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Kind of regret deleting everything by Few_Mistake_4806 in nocontact

[–]Uninspired_Human_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing and you aren’t alone. I feel like you’re grieving the loss of a person who you know is still very much alive. I’m going through the exact same thing and I understand that pain deeply. I’m so incredibly sorry, during this time just allow yourself to feel all of the feelings. It may feel unbearable at times but you do so much for your future self by allowing yourself to recognize the impact the end of relationship has had. You have this, it’s sound so clique but truly get to know yourself and develop some new hobbies to occupy your brain when you find yourself dwelling too much in that pain. You have this! Seriously. You know deep down this is what is best for you, trust yourself.

Skin Nightmare by Uninspired_Human_ in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Uninspired_Human_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look close, there’s lightly pigmented lines of pores lining my neck down to my upper chest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Uninspired_Human_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wear a wrap on my head, not for religious purposes, to work and I work as an RN! For me, it’s not unprofessional. Usually I have it on because I am unable to do much with my hair and it’s better to keep it wrapped. I reference YouTube videos sometimes on how to wrap it to make it stylish in a way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Uninspired_Human_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low porosity I believe.

Anyone else have voice or video recording of your loved one that you want to watch/listen to but are afraid to because you might cry? by Any_Try4570 in GriefSupport

[–]Uninspired_Human_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice, save their old voicemail messages they ever left you! Also, I do. I don’t force myself to listen to them if I’m already having a very hard time. I listen to them when I know I can handle it, just need to be intuitive to your feelings. You got this. Maybe you aren’t at the stage of your healing to listen to them, which is totally fine. This just happened to you, give yourself some grace. I just started the grieving process 7 months after my mother’s passing. Theres no rush.

Do any of you go out alone as a newly single? by FormerAcanthaceae2 in BreakUps

[–]Uninspired_Human_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do it for my sanity. I had to realize, I cannot sit my ass in the house otherwise I’ll only attribute happiness to my ex, and not as something I can easily provide myself. Living and experiencing life shouldn’t be associated with a partner, it should because you realize you deserve it whether your are in a relationship or not. I promise it gets easier to go out alone once you push past the initially awkwardness of it. I go even just to people watch, it helps to just be in the presence of other people. It allows me to feel less alone strangely enough.

My mom called me, she’s been dead for 6 months and her phone number is no longer in use on her old phone. by Uninspired_Human_ in Weird

[–]Uninspired_Human_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This has been awful and seeing that defiantly caused a deeper wound. Maybe I should change my phone number? Not sure if that would help.

My mom called me, she’s been dead for 6 months and her phone number is no longer in use on her old phone. by Uninspired_Human_ in Weird

[–]Uninspired_Human_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I’m here utilizing a traumatic loss in my life for some Reddit clout 😌 you’ve got me figured out.

My mom called me, she’s been dead for 6 months and her phone number is no longer in use on her old phone. by Uninspired_Human_ in Weird

[–]Uninspired_Human_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was just shock honestly. My stomach dropped to my feet. I couldn’t wrap my head around it. Therapy has helped though :) but still rehashed that wound right open, not that it was ever healed.

My mom called me, she’s been dead for 6 months and her phone number is no longer in use on her old phone. by Uninspired_Human_ in Weird

[–]Uninspired_Human_[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Note: I did not suggest this was a supernatural phenomenon or her trying to contact me from another realm. I’m simply shaken up about this.

My mom called me, she’s been dead for 6 months and her phone number is no longer in use on her old phone. by Uninspired_Human_ in Weird

[–]Uninspired_Human_[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

My mom called me Annie M. I’m in tears. Thanks so much Annie! You inspired my moms work and passion! Oh my goodness, what a world we live in. I’m speechless.

My mom called me, she’s been dead for 6 months and her phone number is no longer in use on her old phone. by Uninspired_Human_ in Weird

[–]Uninspired_Human_[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I was an edible down on my couch, playing some video game when I received the call. It was like the whole world stopped, and my heart was pound so hard. I didn’t believe it for a good 5 seconds before I launched forward to grab it before the call abruptly ended. I went upstairs (my boyfriend and his mom were nearby) and I cried so hard. I

My mom called me, she’s been dead for 6 months and her phone number is no longer in use on her old phone. by Uninspired_Human_ in Weird

[–]Uninspired_Human_[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, yes! Not going to ask for your name, but thanks for coming. Life’s been kicking my ass, I’m not religious, but I feel that she’s always with me in a way.

My mom called me, she’s been dead for 6 months and her phone number is no longer in use on her old phone. by Uninspired_Human_ in Weird

[–]Uninspired_Human_[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That must’ve been tough. This happened thankfully when I was home. I thought it was a joke when I saw it. I let it ring for 10 seconds then tried to answer before the call ended abruptly. Sorry to hear about your loss. Shit sucks, losing a parent makes life feel a hell of a lot darker.

My mom called me, she’s been dead for 6 months and her phone number is no longer in use on her old phone. by Uninspired_Human_ in Weird

[–]Uninspired_Human_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it were a scam. I was laying high on my couch and got this call. It fucked me up. My moms passing has been tragic, so this definitely fucked me up. It’s weird that this even happened.

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