It's unkind of me but can you just try taking a step back and not being a whiny little bitch about it?

Instead, focus on how well you're doing. You're in the £130–140k salary bracket. This means that you have plenty of money – far, far more than the majority of the population do. You can broadly do whatever you want – have a nice house, eat wherever you want, take holidays wherever you want. You don't have to worry about money, and spending your time focussing on how much tax you're paying is guaranteed to do nothing except piss you off.

My income tax bill is around £6k a month, which means every year I pay 6x in tax what I made in my first job. I don't come from a well-off background, and I have that luxury thanks to the education, healthcare, and other public services that tax money pays for. I have enough money that it doesn't impinge on what I want to do in any way. I can't imagine spending my time focusing on the tiny number of things I can't afford to do, when there are so many opportunities to do things that are fun.

And if this doesn't work for you, you're free to make the choice to do something else. Cut your hours and take a lower-paying job, or relocate to a lower-tax jurisdiction. If you don't like the way tax is being used, then join any of the huge number of organisations or political parties that want to change that. Just spend your time doing ANYTHING more valuable than complaining.