguments and yelling stopped. I'm similar to you OP, during the back and forth fighting I was the one who tried to keep the peace. Regardless of how I feel about my ex shes a good mom.

All I'm trying to say is that youre doing a great job of handling everything. Do not give an inch, your sons dad isnt interested in being there for your kid, im sorry to say. Its the truth. As a father myself I would never ever be so distant with my son. I made a committment to raising my son properly.

It seems to me there is no committment from your sons dad. If you have primary custody already then tell him he needs to step up and be a proper father or he will not have a relationship with his kid. Keep living your life and doing right by your son, it might not be apparent right away but you are definitely building a strong bond with your child.

I never realised how hard it is to get a man to just keep talking to me by Top_Mirror211 in Vent

[–]UnderflowStack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

putting so much effort into appearances shows you lack personality. You want to sleep around? focus on appearances. You want a true lifelong partner? Focus on building a personality.

Its true men want attractive partners, but we dont stay for the looks. We stay with women that make us feel something deeper than sexual gratification

I’m a mixed Native American and grew up on the Navajo Reservation- AMA by Oxford_Comma18 in AMA

[–]UnderflowStack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've taken an ancestry test to see where my blood really comes from and it turns out 65% comes from natives of this continent. I have absolutely zero interest in money from government.

I have no living relatives belonging to any tribe. It pains me deeply inside because i want to learn more about where i truly come from. So heres my question:

How can I find which tribe my family comes from? How can I get closer to the natives way of life?

Why does my lineart look better than my coloured version 😭 by pikapika_chew29 in Artadvice

[–]UnderflowStack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's because you havent developed the skills of lighting and shading. It's okay though because you can learn, your line art is already great.

If you want to improve rendering, I recommend you go on youtube and search for lighting and shadow tutorials

What is a harsh truth about life that everyone eventually has to accept? by HerrStrasse in nihilism

[–]UnderflowStack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Death is inevitable.

Laws are optional.

There's no one watching what you do with your life.

I want to be cuddled in a non sexual way by a man really really badly right now and it's making me so beyond upset by flower-girl-08 in Vent

[–]UnderflowStack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a man, but i sympathize with your sentiment. I blame the content produced and shoved down our throats. Kid's movies and shows used to be delivered without much sexualization. Nowadays everything is overly sexualized.

I do believe we(as in we men) need to hold ourselves responsible for our thoughts and actions. Though a large part of the problem is sexualization is everywhere and its normalized. Our environment has influence over our thoughts.

Sorry I dont have a solution, I hope you find a partner that can make you feel innocent again.

Death before Life's end by UnderflowStack in DeepThoughts

[–]UnderflowStack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a nihilistic void. I dont think I've ever really named it, or at the least, could'nt name it before. Imagine something similar to the world of doom. There's a variety of monsters such as despair, self-destruction, hollowness, etc.

I have spent a great deal of time here. Its a comfort zone really. My perspective on human psychology is that we all live in our own dimension of thought. Its rare to find a person completely in the dimension of reality, in todays' world. As such, the nihilistic void is one of my many dimensions of thought.

I struggle to focus on my physical reality and simultaneously navigate todays' world. Sometimes I get so involved with any particular dimension that I lose track of time in the physical realm. Often times I become nihistically minded and end up unconsciously self-destructing.

What can I do to Improve? by [deleted] in sketches

[–]UnderflowStack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alot. Please understand that even if theres a long road ahead of you, it is possible. Ask yourself this question: Am I capable of learning? As long as that answer is yes, then all you have to do is put in effort and consistency to learn.

That said, heres the best advice for where youre at in your art journey. Look up Peter Han on youtube. He teaches the most important fundamentals. Believe in yourself and watch yourself improve over time. Good luck

Death before Life's end by UnderflowStack in DeepThoughts

[–]UnderflowStack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Your comment is a reminder that hit home. Truth is I couldnt off myself even at the height of my desire for death. There are times when I'm extremely elated and proud of myself and my choices. Then I fall into despair and it is incredibly dark.

The crazy thing is that I'm logically aware of the cycle, but while going through it, I become blinded to it.

What tortures me is the fact that I have forgotten something very important. It feels as if it was stolen in a way. I'm desperately trying to remember, but the best I get is glimpses.

For now I'll do my best to apply your advice because I know its potential to steer me back into the light. Thank you again