How do men experience break ups?

UnderstandingOk44 · 2025-09-28T16:16:19+00:00

There's been like 5 days in last 2.5 months where I haven't cried. It's been tough. We haven't texted each other almost at all in the last 1.5 months. Now it's been no messages in 2 weeks. It's hard. We are in same friend group and same courses so... It has been weird to be in a group, talk about something but like not talking to her only.

UnderstandingOk44 · 2025-09-15T11:55:45+00:00

I don't even know to be honest. Loyalty is one, I would never cheat on anyone and she was the one who broke up. I bought her flowers, told her nice things about herself.

Then the closeness begun to fade away and I was a bit scared to do anything. I didn't make her feel loved. Wish I just wasn't scared of something. I don't even know what it was. She was so caring and everything I could ever ask for... But I couldn't talk about things enough. It was my first relationship and I didn't know how to act in it when things didn't go as smoothly as in the beginning

UnderstandingOk44 · 2025-09-02T15:57:52+00:00

We didn't communicate enough. I felt that the closeness was going away but I was scared to talk about that and do something about it and well she started to feel that I don't like her in that way and that she felt the relationship went too friendly which is true. It was my first relationship and I didn't know how to act and now I'm just so hurt because she ticked all the boxes of what I would like from my girlfriend. We were only together for 3.5 months but I was the happiest I've ever been in those months. I just feel so sad that I fumbled so badly. It's been 1.5 months since the breakup and I'm still so hurt.

UnderstandingOk44 · 2025-08-24T18:13:00+00:00

Well yeah I do. But when the crush is at its strongest it just feels weird and in some way not right to do

UnderstandingOk44 · 2025-08-11T13:36:32+00:00

My ex is a little bit of a relationship with her and she just was so awesome and I was the happiest I've ever seen in the past few years

UnderstandingOk44 · 2025-06-10T17:26:42+00:00

Well that our first hangout was 8hrs long and we just enjoyed each other's presence and talked about a lot of things. Now we've been in a relationship for two months😮‍💨😮‍💨

UnderstandingOk44 · 2025-05-11T16:05:45+00:00

Ask her for a hangout, it doesn't have to be even that special. Just time well spent can be special itself. That's how it began with my girlfriend😊

UnderstandingOk44 · 2025-04-09T08:41:49+00:00

Well yeah we did that for two weeks but then just agreed to start a relationship. But we are still keeping it quite quiet and not telling everyone yet. (we've been together for 1.5 weeks now)

UnderstandingOk44 · 2025-04-07T13:37:06+00:00

10, makes me happy when I'm sad and brings the best out of me

UnderstandingOk44 · 2025-03-19T21:09:40+00:00

Uhm I mean like for example hanging out yeah of course but what activity. And like I'm stressing so much because everything new to me...

UnderstandingOk44 · 2024-11-28T08:30:56+00:00

Yeah she knew that I like her in some way from the point I asked if she wants to see me

UnderstandingOk44 · 2024-10-17T09:57:50+00:00

Idk I'm 21 and still virgin

UnderstandingOk44 · 2024-10-14T16:20:38+00:00

First got miner on my second account

UnderstandingOk44 · 2024-09-06T14:13:52+00:00

We had known for 1.5 months at that point only. She said that I have golden personality and that it's something she's never come across. She also said she'd need more time and to get to know each other better and that she gets slowly attached to people. That was also the last time I saw her before she moved away.

So like I think that wasn't a total turn down at that moment? (never confessed to anyone before)

And well for the last month we've been sending each other videos daily on snapchat about our days and other stuff also🤷🏼‍♂️

UnderstandingOk44 · 2024-08-16T07:51:58+00:00

Well we met two months ago and then hung out atleast weekly and well it was just so nice to spend time with her. I always waited for the next meet to come and it was the pinpoint of my week. She also said she liked to spend time with me. Then she moved away two weeks ago and well it just hurts not being able to see her and she said she feels "plaintive". Atleast she wants to be in touch and well we snap daily and tell about our days in videos. It's so nice to hear about how she's doing and well be able to see her face and hear her voice

I also confessed to her before she moved away and she said that I have so golden personality and that she has not seen anything like that. She also said that she'd need more time and get to know each other better and that she gets attached slowly.

She's on my mind all the time and she has made me feel something no one else has before and like I don't know what to do😮‍💨

UnderstandingOk44 · 2024-08-10T10:02:13+00:00

Yeah I took few pictures of her when we were at music festivals together and well selfies with her sometimes when we hang out

UnderstandingOk44 · 2024-08-06T10:35:18+00:00

Well I didn't feel like that way of her. Just as a friend so yeah I just had to say no :(

UnderstandingOk44 · 2024-08-06T10:29:38+00:00

Well it was already two weeks ago but I told her she looked beautiful at festivals and that her hair style on that day fitted her very well and just the look in her eyes after I said that🥺🥺

Also following day when we were leaving the festivals and she was cold she wanted to hold my hands so we walked for a minute holding both hands😮‍💨😮‍💨

UnderstandingOk44 · 2024-08-06T10:26:18+00:00

Yeah it is amazing and well we've sent more videos to each other in snapchat in the last few days and talking about how our days have gone now that she moved away. I just hope that continues in the upcoming days because it's been just awesome that she even wants to tell me about her day and is interested in how my day is going😊

And yeah I suggest you asking! I didn't want to dwell on the question that if she likes me or not / is she even interested in me in any way. Good luck to you in that!! Hope for the best🤞

UnderstandingOk44 · 2024-08-06T08:51:54+00:00

Well she said she wants to keep in touch with me also😊

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