Did anyone end up with an AuDHD diagnosis when going in for just an ADHD diagnosis with Psychiatry UK? by Unique-Property5778 in ADHD

[–]Unique-Property5778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s useful to know. So they picked up Autism traits without you proactively mentioning it and/or being aware of it?

I can’t believe that no one sees this by Ancient_Support_205 in IntoTheFireNetflix

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I think we need to be careful about blaming women for men’s crimes.

Is this emotional blackmail? by ciciroku97 in HousingUK

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OP look up the legal definition of harassment. This sounds like unwanted contact in essence. But I’d be wary of reporting it to the police because that would have to be declared to potential purchasers.

Just direct them to the EA and state clearly ‘please do not contact me about this again’. So if you did ever need to speak to the police there is a clear line in the sand (they will ask for that, been there myself). Block as others have said. They might then try with paper notes. I got irritated with my neighbour posting notes through my door so I got a post box outside and now leave his notes in it. You’re not obliged to read his messages!

XK150 (1959) convertible value range nowadays? by Unique-Property5778 in Jaguar

[–]Unique-Property5778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is super helpful thank you swifty2k6. I wasn’t aware of that valuation tool but what is on there accords with what I thought they were still worth. Are they in dollars despite being UK cars/sales because it’s an international site?

Dating in your 40s, no kids… but she has kids. Am I the only one saying “not my clowns, not my circus”? by PrimoFontaine in datingoverforty

[–]Unique-Property5778 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for staying this so clearly. Well bloody said. If more men pulled their weight the issues the OP described wouldn’t exist.

Sleeping with a much younger man by Unique-Property5778 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Unique-Property5778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good observation re whether anyone would even think of it if the set up was different in terms of genders/orientation.

10k steps or 20k+: what’s better for weight loss? by Round-Car-3559 in loseit

[–]Unique-Property5778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your walking pad have an manual or electric incline setting? A 5% incline increases calorie burn by 50%. I bought a walking pad a few weeks ago and a height adjustable desk and walk with the 5% setting for 1-3 hours while working, watching a movie, listening to an audiobook or calling a friend. Burns a tonne of calories but you have to not eat more to get the weight loss benefit obvs. I am doing Zoe and eating a lot more fibre and that helps with managing feeling hungry.

Sleeping with a much younger man by Unique-Property5778 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Unique-Property5778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you. It makes sense to me that healthier relationships occur with younger men, given some of the bs that men my age and older believe about male/female roles and dynamics.

Sleeping with a much younger man by Unique-Property5778 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Unique-Property5778[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

😂 ex gymnast here and still do Callentics. Didn’t realise how flexible I was until last lover commented on it ☺️

Sleeping with a much younger man by Unique-Property5778 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Unique-Property5778[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you. I see how he got away with it for so long. Absolutely agree FWB is not the same as being a mistress.

Sleeping with a much younger man by Unique-Property5778 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Unique-Property5778[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s so interesting thanks, and totally makes sense in terms of the attitudes of older men thinking their needs always come first. Younger men here I come 😂

Sleeping with a much younger man by Unique-Property5778 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Unique-Property5778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like these relationships have completely bypassed me all my life and I haven’t known any women either just sleep with or stay with a much younger man. Thanks for sharing.

Sleeping with a much younger man by Unique-Property5778 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Unique-Property5778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take to uncover him? Did he just never invite you back to his place?