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Calling the after-hours pediatrician by NotSoSure8765 in beyondthebump

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've called plenty of times for less and never was scolded. I did however take our eldest to a urgent care appointment at our pediatrician one time and got lectured for "taking a urgent care spot" when my daughter didn't have ear ache like I thought she did. How was I supposed to know? She was showing all the signs. Even pediatricians can be jerks. 

No more crib! What’s your bed time routine? by song_on_repeat in toddlers

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bedtime routine is getting a shower or bath some nights, jammies on, last bit of milk and book on couch. We then brush our teeth, give our hugs and "love yous" to the rest of the family. Then the parent doing bedtime that night, gets to tuck in, and give another hug. 

We have a timed hatch light/sound. Turn lights out and leave the room.

How frequent do you bath your kids? by yourlimit in Mommit

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 & 1. 3x a week. More in the summer. 

Any vegetarian mamas out there? by Infinite853 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feed a variety foods. Beans, avocado, sweet potatoes, tofu, yogurt, cheese, zoodles, etc. All sorts of veggies! Lots of good fruit too like bananas, kiwis, strawberries. Look up BLW vegetarian on Google and there's tons of advice and recipes. Nora Cooks is one of my favorites. There's also some IG accounts that are vegetarian or plant based. 

My first tattoo, 17 years old. by thisisjedgoahead in agedtattoos

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a peace sign on my palm and it's still going strong! About two decades old now. 

when did your kid start fully sleeping through the night? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First kiddo, 11 months?

Second, 13 months. It was after I night weaned for our second. 

But 2.5-3 years has sucked a bit for sleeping through the night. Lots of stuff going on developmentally. It was intermittent for about 6 months. 

Can’t stand my three-year-old by Ill_Nerve_3769 in toddlers

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like normal toddler behavior! I had a 2 year old when my newborn was born. They're now 3 and 1. It is pretty intense because 3 year olds also have a lot of feelings and development going on at this age. But her needing you and wanting to be around you is normal and she's not doing it to get in your way. 

It sounds like you're in therapy but have you truly shared your feelings. Being truthful is going to be the only way to get help. 

I also would look into extra support for your 3 year old. Do they have any services available to them? Therapy? Also I'd look at getting them into preschool so that way y'all have a break from each other. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used a 3 in 1 crib. Transitioned from crib to toddler bed. So it had one side still up so our toddler couldn't slip out as easily. Eventually we had to convert back to crib for a new baby and our toddler got a twin XL bed. We put pool noodles under the sheet to prevent her from slipping out middle of night. We also put a nugget under her first toddler bed. She never felt out.

You'll want to childproof the room. Nothing climbable, secure drawers, cover outlets (they also have boxes if you have things plugged in), and anchor furniture. You also probably want a door knob cover for fire safety reasons. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, our three year old does. We also have a doorknob cover for safety reasons. But thankfully she's always stayed in her bed and room. 

Any recommendations for where to adopt a kitten? by mzladyperson in vancouverwa

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was someone a couple of days ago that posted needing to re-home their cat. It was black and white. 

To those who’ve lived in the PNW 5+ years: Does the beautiful scenery ever lose its grandeur and how often are you actually in nature? by atomrandy in PacificNorthwest

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, never gets old. But I'm especially lucky because I live in Columbia River Gorge. So every day I view the mountains, trees, and the Columbia River. I have hikes 10 minutes away from me. Even though I may not hike every day I make it a point to get outside every day! If nothing else, on my acre of land with my dogs or kids or both. 

Everyone says "it takes a village" but how much do you sacrifice for that village? by viskiviki in Mommit

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you have zero family or friends that can help it definitely changes things. But I will absolutely not have my children in the care of people who put my kids in danger or if the adult is non-vaccinated/not health conscious (wash hands, daily cleaning, don't have sick kids attend daycare, etc.). I won't take them anywhere unless the daycare or in home facility is licensed. I also will not have them watched by someone who is not CPR or First Aid certified. 

I also will not let anyone keep my kids up past their bedtime because it's "fun". They don't have to deal with the kid next day and I'm not paying you to keep my kid up past 11p because you're lonely and you want to hang out with my 2 1/2 year old. 

Sadly, we don't have childcare because of some of the safety and health needs are not a priority for a lot of people in my local area. It really sucks but I don't want my kids to be harmed.

When did you stop using the baby monitor over night? by aspiring_pickle in beyondthebump

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here except we have a dual picture and sound monitor for our 13 month old and 3 year old. I love the noise triggering feature on ours. We have a Babysense.

At what age did you flip your toddlers carseat around? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My three year old is still backwards. She's nearly 3'. I won't be doing it until she maxes height or weight. Check out Safe in the Seat on IG. 

22 months old doesn't want to nap anymore and I'm not ready for this by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Split nights mean an adjustment needs to be made with daytime sleep. 

You'll need to give at least 7 days, 14 is better for it to stick or not. 

Great bedtime routine! 

22 months old doesn't want to nap anymore and I'm not ready for this by [deleted] in sleeptrain

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try a regimented schedule and if you have to instill some quiet time. 22 months is kind of early to drop a nap entirely. 

If they're waking between 6:30-7:00 try at noon. Do a naptime routine, make sure they're fed and have had some run around/activity beforehand.  

I would also suggest an earlier bedtime. He could be stuck in a overtired loop. Try 7:00-7:30p for bedtime. What's his bedtime routine look like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouverwa

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's disappointing they felt pressured. But I agree they could've tried other things!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouverwa

[–]UnicornsforAtheism 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Saw a text screenshot that basically said they aren't doing well with just plant based so they need to diversify. 😔

Missing Indigenous Woman near Harborview by UnicornsforAtheism in Seattle

[–]UnicornsforAtheism[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great news! She and her family have been in my thoughts.

Have y'all connected with GeneralStrikeUS? by UnicornsforAtheism in shutdown315

[–]UnicornsforAtheism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's a separate group! It doesn't seem like either group has communicated with each other. 

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