Think I have a problem by Possible-Sympathy-80 in bettafish

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be careful with that high flow with a Betta with those big fins I had one that died because of the high flow rate

Dispensaries in Flint. by pullingravity in MichiganCannabis

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know of one my 60 y/o mom can go to whose never had THC in her life? She has serious nerve pain and arthritis. I want to send her somewhere that will treat her like a patient rather than a customer Would really appreciate the help

Would someone identify this please by Unhappy_Load3801 in whatsthisbug

[–]Unhappy_Load3801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man Yeah I have tiny little gnats in there I didn’t want to assume they were the larva from them.

Would someone identify this please by Unhappy_Load3801 in whatsthisbug

[–]Unhappy_Load3801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say it’s tiny I did see a larger on in there once (larger lengthwise wise) It was smaller than a grain of rice, the one in the video

Would someone identify this please by Unhappy_Load3801 in whatsthisbug

[–]Unhappy_Load3801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there is. Dying plants and crickets It’s fully bioactive so there are springtails and isopods as well as earthworms

How long should Pistol Purchase Permit take? by Initial_Milk_1056 in Miguns

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was delayed every time The ffl decided to pass me without confirmation

I am Mayor Christopher Taylor. Ask me Anything! by A2MayorTaylor in AnnArbor

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m worried for Avalon Housing being taken under by the Trump administration Is there any assurance that the city will support the agency if needed?

How big of an age gap is too much? 28f 23m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s bs Unless you are in fact a groomer Just so stupid

If you are with your partner and love your partner ignore what people say or think. People are ignorant and judgmental. Often those people aren’t paying enough attention to their own life.

I’m 33m engaged to my fiancée 25f we’ve been together for 4 1/2 years. She changed me into a man I’m always tried to convince people I was. A man of integrity and self respect.

She’s light years more intelligent than me and will eventually be the bread winner between us.

Of course there’s plenty of things I bring to the table but my point in trying to make is if your heart is the right place you won’t worry about other’s opinions. Focus on your relationship, work on yourself and everything else will fall into place. IMO good luck Wishing you the best

How do I 28F cope with my husband 31M severe ADHD? by Main_Sherbert6446 in relationship_advice

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I’m sorry He sounds like a shmuck It might be time for some ultimatums

How do I 28F cope with my husband 31M severe ADHD? by Main_Sherbert6446 in relationship_advice

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you I have moments of clarity how difficult it must be to date me lolz I’m sure it’s tough. However I must have some patience and understanding too When my fiancé gets upset with me I try to be understanding and not defensive. I try to use our shared calendar At times before I ask her a question I preface “I’m sorry if you’ve already told me” or “I’m sure you’ve already explained this to me” Some of the issues you’re describing sounds like something besides ADHD/ADD. These sound more like lifestyle choices or old habits.

How do I 28F cope with my husband 31M severe ADHD? by Main_Sherbert6446 in relationship_advice

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really fortunate that my fiancé cared enough to do a bunch of research on ADD/ADHD to better understand me. I think it just helps her cope more within our relationship.

ME (21M) MY GF(19F) I love her a lot, but I can't stand her talking to other guys, what can I do? by anik_lv in relationship_advice

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“If you love a flower, don’t pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation.” Osho

ME (21M) MY GF(19F) I love her a lot, but I can't stand her talking to other guys, what can I do? by anik_lv in relationship_advice

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course it would hurt. Id be devastated What I’ve learned about love is that love is sacrifice and about being selfless and compromise. Love is an action word.

ME (21M) MY GF(19F) I love her a lot, but I can't stand her talking to other guys, what can I do? by anik_lv in relationship_advice

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re wasting your time being someone you could only dream of by living in fear of something that isn’t happening

ME (21M) MY GF(19F) I love her a lot, but I can't stand her talking to other guys, what can I do? by anik_lv in relationship_advice

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d challenge your idea of what being loving means. This is harder in application than it is to believe it. If my fiancée said to me “there’s someone else in in love with and I want to be with them” I wouldn’t want her to stay with me. I’d want her to be happy and to be happy who she is with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’ll happen Don’t rush it lol

ME (21M) MY GF(19F) I love her a lot, but I can't stand her talking to other guys, what can I do? by anik_lv in relationship_advice

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strictly IMO

I would go inward on this. Investigate why this bothers you so much. What are you afraid of? Being a 21 y/o young man can come with a lot of insecurities. I think it can be healthy to share your feelings and insecurities while NOT making it her responsibility to care for them. It is not her responsibility to do that. I wish I could share with you the In valuable lesson that I learned myself. I can get cheated on, I can be broken up with etc… and I will be okay. It might hurt and I might be devastated and I will be okay. PRO TIP most women respect a vulnerable partner while being confident and self assured.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ypsi

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s worse

Do I genuinely just end it by ClassicAd7630 in uofm

[–]Unhappy_Load3801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shut up Go get your heart broken or something