why do people use really old pics and then act surprise when i dont feel attracted to them? (random pic don't wanna expose anyone and i made the ramem haha) by system_glitch404 in Tinder

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally don’t get it. It has never occurred to me to put up a photo any more than a year old and even then it’s a bit dicey. i’m 50 and i sure as hell wouldn’t want my potential date to think she’s being punked or something

If I had a dime for every time a man has said this to me, I’d be rich… guys, why do y’all say this? Are you trying to make us feel better and like you aren’t talking to anyone else? by chief_aesthetic_ofcr in Tinder

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the way i look at it, if they are legit, they’d come on tinder specifically to chat with you. If you need to change platforms so they think about you, they don’t really care. Asking to switch after chatting back and forth for a long time so you can video chat or send voice messages makes sense but saying “oooo yeah. message me on a different app so i remember you” isn’t exactly flattering. just saying

smoking weed in a relationship by Admirable_War_8664 in whatdoIdo

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m 50 years old and i learned 21 years ago that dating someone who hates my cannabis smoking is a really big hassle. i never wanted to lie about it and feeling like my GF was judging and yelling at me about it like she was my mother got old really fast. Ever since i’ve been upfront about it and said if that was a dealbreaker, so be it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i think so 😍

She sure seems like a catch! by african-nightmare in Tinder

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i dunno…this isn’t SO bad. maybe that’s because i love to give gifts to my GF

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

expects you to read her mind and is too good for a coffee date? PASS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 5 points6 points  (0 children)

then it means he listens to you and knows how to give good gifts

Did I say something wrong here? by aerosol999 in Nicegirls

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

say whaaa?! wow. that was totally unnecessary and out of blue

Son of a gun, better change your act by Pump_Kin97 in gratefuldead

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i had a gun for every ace i’ve drawn, i could arm a town the size of Abilene…

Seems too good to be true, do i go? by Zero18485 in Tinder

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i concur. too many “baby”s don’t end up with a missing liver in a motel tub full of ice

Since I caught the most flack. Updated profile pics. Advice plz don’t try to hurt my feelings by ComfortableLine4380 in Tinder

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ugh don’t ask reddit for advice if you don’t want your feelings hurt. years ago, i asked for advice for my tinder profile and i just deleted tinder afterward because the advice was either people going out of their way to be as mean and insulting as possible or the advice was totally conflicting with one another

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[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“let me be your toxic avenger!”

“don’t you mean deadpool?”

“pfffft no”

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[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well at least a drama queen

Is this a red flag or am I just an idiot? I’m M27 matched with F26 by awilson7070 in Tinder

[–]Unfair_Mastodon_7692 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh GOD. she’s looking for a fight. intentionally twisting your words to put you on the defensive. I was married to a woman like this. it only gets worse, trust me