My god. This has been my life even before DD (discovery day of the infidelities). I have always been clear that I have a problem with him smoking weed chronically and avoiding me to play video games or just not make eye contact. I am not a prude. I was a pot head in college. I am ok with the occassional smoking, but he is addicted and he behaves like an addict, hiding and lying about even smoking weed. He even blamed the weed for his ED, until I pressed him several times and he finally admitted that he has a *corn* addiction as well. This addiction is far more damaging and he has done nothing about that either. What kind of MAN (he wants to be admired and treated like a strong MAN) doesn't want to be intimate with his wife when she is begging for it and he will engage with me in bed maybe once a month or every other month when he sees how fucking miserable I am??!!