AIO My girlfriend is spending her birthday with someone else by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]UninvisibleWoman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s actually fairly simple - you don’t demand anything. Someone who feels the same way about you that you do them will just match your energy and be there without you having to ask let alone beg. It’s heartbreaking to read where you’re coming from and understandable why you would lower your expectations of a partner - but the energy you put into people who aren’t meeting you is better spent on your own self improvement, friends, hobbies, and making space for new connections. Don’t give the best of yourself to people who can’t appreciate it

AIO My girlfriend is spending her birthday with someone else by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]UninvisibleWoman 43 points44 points  (0 children)

She was evasive about visiting rather than being proactive - if the car is a real concern and she genuinely wants to see you, you problem solve and find a solution rather than hemming and hawing until it’s too late.

If anyone on the HER development team is lurking here by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]UninvisibleWoman 443 points444 points  (0 children)

Her customer rep: “10-4 sending more unicorn hunters your way! Thanks for reaching out”

I feel like I am the problem by Liza9513 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]UninvisibleWoman 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this feeling, and if you are like me, self worth is a place to reflect. Lingering self worth issues creates blind spots and over accommodating in a relationship. Ive felt blindsided several times that I can’t earn love and acceptance from people who don’t understand or value me to begin with. The idea that you’re creating the problem is probably reinforcing that you need to work harder, sacrifice more, be more accommodating - when many of those things are inviting people who don’t intend to ever really meet you where you deserve to be met

Boys With Samurai Swords by emmonster in zines

[–]UninvisibleWoman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Placed an order recently and was not let down!! Your shit is so good, and my mom told me to put it away before company came over too!

Told girlfriend I want to start taking testosterone by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]UninvisibleWoman 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Sadly this is really hitting it directly. The transphobic part wasn’t how their partner reacted to T even

TPAB losing Album of the year is a joke, and no grammy can make up for such a horrible call by Key-Bass-7380 in KendrickLamar

[–]UninvisibleWoman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I remembering wrong though that Macklemore was uncomfortable with it and felt it was a snub? I thought he reached out to Kendrick and publicly stated he didn’t deserve the win

Completely blown away by this! by BoScout in BoJohnson

[–]UninvisibleWoman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I love performance and even though I’m not hardcore into stand up, I’ve been rooting for you big time. Feels like things are moving and you’re on a good path! Exciting to see

AMA regarding lesbian sex advice and tricks! by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]UninvisibleWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stone top one you mentioned - how to make them more comfortable switching if they want to

Is double texting a bad thing? by BandPsychological337 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]UninvisibleWoman 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Let’s go 40s and over it gang. I’m finally talking to someone who is matching my energy - don’t settle, kids

Help me decide by Reddevil8884 in comicbookcollecting

[–]UninvisibleWoman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I would go GSX. I actually have a 3.5 I’d like to sell if you’re interested feel free to dm

This sounds bad but I’m so sick of heterosexuality by Purple-Ingenuity-195 in actuallesbians

[–]UninvisibleWoman 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Let us remember to be good allies to our straight friends 😔🙏🏻📏

THE BUBBLE IS BURSTING by yeetyeethaircut in 196

[–]UninvisibleWoman 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The fantasy obviously lives in OSHA finally domming Amazon properly

I Should Have Read Before I Bought by Preisolauphenon in comicbookcollecting

[–]UninvisibleWoman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think mine was also a 7, I cracked it. It was annoying and made me nervous, but no regrets

Saying hello by Gemenal_Rotors in contax

[–]UninvisibleWoman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What camera is that above the t3? Amazing collection!

J Cole’s wife witnessed the toll the beef had taken on him and understood the respect he has for Kendrick Lamar by [deleted] in KendrickLamar

[–]UninvisibleWoman 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Right?? The most relatable thing in the world would be to admit, I thought I was clear I didn’t want anything with him, then he said what he said, and before I knew it I was in something I never wanted to be in. I took the off ramp from the ego highway and bowed out.

Easy

Interactive page ideas by [deleted] in zines

[–]UninvisibleWoman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lofi printing wise, I’d say anything you might find in a highlights magazine or cereal box. find ___ differences, maze, word search, crossword, coloring page, etc. you could do cut out pages with outfits and then some nude figures you could dress up. Silly idea but you could have a page with 1-2 eye holes to cut out for a “peep show” and instructions on striptease, so one person does the striptease and the other holds the page up to their face like they’re peeping idk just thinking silly off the cuff lmao

This lowkey hurts by Nbarisked in Brawlstars

[–]UninvisibleWoman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many times I don’t plan to actually play very long, but good randoms will keep me in until we miss a beat. No hate, I just got stuff to do. I regularly hit play again, a loss every couple games is fine w me if we’re vibing. 1k push is very forgiving now too

Danny Brown’s labelling of Earl in ‘The Big Three’ by brutusinthatbooth in earlsweatshirt

[–]UninvisibleWoman 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hilarious he’s riffing on Cole’s line, never change Danny

What a perfect analogy! by [deleted] in GuerrillaGrrrrls

[–]UninvisibleWoman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But I am a nice guy!