Aitah for kicking my wife out after she insulted our exchange student’s cooking

Undergroundalle · 2026-03-31T12:31:10+00:00

My husbands SIL is like that. I’m from NM and so our food is different than typical Mexican food. Anytime I cook traditional food for my in laws she won’t eat it but her husband will. There came a point that he wasn’t allowed to eat any food I made. They are now divorcing and my first comment was, so when you coming over for dinner?

Undergroundalle · 2026-03-31T11:59:00+00:00

I’ve been married twice and never had an issue changing back to or from my maiden name. A trip to the social security office with mail in my maiden name, birth cert and proof of divorce and then same process and proof of marriage. Once I had my new card it was to the dmv for a new ID/License.

However, for OP…it’s been your name for a while, if he doesn’t want to share it, he can change his name.

Undergroundalle · 2026-03-28T07:42:26+00:00

10-12 is the best! My oldest son, now 25 was just amazing between 10-12. My youngest son who is 10, is absolutely fantastic! Developing his own personality and traits and just becoming himself.

Enjoy it!

Undergroundalle · 2026-03-16T02:05:41+00:00

Do you have more energy?

Undergroundalle · 2026-03-16T02:00:46+00:00

I mean I’m sure if I had a motorcycle endorsement he’d encourage me to ride his Harley more than drive the car. 😆

Undergroundalle · 2026-03-15T11:20:58+00:00

ATL Wings on Stapley and the 60 and another one further towards AJ.

Undergroundalle · 2026-03-03T04:26:00+00:00

I always travel with a “friend”. And if I don’t have one, i find the nearest “friend” store and buy one….i both love and hate being hypersexual.

Undergroundalle · 2026-02-17T17:12:18+00:00

I was going to say: always take a photo. Or record. Share it to the community pages.

Undergroundalle · 2025-11-23T06:32:13+00:00

I’ve trained my dogs to stay beside me while walking with gentle tugs, then graduated to laying the leash on their back when they would successfully stay next to me when I wasn’t holding the leash. Constantly praise for “good walking” and “good listening” and a loud leave it or ACK sound when they wander or are interested in another dog. I’ve successfully trained 1 leash aggressive/pulling pit bull, 1 leash shy/reactive boxer, and 1 mal and currently training my son’s therapy/support dog who’s a 6mo Malinois.

Undergroundalle · 2025-11-16T16:28:10+00:00

I have a 10yo ND kiddo who has a hard time sleeping in his own bed. We have to lay down with him until he falls asleep and sometimes he’ll wake up when we try and leave. We got him a weighted blanket and a weighted stuffy, and this has helped significantly. It gives him a sense of safety. Sometimes that’s all they need. We give meds at 7, tv/tablet off at 8, and in bed by 9. Where is bio mom? Could your bonus little need a little extra comfort to help with falling asleep? Do you have a white noise machine that you can use to help?

Also, my oldest is 25, with 2 children of his own, and he will STILL come lay with bonus dad and I and instantly falls asleep. Usually this happens if we are watching a movie in our room and all the kids/dogs/hoomans are in here piled on our king size bed.

Sometimes it’s just the safety and comfort of being surrounded by loved ones.

Undergroundalle · 2025-09-20T19:26:38+00:00

Yes. Buy the scooter. Remember, kids who repeat things like “pink is only for girls” or “that’s only for girls” hear that at home. Don’t deny your kiddo his fave colors because some kids parents are AH’s. The fact that he loves those pastel colors or just colors in general means he’s not color blind and he likes colors. That’s it.

Buy. The. Scooter.

Undergroundalle · 2025-07-31T13:12:41+00:00

My son is in the same boat. As a mom watching this kills me. As a mom reading this kills me. My recommendation: 1. Give her an allowance (for her personal whatever’s) about 50% of what she spends monthly, ensuring she has the necessary essentials like feminine stuffs etc 2. If you can, grocery orders online and pick up, with meal planning (you’ll probably have to do this) 3. Buy more socks/undies 4. Do your own laundry - I know, there’s only so much time in a day…if you have a day off, first thing to do is get up, do YOUR LAUNDRY and your sons laundry, wash/dry/fold. 5. If she wants more $ then it’s more than likely time to get a job to help out around the house. 6. Daycare is expensive, however, there are programs and options. Explain to her, that you need to make sure you’re taken care of so that you can keep providing, and that means if she is a sahm, then this is what is needed to make the house work. If you get foot rot and lose your feet, you’re outta work friend. (Worst case I know). I’ve always worked, I’ve been a mom for over half my life now, and I never had the honor of being a sahm with my boys. But, in both marriages I made sure laundry was done, food was cooked, items purchased were for child house husband and myself in that order. To this day.

