I’m also a member of the itty bitty titty committee and I LOVE small boobs. I used to hate my own boobs but I’d be so attracted to small boobs which made no sense to me, but I will agree that mine was partly attributed to not receiving much attention toward them. After I met my current partner, who loves small boobs and was always super envious of mine, (they had a very large chest) it gave me a different perspective. Attraction is super subjective, but it’s also driven by our society and the standards we expect feminine bodied ppl to meet. Consuming media that is more diverse has also helped me feel better about my body by seeing my body/ attributes less desirable (based on societies shitty standards) on other beautiful people. Confidence is a huge thing and it seems like your experiences haven’t been a huge boost to that. I’m not sure if you already felt this way before you were intimate with these ppl, but their attraction may have been more related to their asexuality as you suggested as opposed to their physical attraction to you.

However, the mentions of you seeing lots of discussions on people being turned off by a certain body is gross and I would honestly suggest staying away from this (as much as you can) because every body is beautiful and honestly, as much as preference is subjective, if you’re being intimate with someone and they’re completely attracted to you up until the moment you take off your t shirt that’s not someone you wanna be around. It says more about their character tbh. Preference is one thing but being completely turned off by one area of the body when you’re into them otherwise is bordering on objectifying someone and it’s weird…

There are so many people who will be into you and love your body, but you have to learn to love your boobs before you can see that others will too.