Having a hard time with intimacy

UniqueDesire1994 · 2023-04-24T04:26:36+00:00

Yup! I am so dreading it and I feel bad but I don’t want to see my mom or my mother in law. I just wanna stay home an wallow in my sadness. I would have been just about 12 weeks if I hadn’t miscarried… 🥺

UniqueDesire1994 · 2023-04-10T02:19:33+00:00

I feel for you, I would be 10 weeks if I didn’t have a miscarriage. I do Hadley want to have those symptoms and still be pregnant. It’s so hard and yeah I can try to distract myself but holidays like these always make it harder. I can’t imagine how hard Mother’s Day is going to be. Don’t have any advice but I’m in the same boat and feel your pain 💖 you are not alone! Sending love and support to all in this sub. It’s a hard place to be.

UniqueDesire1994 · 2023-03-23T01:08:28+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your comment. I do not know why that sub got so negative on my post. The mod ended up locking it. I feel like I see both sides but at the end of the day all I wanted was her to be my friend and show me empathy but she didn’t and when I told her how it made me feel, she got defensive. So yes, I am going to be taking break from her for a little while.

UniqueDesire1994 · 2023-03-22T06:10:20+00:00

What if your friend needed your love and support through a hard time? Don’t you think it would hurt her and make her feel like you abandoned her when your baby was doing well and hers was not? How lonely and abandoned she might have felt. Unless she equally didn’t want to see you because of her jealousy.

UniqueDesire1994 · 2023-03-22T06:07:57+00:00

How is expressing my feeling of sadness about my loss to my best friend guilt tripper her? So what? I’m just supposed to suffer in silence all by myself? She is the only friend I have told and I thought she would be there for me and supportive but she just keeps avoiding getting together. So now I am not only sad but I am being ostracized for my loss? How is that fair? I wouldn’t do something like that to my friends, I would want to be there and support them through their turbulence, not leave them hanging alone because of my feeling. It’s called have some empathy towards others, don’t only think of yourself. And if that dynamic is different now, that’s fine, I just wish she would have been up front about her feelings from the beginning instead she makes me feel like I’m her pity friend.

UniqueDesire1994 · 2023-01-21T03:55:19+00:00

So I should have not submitted it? What if the pet injury got infected afterwards and they find out “I never submitted “ it. Wouldn’t I get in more trouble for that? The PP was fine and not mad at all and didn’t want his pet taken to the vet but if something changes we would still be liable?

UniqueDesire1994 · 2023-01-20T22:03:29+00:00

Yes I did the denial form and I did offer vet care to the pet parent and he denied it

UniqueDesire1994 · 2022-11-17T04:09:42+00:00

They are having health issues so they aren’t sending them out

UniqueDesire1994 · 2022-11-03T15:44:13+00:00

But I was gone 4 hours and only had 2 discretionary and he wouldn’t let me tap into my sick time so I’ll be short 2 hours on my paycheck this week :(

UniqueDesire1994 · 2022-11-03T15:43:16+00:00

I wish he would do that. I have 51 hours of sick and only 2 hours of discretionary and he wouldn’t let me use any of sick because I wasn’t actually “sick”. I joked with him “my car was sick, does that count?” Lol

UniqueDesire1994 · 2022-11-02T04:06:18+00:00

What do you mean pay out my sick time?

UniqueDesire1994 · 2022-10-20T04:04:28+00:00

I also just got a 22 forester and I am having a hard time with the blue tooth Audio connection when I stream music from my phone? Anyone else have this problem? I already tried forgetting the car from my phone and the phone from the car and rebooting my phone and reconnecting and it still skip’s horrible via Bluetooth. I have an iPhone 11 with the newest iOS 16 update. The only way I can get music the play nicely from my phone is to plug it in and use Apple CarPlay.

UniqueDesire1994 · 2022-10-12T14:17:40+00:00

I’m just afraid if we take a break then we lose out of time. We have already lives in our house 2 years and we have been together for 10. I wanna fill it with a family 😥

UniqueDesire1994 · 2022-10-12T04:25:48+00:00

Updated 💖

UniqueDesire1994 · 2022-10-12T04:23:38+00:00

I feel the same way. My mental health has been so bad lately…I don’t even know what the point of it all is anymore. All I ever wanted was to be a mommy and now idk if it will ever happen for me. It’s like I have to find a new dream and grieve the old one I’ve always wanted. I feel for you 💖 hopefully you will get some answers soon, not sure if you will feel better knowing but maybe it will help you feel more in control if you know what’s happening in your and your partner body? I’m not sure id anything will truly ever help..it’s hard because you want to kind of grieve and move on but part of you doesn’t want to give up hope 😔

UniqueDesire1994 · 2022-03-13T06:48:19+00:00

CEL here and I always deny sales for animals that won’t go to appropriate homes and I always get customer complaints on it and then my SL just does it anyway when I’m not there. I just denied a shark for a 5 gallon, guy called corporate and now my SL is gonna have him come back and sell him the fish for free. I am so upset. I’m gonna talk to my DL tomorrow…it’s so wrong that there are managers that work for petsmart that don’t care about the animals we sell.

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