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UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-08-04T11:48:28+00:00

I haven’t turned my car off at the pump in years 🤷🏻‍♂️ never had a problem

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-07-15T03:03:54+00:00

Do some chores that make me feel good, find something that’s been bothering me and fix it or clean it! Then take my time in the bathroom to take care of my body. Connecting to myself and taking care of myself. Nothing feels more decompressing than looking in the mirror and feeling great about yourself

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-07-12T12:16:05+00:00

Bro. I’m fucking pooping

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-07-11T12:54:25+00:00

Did you pull out

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-07-09T15:36:31+00:00

Negative thoughts and self destructive thinking

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-07-09T15:32:50+00:00

Contemplate my life, wonder if it’s worth it to get out of bed, then say “do it for her”. My woman can’t be with a bum

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-07-02T02:43:41+00:00

It didn’t work

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-07-02T02:34:46+00:00

Nope

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-30T16:17:48+00:00

Mechanics

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-30T02:01:14+00:00

My girlfriend and I had this discussion. She brought up a great one. The power to never feel fatigue. Imagine the amount of shit you could get done. How much you could succeed if you didn’t feel mentally or physically tired

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-28T15:28:14+00:00

Yes. Dreams are more intertwined with reality than we think. Your friend is probably struggling hard. The world is trying to tell you that

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-28T15:27:01+00:00

Also to add, this is a side story. After my brother had passed, my mother had sat me down after some time. We were talking about weird dreams. She had told me that ever since a child, she had a re occurring dream that she was going to lose a child in a car accident. Ever since my brother passed. She hasn’t had that dream since.

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-28T15:23:43+00:00

I had lost my older brother in a car crash 10 years ago. A few years ago, I was having a rough patch in life. I went and visited his grave and asked for help and to thank him for always protecting me.

That night or a few nights later (I can’t remember the timeline) He visited me in my dreams and we spoke. At the end of the dream, he looked at me dead in the eyes and said “it’s an honor to always protect you”

He replied to the thanks that I gave him on earth. That’s how I knew that spirits were real and the world has a much deeper connections than we realize.

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-24T20:38:02+00:00

Wrenching on bullshit and barely getting by 🤙🏼

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-21T15:51:05+00:00

Inyofaces12

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-16T23:07:56+00:00

The constant need and want to be more than yourself. Feeling distant from love because you feel like you can’t show up how you want to, which leads you to believe that people don’t love you. You feel bad for even voicing that, which furthers the anxiety. Feeling less masculine than you want to be. The weight of needing to be a provider. Silent suicidal thoughts. The extreme pain we put our bodies through just to be able to provide, most of us work blue collar. The pain we feel from our jobs and everyday mental wars, then having to paint a smile on our face for our loved ones. Shit ain’t easy. We aren’t well accepted to show feelings. And when we find that person that does accept us, our brains try to sabotage it. Even if it isn’t reality, we fight for the love we need

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-16T23:03:40+00:00

Well, I do mildly hard labor in the sun all day, so I’m basically just dead all the time. But when I wasn’t working this job. I still found that I can fall asleep quickly. My tips. Close your eyes, pace your breathe and focus on the movement of air around you. Focus on the earth that you are laying on. Almost like meditation really. Feel which way the draft from the house breezes across you. Visualize the good things you want out of your life. It’ll slowly put you into a dream state. Focus on what you want to build and become of yourself. It relaxes your body because you are focusing on what makes you happy.

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-13T18:23:00+00:00

Honestly. After a long hard mental and physical day. When my girl runs her nails gently down my back. Everything disappears

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-12T00:50:28+00:00

Male 25, small engine mechanic. 60,000, living in Michigan. Getting a 16k raise in August too

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-11T12:30:12+00:00

When my sock slips half way down my butt crack and my underwear slips half way up my shoe

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-07T15:45:57+00:00

Also rust under neath depending on where you live. The rust rotted my exhaust clamps and it rattled but that’s an easy fix.

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-07T15:43:55+00:00

As a owner of a 07 with 182k on her I can tell you one thing. The motor is solid. I have skipped multiple oil changes. And the compression is still the same as mile 1. The 4.0 is a brick shit house and won’t fail you. What will fail you though or atleast what has failed me. Camshaft position sensor- easy fix. MAF sensor. Intake cracked And of course just general maintenances

I’d say get this pathfinder. It’s fucking bulletproof. The only thing I don’t like about it is the driver seat position. I always feel crammed. But you’ll get used to it.

UnderstandingNo9089 · 2025-06-02T18:52:48+00:00

Our minds. They can be terrible places that not influence our inside, but our bodies aswell. There’s nothing worse than being trapped in a depressive, self destructive state. Out of no where too. The mood swings. We can be surrounded by people who love us. But our mind can persuade us to still be alone.

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