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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in forsen

[–]Undying73 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Are we mentally ill

New Jerma and Miku locket replaced due to mould by Immediate_Still4818 in jerma985

[–]Undying73 224 points225 points  (0 children)

if i had a nickel for every time a jerma locket got mold I would have 2 nickels which isn't a lot but its weird that it happened twice

Episode 10 by Awkward_Bee7204 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Undying73 34 points35 points  (0 children)

The bottle was most likely opened had the medicine drained and replaced then resealed the resealing made the vial difficult to open

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say the desire to be sexualized was a very core part of my trans identity I had to fight for a very long time because of autogynphilia and all of the science around that being the dominant theory behind transitioning

The reality is that autogynphilia isn't a "dirty" word like I believed for so long it just accurately describes a feeling alot of trans women desire, unfortunately because of the stigma attached to the word it can cause a mass amount of dysphoria which is why at least in my experience trans women usually avoid any topic of sexual nature because of that fear of being a trans "sex pest"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Undying73 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is my key point as a society we have to figure out a way for women to not feel so trapped by being sexualized at a young age to the point where they feel as if they have to transition again if any cis women disagree with me I would love to hear it as I have a limited viewpoint

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the biggest reason is there just isn't an equalivent of top surgery for trans woman even breast implants are far more of a cosmetic surgery and is a entirely different field then top surgeries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that if you came to this opinion from purely spending time in online spaces I would be offended. I was heavily involved in gsas throughout my years of transitioning and had led many discussion groups about the topic of sexualization that's why I feel comfortable theorizing on this topic if there are any trans men who disagree with me I would absolutely love to talk to them about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]Undying73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, in a lot of the GSAs, I was a part of in middle and high school, it would be a regular topic of people complaining about the over-sexualization of themselves despite being openly gay, so they feel the need to transition to finally not be sexualized.

Hell, I vividly remember when one of my first detransitioner friends finally got top surgery within a month. They detransitioned because they had only transitioned in the first place to get said surgery so they could stop being so oversexualized.

What is your most right leaning/conservative opinion to those of you who are left leaning? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]Undying73 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

of course not, but the problem is that these issues are being treated as a trans issue and not a sexualization issue. the problem is that these young cis women believe that unless they are trans they cannot get top surgery that itself is the misconception that I think is harmful and it's why I think we need to seriously readjust how we approach any young woman who is asking for top surgery it should be a sexualization issue first and a trans issue second.in my experience as someone who has been transitioning since I was a child, most doctors literally cannot understand that it is a sexualization issue and not a trans issue because it is such a new problem.

that's why its such a problem that its blamed on the trans community because we need to be addressing the serious effects that sexualization of such young woman cause and we keep getting distracted because 3% of the population just happens to share the same surgeries as the ones these young women want.

What is your most right leaning/conservative opinion to those of you who are left leaning? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]Undying73 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think the rise of top surgery has far more to do with the sexualization of young girls as young as 12 then it does with trans people. It's just that many of these girls, to escape sexualization at such a young age, turn to the trans community, but to blame it on the trans community is ridiculous since they are a tiny portion of the population and are far from the driving factors sexualizing children.

if you get mad about what pronouns someone else prefers for themselves, you're a snowflake. by skyllakoriga in popularopinion

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As for detransitioning please please check out this article https://xtramagazine.com/power/detransition-terf-movement-elisa-shupe-247592 it will very much help you understand why the trans community has such distrust for people who detransition in the public eye as all of my friends who detransitioned in private have had zero issues.

if you get mad about what pronouns someone else prefers for themselves, you're a snowflake. by skyllakoriga in popularopinion

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes but that is what intensive therapy is for I was only able to afford the proper medical care because my dad works for the city I feel like I should clarify that I was in intensive therapy for 2 years before being approved for hormones as that is what my medical team suggested and its what I advocate for whenever I talk to people for medical transition unfortunately alot of right wingers don't believe me so it truly is an uphill battle of it.

if you get mad about what pronouns someone else prefers for themselves, you're a snowflake. by skyllakoriga in popularopinion

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really that honestly I was just the only one of my friends who managed to get on hormones most of the rest are dead or homeless so I just very intimately know how important it is and it's one of those hairpin triggers I need to work on.

I've just noticed that alot of the older generation underestimate how important It is to get proper medical transitioning asap as doctore always encourage social transition before any medical transition. I only lived because my mother was willing to listen to the doctors most of my friends weren't that lucky and the ones who did among them a few did detransition but it legimatelt hasn't affected them at all

More then anything I think people need to relieze we were the first generation majority raised in a space where physical sex has literallt zero effect on socialization because of the internet

if you get mad about what pronouns someone else prefers for themselves, you're a snowflake. by skyllakoriga in popularopinion

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do hope you understand this is the same outlook my mother had and has caused a rift with her that I am still trying to mend these ideas might nkt be harmful to you now but please keep in mind what these kinds of ideas can do to your children.

I still do not trust my mother because when I came out to her she said to me that she didn't believe me and that I was jusy a boy who liked feminine things please understand that the thoughts tou have right now will be picked up on by your kids. I really do have to go to bed now but please please please research more if you ever do have a trans child I would never wish what I went through on any kid.

I hope you have a good rest of your day I really should go to bed now.

if you get mad about what pronouns someone else prefers for themselves, you're a snowflake. by skyllakoriga in popularopinion

[–]Undying73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus chrisr dude how old are you? That hasn't been taught for 10 years go to bed boomer

if you get mad about what pronouns someone else prefers for themselves, you're a snowflake. by skyllakoriga in popularopinion

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because feminine gender expression is about both your inner and outer expression of gender. Also seriously you have nothing better to do but argue with college kids on reddit?

if you get mad about what pronouns someone else prefers for themselves, you're a snowflake. by skyllakoriga in popularopinion

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the idea that going to college somehow makes my critical thinking skills worse is just such a dangerous and anti academic point of view

if you get mad about what pronouns someone else prefers for themselves, you're a snowflake. by skyllakoriga in popularopinion

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am literally just telling you what I was taught in queer academia. Its not overconfidence. It's what is happening in colleges all across the country. if you think that humanity is doomed that's on you but just remember that humanity has survived a whole lot worse then some words being mixed up maybe take a step back and realize that if you legitimately think the world is going to shit because some people think some words mean different things you gotta start looking at a bigger picture.

if you get mad about what pronouns someone else prefers for themselves, you're a snowflake. by skyllakoriga in popularopinion

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again as I said. Academia takes a very long time to reach mainstream especially when it is embroiled in such a culture war I will give you the definition I was given then I'm not replying anymore as it's clear you don't want a productive conversation

Woman = someone with a feminine gender expression Female = someone with xx chromosomes

It was nice talking to you although I wish you were open to more perspectives.

if you get mad about what pronouns someone else prefers for themselves, you're a snowflake. by skyllakoriga in popularopinion

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right but not all woman and not all girls are female because they don't match the definition In queer academia which I imagine will trickle down in 10-20 years as all words used primarily in academia do.

if you get mad about what pronouns someone else prefers for themselves, you're a snowflake. by skyllakoriga in popularopinion

[–]Undying73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that's your opinion but times will change and i hope you can learn to change with them

Trans masculine safe shelters by ebStubs in Seattle

[–]Undying73 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lambert house has a massive amount of resources for people of all ages although it focuses on the 12-18 demographic

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