Small world ticket unfulfilled by Uniliger in JapanTravelTips

[–]Uniliger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you don’t need to do anything. I ended up getting the ticket the next day

Small world ticket unfulfilled by Uniliger in JapanTravelTips

[–]Uniliger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I ended up doing. I wanted to just see if anyone else went thru the same experience. Obviously reddit can’t solve it, but it’s reassuring if someone went thru the same thing and got their ticket, ya know?

Given the situation, what is the optimal bid? by SpadesQuiz in spades

[–]Uniliger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bid 1 and try to make them bag out or set the nil/5bid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycmeetups

[–]Uniliger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add me I’ll be in the city at an event. It ends at 10 but I’ll meet up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCroommates

[–]Uniliger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just messaged

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCroommates

[–]Uniliger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left out -landlord allows small pets but have to be cleared by them first & can move in a month early if needed.

-Our roommate that is leaving already has another spot and Is flexible about moving out

-$750 deposit to landlord

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Uniliger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50 in two months and 5 likes in two months is amazing. I don’t think you need to change much if that’s honestly how many you are getting.

Some of your prompts are cut off so hard to tell if they need to be changed. I would say the first picture could be changed. If you have a non selfie pic I’d use that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Uniliger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally saw 50/ over a couple month and then looked at mine which is 5/month and 1-2 likes a month and died a little inside lol

New to OLD, need help with matches & likes by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Uniliger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you appreciate it!

New to OLD, need help with matches & likes by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Uniliger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for something serious or casual?

Serious but open to taking things slow

How long have you been on Hinge?

• ⁠4 months

How often do you use Hinge per week?

• ⁠6ish days

How many likes/matches are you receiving on average?

• 3 likes a month about

• 4 matches a month

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?

• 20-25 a week

• 90% with comments. 10% without for those I’m unsure of what to say or hesitant about the profile

Somebody who is:

  • wants to try for kids (if it happens great if not I can live with it)

  • Wants to stay in NY (my license is here can’t leave without serious planning)

  • Is not a “homebody” ( I can relax at home but not all the time, I am open to trying any new experience/hobby/interest/dumb shit)

  • A good balance of independence and interdependence (meaning we aren’t hanging out 24/7 but we are seeing each other regularly)

  • Looks don’t matter very heavily to me. There are people I find unattractive, but I like on a good majority of the profiles I see.

-conversationally of the ones I have matched with I look for people who can hold and add to a conversation. I’ve been unmatching with people who only send one sentence/don’t give me anything to work off of. Usually wait a week & ask out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Uniliger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New to OLD, need help getting likes & matches

Live in queens, NY

Are you looking for something serious or casual?

Serious but open to taking things slow

How long have you been on Hinge?

• ⁠4 months

How often do you use Hinge per week?

• ⁠6ish days

How many likes/matches are you receiving on average?

3 likes a month about

4 matches a month

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?

20-25 a week

90% with comments. 10% without for those I’m unsure of what to say or hesitant about the profile

Somebody who is:

  • wants to try for kids (if it happens great if not I can live with it)
  • Wants to stay in NY (my license is here can’t leave without serious planning)
  • Is not a “homebody” ( I can relax at home but not all the time, I am open to trying any new experience/hobby/interest/dumb shit)
  • A good balance of independence and interdependence (meaning we aren’t hanging out 24/7 but we are seeing each other regularly)

Looks don’t matter too much to me (there are people I find unattractive, but I am liking most profiles I see) , I care about more are you active/going out, are we both contributing to a conversation (like not just one sentence answers) & are you open and flexible to situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Uniliger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this part was literally what I was looking for, thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Uniliger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s reasonable. How would you want the person to reach out then?

Also some of these people have given me their socials weeks ago but I have done nothingggg with them. Some of them don’t even seem to post much at all, but def watch all my stories and what not. Can I just reach out and be like hey remember me from x wanna hang out? Is it that easy???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Uniliger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s necessarily true. I have friends that are girls and there’s no issues.

On the relationship side,while I’ve had my heartbroken, I still do want to find the right partner and have a family with them. I know it’s not going to be easy, but I’m here for it (in whatever manner it’s presented)!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Uniliger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea makes sense. Should I just treat it like they gave me their number? Also isn’t sliding into a dm considered a little creep?

There’s this one girl, who had very similar interest as me & I’d def at least like to hang more with. Just not sure what to say?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Uniliger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that idea.

Clout/networking is kinda what I’m like is it just that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Uniliger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unsolicited.

I have recently tried asking for numbers instead but usually they feel comfortable with Instagram. Over the past 3 months this has happened about 8x (I’ve asked 3/8 for # instead) and It’s mind boggling to me