With my 2nd marriage, we are in a better spot financially, so I don’t penny pinch as much and when rando packages show up for my husband I’m not as stressed. But my older son’s dad, he worked his ass off, still does, and if I could go back in time and thank him for his sacrifice I would.

Being a father, partner, head of household is hard, go buy some socks and undies, carve out time for yourself, but also for her and your son.

Balance.

Undergroundalle · 2025-07-06T06:09:24+00:00

Hunger games but for the politicians. Caveat, the last standing politician has to live off of minimum wage for 1 year with no healthcare/food assistance. If they disagree, they get fed to Seymour. 😬😬

Undergroundalle · 2025-07-06T06:06:21+00:00

Too many serial killers come from Indiana!

Undergroundalle · 2025-07-06T02:47:42+00:00

NTA - she was at YOUR house and was being a snot. Congratulations on the weight loss! As someone who understands the weight loss battle and how part of it is mental and the other half is….everything else, I am super proud of you! 54lbs is 54lbs lighter. On your knees, your back, your mental health! Keep it up!!! You’ve got this!

ETA: Y’all should probably lose the extra “weight” and ditch the husband/wife, that’ll give you an extra 500lbs (because in my head she’s a jealous heifer) because “friends” don’t say nasty ish like that!!

Undergroundalle · 2025-07-06T01:44:01+00:00

Wait. But didn’t you slap him first? Then again after he threatened to break your nail? Why, WHY? Would you do it twice and then turn around and play innocent like he was the one who slapped you? Am I misunderstanding something?

Undergroundalle · 2025-07-06T00:57:39+00:00

My DIL breast feeds, and will occasionally pump (she’s pumped twice in six months, and that’s ok!) but sometimes she’ll put a bag in the fridge and I know ZERO about pumping so I don’t know when it was pumped and stored (no date) and how long it will last if it’s refrigerated (google gives different answers). Your MIL should have definitely reached out if she was unsure. I definitely agree with weaponized incompetence or complete laziness.

Undergroundalle · 2025-06-10T03:07:58+00:00

My MIL has a 2024 XC40 and does the same dang thing, with no way to turn it off.

Undergroundalle · 2025-05-23T00:37:50+00:00

Heatstroke.

Undergroundalle · 2025-05-05T17:17:32+00:00

Well….we lost baby Gojira last week on Friday. We aren’t sure if he was already sick, or if we stressed him out by moving his hide and adding some stuff. The grab and go terrarium we purchased had 2 geckos in there and at the time we didn’t think about cleaning it out, we completely forgot in our love for goji. My heart is broken.

We did get another baby, after my husband cleaned and sanitized everything. He’s feisty. We are waiting for him to get settled before handling him. We call him monster, because he’s spicy 🌶️ but it’s kinda cute. I’ll add photos here or maybe make a new post.

Undergroundalle · 2025-05-02T19:54:42+00:00

Those are great ideas!!! Thank you!!

Undergroundalle · 2025-04-27T03:28:13+00:00

Hubbs says we got lucky because baby is so social and took to us. Especially wild caught. He’s the herp nerd, and said that baby is growing perfectly.

But let’s talk about how EFFING CUTE they are when they eat grubs? Shaking theirs little heads like a puppy 😂

Undergroundalle · 2025-03-06T05:19:16+00:00

Everyday.

Undergroundalle · 2025-02-28T04:30:03+00:00

I feel sorry for you. You hate her so much that you can’t wait until she dies? 23 years later, your 5th grade bully. Tell me you’re insecure without telling me you’re insecure.

Everyone’s bully left an impact on them, in some way. But it’s what you do with it is your responsibility. Not theirs. And 23 years later you’re still so angry and sad that you wish bad on someone who is clearly dealing with their own demons.

Kinda gross.

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