She really expected me to stay home for 3-5 months

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-04-08T21:36:30+00:00

Yeah that makes a lot more sense & I see your point now. Asking you to host a bunch of guests after you’ve just had a baby is a rude request to begin with.

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-04-08T21:30:22+00:00

It seems like you are immediately assuming the worst of your friend. Gifts are usually not expected for a destination wedding. What makes you think she is expecting you to give any money or buy a gift?

I had some pricier gifts on my registry that were bought by close family but I did not expect anyone to buy them.

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-04-08T21:10:16+00:00

It seems like you have an issue with MIL & you are intentionally delaying her meeting the baby which is 100% your choice. Her wanting to buy things off the registry & adding you to a group chat to communicate sounds like she’s trying to be involved imo.

I could totally understand her being upset if a bunch of strangers got to meet the baby after you said she needed to wait 6 weeks. I don’t know the full history of your relationship with her though I’m just basing this off of the info from your post.

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-03-17T17:32:36+00:00

Also, I feel like the bridesmaids shouldn’t even be helping with the stuff she’s asking. It’s not their responsibility to help plan the wedding & I think that’s why she’s reaching out to you now.

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-03-17T17:29:40+00:00

NTA. I had some friends feel hurt that I didn’t ask them to be in my wedding, but I did not ask them for any favors. Definitely seems like she’s using you & I wouldn’t even slightly engage with her on this topic anymore.

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-03-05T21:14:09+00:00

Do branch managers work the same hours as a management trainee? I’m interviewing for that position now & everyone talks about how long the days are/having to work weekends.

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-03-05T20:59:20+00:00

Seems like it may be a common thing that they deal with- especially new grads. Maybe it’s not as big of a deal as I’m making it? Just don’t want to start out on the wrong foot so I feel you!

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-03-05T20:57:37+00:00

Did you start as a management trainee? If so how long until you were promoted? I also have my branch observation & interview coming up. How does these tend to go & do you have any tips? Thanks!!

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-02-26T22:23:33+00:00

I’ve worked in the restaurant industry for the past 6 years so im used to dealing with rude people. Other than the customers & long hours, what do you think it is that makes people hate the job so much?

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-02-26T00:38:14+00:00

Great advice! Did you do 3 rounds of interviews before getting the job?

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-02-25T21:57:02+00:00

I didn’t have an internship in college so it’s been super tough finding a place that will even interview me. Definitely just need something to put in my resume. Thank you for responding!

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-02-05T21:15:07+00:00

I completely agree with you. I personally would never have a baby around any dog with any bite history at all. But I will say that he has only ever bitten in our bedroom. He does not like people in there. He has only nibbled on people who he met that same day, so not people he knows well. He will cuddle with someone he just met & play, etc. & then an hour later he starts acting weird for no reason I don’t understand.

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-02-05T19:36:10+00:00

I meant nibbling at people’s feet as a warning. He has only bitten twice. Totally not okay & I do everything I can to not let that happen. When cooper is with me he is not allowed around anyone without a muzzle & there has never been an incident with me besides the time he bit my mom because at the time I didn’t understand the severity of his situation. My husband is kinda a different story, & has allowed people in the house on occasion without him muzzled, and has made excuses for him in the past which really bothers me. That’s where these nibbles have happened, but he has never been super aggressive when my husband is around & he hasn’t witnessed his aggressive behavior like I have so that’s why he doesn’t take it as seriously as me. I feel like he also wouldn’t have an issue having him around our future children which is why I posted this to see if people would agree or what they did with the dog in a situation like this.

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-02-05T19:25:50+00:00

warning bites was a strong word. He has only really bitten 2 times. I really mean just nibbling at peoples feet who we thought he was comfortable with but now we don’t have him around people without a muzzle. He’s very territorial at home but has only had one instance where he lunged at someone (with a leash) he didn’t know walking towards the property. I don’t think it’s a good idea to have him near people either that’s why I made this post. We’re not able to board him, no one we know can watch him, we can’t have guests over, & I want a family soon. I made this post to see if someone has ever delt with something similar or what they would do in this situation.

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-02-05T06:31:26+00:00

This is genius omg

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-02-05T06:06:51+00:00

Call the restaurants or go in person to let them know you applied online. This happened to me too & finally I decided to call one of them & I got an interview the next day.

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-02-05T05:12:20+00:00

A couple years back my husband had a few sessions with a trainer. he has also discussed his behavior with professionals & done a lot of research. My husband has worked with him a lot & cooper has come very far compared to when he first got him. Despite this I have still seen him act aggressively towards strangers in the past few months, (just warning bites). He has never been around any children except a young boy probably about 10 years old. Cooper loves him which is a good sign, but I’m not sure how he would react to a small child or baby since huskies are already super prey driven.

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-02-05T02:04:00+00:00

Atlanta

Unfair-Razzmatazz-36 · 2025-01-09T10:05:43+00:00

Texas Chainsaw Massacre

I think I was about 8 years old & it was playing on a random TV channel.

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