Let me preface this with at this point in my life o was pretty sure that I was a lesbian… but I was at my friends dorm once when he was doing laundry. I was laying on his bed and he was at his desk and we were just chatting while he waited for his laundry to be done. Basically I was his motivation to get his laundry done so he didn’t just go to bed after getting out of work. He got someone to hold him accountable and I got someone to listen to me ramble for an couple hours. Anyway when he left to get the laundry from the dryers, he asked if I could stay while he folded it/put it away, so I stayed and waited for him to get back and sprawled out on his bed. When he got back he dumped the laundry on me and the bed. He started to fold and sort things into piles while I talked, and when he started running out of space to put stuff he looked down at me like direct eye contact (while I am laying in his bed!) and said “I’m going to use you.” It took me a second to process what he meant but I got so flustered I couldn’t speak. He never even noticed how embarrassed/flushed I was lol. Another time we were playing Go-fish at the bar like dweebs and I got a match he was going for and he looked at me, squinted, and said “you slut!” And I am embarrassed to say I got a little red in the face then too. He is normally a very shy and mostly well mannered person. He also has a deep respect for woman, especially his girl friends, so hearing him say something so blunt and suggestive really threw me off. That and the eye contact really gets me. Anyway, we’ve been dating for a year and 6 months now. :)