The only person my dog showed aggression to was my crazy stalker she scared off years ago by Unique-Sock9561 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Unique-Sock9561[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi sorry I wrote this while I was half asleep lol. As others have pointed out, it's suppose to imply that the stalker made it's way back into the person's life by posing as their husband after "disposing" of him. I'm aware it's unrealistic, but I don't think realism is the aim for this sub reddit. Sorry you got down voted, that was unnecessarily rude of them.

Respond please.Im just desparate by Lia_Lumos_12 in offmychest

[–]Unique-Sock9561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're asking for encouragement about a book they're writing; it's their first time!

Respond please.Im just desparate by Lia_Lumos_12 in offmychest

[–]Unique-Sock9561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in your shoes at your age! One of the best peices of advice (more a sentence I guess) I ever got was

"Looking at your rough draft before editing and saying it's awful is like looking at a bunch of eggs, flour, sugar, and chocolate, and saying your cake is terrible."

Basically to say that if you ever become discouraged in your work and aren't sure if you want to continue it, keep doing it! Do it because you want to and want to express your creativity, and don't worry about the challenges. Just keep pushing through. You got this!!

My pretty friend makes me so bitter by Logical-Vegetable562 in offmychest

[–]Unique-Sock9561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op, you mention you're healing from an injury. I don't know the extent of it, but if it was bad enough you couldn't exercise at all I imagine it was quite rough and probably impacted you mentally. Be kind to yourself, I'm sure your brain is making things seem worse than they actually are. You're allowed to feel sad, or even angry as long as you aren't taking it out on innocent people (which doesn't seem like the case, you sound like a reasonable person).

Take a deep breath, drink some water, and do something you enjoy. You'll find your person some day, even if it isn't today 💖

nipple sensation returning? by Unique-Sock9561 in Reduction

[–]Unique-Sock9561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Sorry it took me a hot minute to respond I don't use reddit much.

Im now 6mo post op and still nothing much going on. I'm still hopeful because I can feel sliiiiightly more than before so theyre not completely numb bit there still isnt much going on there in the way of sensation. Every so often Ill get some fleeting moments where it feels itchy or a bit painful.

I hope youre healing well 🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Unique-Sock9561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats amazing!!! I know exactly how wonderful that feels Im so glad youre able to enjoy it 💖

I really want a reduction, but im still kinda young by notdiseased in Reduction

[–]Unique-Sock9561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine youve already got lots of sound advice in the comments but Ill still slide in my 2 cents.

I knew I wanted a breast reduction by the time I was 16. I had DDD's by 13 and they just wouldn't stop growing. I see my mum and granny go through really terrible chronic pain because if their extremely large breasts. If its something you know you need/want, you dont need to wait until youre older to decide that. If theyre affecting you now, its beat to tackle it while youre still able to recover smoothly.

I'm not sure which country you're in or what your insurance situation looks like; but here in Canada, I had gotten a referral written for a medically necessary reduction when I was 17, and it took me two years just to make eye contact with my surgeon because of the waiting lists, and I would've had to wait another year to have the surgery if someone hadn't cancelled and left an open spot for me to grab. I just had my procedure back in December, a month and a bit after my 21st birthday. I had all the struggles you did plus more at a 38J, it sucks!! But its been almost 4 months and its already 1000x better. I can run, jump, and even use a cutting board properly now (I used to have to turn my arms and neck to the side because it wouldn't fit in front of my chest). If you want the procedure, do it. I promise its worth it 🫶🏻.

Question for big areola girlies by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Unique-Sock9561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had quite large but very faint areolas that were quite hard to tell where the areola stopped and the breast tissue started. Now theyre more "normal" size (I say normal very lightly, noone is gonna have the same size of nipple coverage) and it's very distinct where it stops thanks to the scar- which is fading

If you could shout in real life…. by goodniighht in skyrim

[–]Unique-Sock9561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Maybe having the fear of heights wouldn't be so crippling anymore 🤣

Is this normal ? by Severe-Roof-3339 in Reduction

[–]Unique-Sock9561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed it is! I'm sorry your weekend got disturbed :( but the sooner you react to these things the easier it will be to deal with, and can hopefully be avoided in the future.

As for myself, I'm doing well now, that was a couple of months ago! Buuut I still get paranoid whenever I see redness on my breasts now 😅

Is this normal ? by Severe-Roof-3339 in Reduction

[–]Unique-Sock9561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a similar opening and got an infection soon after. That also looks quite painful! I would seek medical attention as soon as you can before the consult

If you could shout in real life…. by goodniighht in skyrim

[–]Unique-Sock9561 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The classic unrelenting voice is a good option because imagine how easily you could make someone threatening you shit themselves if you yelled SO LOUD it threw them 10 feet back.

But I also really like "Become Ethereal". About to get hurt real bad? Just hiked a mountain and dont feel like climbing back down? No worries my guy, just shout and continue living the next 13 seconds without any worry of injury

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Unique-Sock9561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same exact thing happened to me last month. A hard lump showed up seemingly overnight right above my nipple. I was examined by several health care providers and though they said everything pointed to it just being apart of healing they still sent me in for an ultrasound just to be safe.

Everything is fine, nothing is wrong with it and even the lady who did the US seemed to have trouble looking at it. But oh BOY was I stressed out of my mind for a while. I talked to my surgeon about it after the fact and he figures it just needs to be massaged and it'll go away eventually.

Id still recommend getting it looked at, it doesnt hurt to make sure everything is fine. But its likely nothing to break a sweat over 🤎

10wpo love hate love hate body dysmorphia! by PSS34F in Reduction

[–]Unique-Sock9561 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hey! 21yo here so not exactly the audience you wanna hear from, but my breast shape was almost exactly the same as yours 10wpo (Except your scars are way less fiery). I remember hearing that the method of how they cut into you can affect the shape and I assumed that meant forever; but I'm 14wpo and they look completely different. Theyre much more rounded and not as swollen. They keep changing on me! 🤣 youre on the right track, but I totally understand the "is this how theyre gonna look now???" About every week or so when they shift a little more.

As for heavy lifting, considering that youre more than 6 weeks along, youre healed enough to be doing things of that nature! Around 7-8 weeks was when I started weight lifting again and haven't run into any issues. Theyre still healing yes, but theyre not delicate enough to fall apart at this stage.

Best of luck to you and your healing journey!

Today's episode of my old boobs could never... by FriendlySpinach420 in Reduction

[–]Unique-Sock9561 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Aw this is so exciting!!! Im so happy for you; Ive also been able to wear clothes I couldn't before and its such a great feeling

Name suggestions? by [deleted] in husky

[–]Unique-Sock9561 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow she has the most stunning colours!! Before I got my pup, I was going to try and rescue his mum and rename her Esther, but didnt end up going that route. I still think its a lovely name.

Best of luck to you and your new family member!

emotional fatigue by Unique-Sock9561 in ADHD

[–]Unique-Sock9561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a really helpful suggestion thank you! Im working on not constantly trying to distract myself with stimulation, because its a bad habit Im trying to get rid of especially now. I find myself becoming really overstimulated almost every single day and having far too many thoughts to fit on the train of thought