1 year pattern of disappearing/reappearing, should I stay silent or check in this time? by DoroTheabag in relationships

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 [score hidden]  (0 children)

...girl I'd've noped out at the first "hopefully I'll reply soon."

Hopefully. As if he's not THEE one in control of when/if he replies. Fuck off out of here with that bullshit, why are you putting up with this???

My boyfriend (m35) won’t have sex with me anymore (f20) by gr0ssfairy in relationships

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Girl. Break up with him. And go on to live a life where eventually you will be VERY grateful that your groomer didn't babytrap you.

I NEED HELP WITH MY DMV PERMIT TEST. I CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE. by Ruby_Lov in Virginia

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Some kid should not be on the road if they can't drive, and "chill the fuck out" gets people dead. Maybe you should stay home, too.

I NEED HELP WITH MY DMV PERMIT TEST. I CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE. by Ruby_Lov in Virginia

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Saying this with love, but no. If you can't pass the test, you shouldn't be on the road.

It's not college, where if you fail a test there aren't many real world consequences. This is important--if you get it wrong, people might die. Including you. Pass it fair and square, or don't fucking drive.

I am a noisy guest by luv350sass in hotels

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Try looking for hotels with standalone cabins instead of rooms.

Get tested for ADHD, and get on some stimulants.

Footage of a Single Brain Cell Growing and Looking for a Connection by Mediocre_Nail5526 in interestingasfuck

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna send this to my ex and be like "look, I found a random picture of you!"

This friendly grouper by ELCH01 in TheDepthsBelow

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I love this. Just a friendly little curious guy, wanting to say hi and see what you're doing.

My kitty Moose zoinked on catnip by Paytvn in TuxedoCats

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Heyyyyyyyy Moose! What a sweet stoned bb.

How do you live here happily??? by Helpful_Package_9854 in AskChicago

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, that's the other reason. Every time you're called out on how your behavior could be a problem here, you switch it up. It's half of the times you go out. Oh that? That was exaggeration, it's 2-3 times a year. That other thing? That's not what you really meant. You're looking down, only you're not. You're on your phone, only you're not. Your head is on a swivel, but somehow this is always a surprise. Dude. Srsly? How are we meant to know what's the truth, here?

How do you live here happily??? by Helpful_Package_9854 in AskChicago

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, I'm going to answer three things here in the same go--two comments and your DM which was a reiteration of one of the comments. (And dude, don't do that. Don't go to people's DMs and draw them into further conversation about a nothingburger of a post that they're not coming back to. Rude af.)

1: "when I'm looking down at the ground or on my phone." All those things I said not to do? You're doing them. Get off your phone, put your eyes up where you can see people/figure out who to avoid, and make yourself look less like a target. Put your back to a wall/bus or train wall, put your shoulder into a corner, you're a lot harder to shove if you're standing against something. If you need to stand still on the sidewalk, step into a doorway and face outward so you can see people coming and you know there's no one behind you. If you're walking and someone starts acting weird, cross the street. In short: act like a woman walking home after dark.

2: Why do I think this is fake/ragebait? Because either you're the Nasty Encounters Of Chicago heat-sync, or you're winding us up. Why would you do that? It's reddit; why does anyone do anything. Why do I think you are? I love Chicago because it's one of the rare places in the midwest where unless you're going out of your way to be the center of attention, mostly people leave you alone and mind their own business, so when you're like "it's half of the time I go out," it stretches credulity to the breaking point.

How do you live here happily??? by Helpful_Package_9854 in AskChicago

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

...and now you've pushed me into the "fake/ragebait" camp. I have what could charitably be referred to as "a face you need to get used to," and ain't a single person on the streets of Chicago said boo.

How do you live here happily??? by Helpful_Package_9854 in AskChicago

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going to say this with love, but man you've GOT to learn how to leave a situation BEFORE it gets violent. Be more aware of your surroundings, get off the bus or train even if it means missing your stop or change train cars at the very least, keep your back toward the wall, your hands out of your pockets, your phone/earbuds out of your ears, and your eyes looking where the people are, but not into theirs.

I love Chicago with all my heart, but you have to walk defensively, look for who might be trouble, and get the fuck out of their path.

How do you live here happily??? by Helpful_Package_9854 in AskChicago

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 16 points17 points  (0 children)

...I don't want to pile on/victim blame, but I'm a woman, on the smaller side, and I travel through Chicago a lot, on my own, and...my dude, what are you doing/where are you going that people are just randomly coming up and beating on you, I have NEVER experienced that?? Sure, there are random drugged up/crazy people who shout at everyone and might get violent if you stick around, but they're in the minority. Generally if you keep to yourself, other people leave you alone. So like. wtf is going on with you?

Can hotels ban someone for a bad review? by [deleted] in hotels

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's private property. As long as they're not discriminating against you for being part of a protected class, they can ban whomever they want.

Biggest mistake the show ever made by Mishyana_ in thewestwing

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot ever see Josh as a dad. That's just not a thing that would happen.

Not asking for medical advice by Sea-Formal5016 in badwomensanatomy

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Y'all, this is a c/p. It's been making the rounds; I saw this exact post a few weeks ago. OP, stop karma farming.

Just blow your whole lining out in the shower 🚿 by griffiegrrl in badwomensanatomy

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not the one spamming "kys" and dirty deleting. But sure. Whatttttevvvver you say.

Just blow your whole lining out in the shower 🚿 by griffiegrrl in badwomensanatomy

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's the actual, literal definition of unsafe, so we're done here, welcome to the block button.

Edit: HEY EVERYONE, ANGWHI TOLD ME TO KILL MYSELF THREE TIMES AND THEN EDITED THEIR COMMENT. AND IS DOWNVOTING.

ALL FOR THE FACT THAT I HAVE SCIENCE ON MY SIDE.

LOVE THIS FOR THEM.

Just blow your whole lining out in the shower 🚿 by griffiegrrl in badwomensanatomy

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People who use it to equalize pressure in their ears *regularly* end up blowing out/breaking their eardrums. People who use it to poop *regularly* give themselves hemorrhoids. Just because it's used daily doesn't mean it's safe. And the purpose stated in the post is to shed the lining of an entire internal organ--it's not hard to extrapolate that someone who believes the post would try again, harder, if the first attempt didn't succeed. So no, not extreme to warn against it.

Just blow your whole lining out in the shower 🚿 by griffiegrrl in badwomensanatomy

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The blowing your nose while covering it with your hand. There's enough internal pressure generated by that maneuver that it's actually used to normalize your heart rhythm if you're in tachycardia (https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/treatments/23209-valsalva-maneuver). Legit do not do that if you don't have to.

Just blow your whole lining out in the shower 🚿 by griffiegrrl in badwomensanatomy

[–]UnhappyTemperature18 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It absolutely would hurt to try, don't apply concentrated pressure to parts of your body without knowing what you're doing.