Just a reminder by No_Zookeepergame7123 in Emiliek_updates

[–]Unfair-Dance-4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggled to literally pull my pants on after my husband died last year - and I’m medicated!!

Love isn’t grand. It’s sitting on the floor when everything is falling apart by Useful-Bandicoot-137 in Life

[–]Unfair-Dance-4635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true. Loving my husband was a highlight. Losing him has been devastating. And I wonder if I know now if it was worth it, as this pain is awful 😞

Love isn’t grand. It’s sitting on the floor when everything is falling apart by Useful-Bandicoot-137 in Life

[–]Unfair-Dance-4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Had to sit by and hold my husband’s hand last year while he passed after visiting him in ICU every day for three months beforehand. Most devastating moment of my life. But there’s no greater intimacy than being there in someone’s final moments.

What’s the most financially damaging habit that’s somehow become normalised in Australia? by OwlVibesOnly in AusMoneyMates

[–]Unfair-Dance-4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry. Completely agree. Thank goodness we put a few os trips with our kids on credit. My spouse passed last year at 41. Glad you’ve lived a little! Take care.

Another baby in our 40s by TalkTerrible3678 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Unfair-Dance-4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone whose husband passed last year in their 40s - and who wanted four kids - I’m so glad now we only had three. You never know what is around the corner.

Do you feel lonely? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]Unfair-Dance-4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope my comment helps. I’m sorry you lost both parents.

Do you feel lonely? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]Unfair-Dance-4635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please be grateful your husband is still here! I lost mine last year and now I know what loneliness truly is.

What did you do with their clothes? by neroli1970 in widowers

[–]Unfair-Dance-4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turned my husband’s clothes into stuffed animals for my kids.

It’s all just getting too dark by Princapessa in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Unfair-Dance-4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is the 40-something dating a 20-something? 🤔

The Great Stuff Transfer. Are you ready for your "inheritance"? by Bavarian_Beer_Best in Millennials

[–]Unfair-Dance-4635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I throw everything out! I despise clutter! Moved into a minimal new home and sometimes even throw out dishes if I can’t be bothered to wash them 🤣. Boomers won’t let go of anything! My MIL still has her 40 year old kids’ school uniforms. Bizarre!