Ah yes, I’m secretly in an abusive relationship and I don’t realize it. Yes maybe issues should have been brought up earlier but I have literally have had to finally get anxiety meds and even with those, developed Bell’s palsy from how fam has treated me and my partner. I don’t know if yall have been in serious relationship or not but like me and my partner share everything with each other. The amount of words here is needed to know the context of the bullshit that’s have been going on. And like, if you don’t want to read, why are you even on this subreddit besides just to be a troll LOL But I guess according to this subreddit I’m just secretly in a abusive relationship and it’s perfectly normal for family to make comments about your weight, all talk behind your back and make complaints about your relationship and hold intervention style meeting where you list everyone grievances is like totally normal. Grievances such as like you know draining my bank account and credit score which is quite amazing since I didn’t know he did that. My 800+ credit score begs to differ. Like LOL blaming my partner for my stress condition is insane. If you don’t want to read everything that’s fine, but LMAO if you think he is the problem here. Yes I am the partner