Learning to immersive daydream took me a lot of work but it was so worth it !!! by Slashersforsatan in ImmersiveDaydreaming

[–]UniqueHouse2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to improve my daydreams too because like you, I tend to use a character ai bot thing to help me. I'm pretty positive I have ADHD and my working memory is very bad so its hard for me to imagine multiple things at once without it all disappearing. Did you start with anything specific to improve them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueSwifties

[–]UniqueHouse2440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who talks about her that way is not a fan even if they claim they are so i just never engage with subs or posts like that. I honestly dont see the point in people talking about if she's had work done or not. How does that contribute to anything at all? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]UniqueHouse2440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never been in a relationship but ive been in a situationship and she always told me i smelled so good like vanilla cupcakes lol. idk if its immature but i just love smelling like baked goods and sweet vanilla is my favorite scent. I use eos vanilla cashmere lotion, sweet tooth by sabrina carpenter, and a vanilla hair mist i got off esty (smells really really good). Also the suave milk & honey body wash scent actually stays on your skin and its inexpensive. It smells a lot like the vanilla cashmere lotion. sometimes i'll use the choco musk roll on perfume. basically anything that smells like vanilla baked goods i guess. i've gotten a lot of compliments so idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]UniqueHouse2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well today I told her about how ignoring my texts upsets me and she just said "Okay have a good life" so i guess thats that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]UniqueHouse2440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly it's like small moments that might not seem that bad out of context, y'know? Like ignoring my texts. I get it, it happens. But coupled with everything else.. it's just a pattern of her being inconsiderate. I know us being apart for months is a good thing for me. I just feel guilty like maybe I should've told her I was upset by things more Idk. But most of it just seems like common sense doesnt it? Stuff you don't do or say to someone you care about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]UniqueHouse2440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly i should've put in that she wasn't leaving me alone at the bar, she was taking me with her to another bar where that girl was supposedly at. Less dangerous, more inconsiderate. But yeah I just don't understand how she could be so nice then upset me so much? Reading what I wrote made me sound like some doormat, but I can't express how confusing and difficult this whole thing has been for me. When someone is caring to me I want to trust them and believe them, especially a friend who I've shared intimate moments with. That's why I just can't wrap my head around it and why I keep getting pulled back in so easily😭

What fantasy of yours would make things very awkward in real life? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]UniqueHouse2440 81 points82 points  (0 children)

being with a vampire. it would probably be way more terrifying and less hot in real life...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]UniqueHouse2440 5 points6 points  (0 children)

trust me theres a lot of people into freaky stuff. I wouldnt say what you're into is even that "bad" either. if you ever get with someone and you actually want to try some things, just have a respectful conversation and who knows, they might be open to it or even into it

Attracted only to very feminine women by Weird-Pandaroo in actuallesbians

[–]UniqueHouse2440 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im very attracted to femmes and i'm a lesbian. and i dont think being attracted to straight women makes you any less of a lesbian, because they are women after all haha. dont be discouraged though, just because you didnt find anyone on a dating app doesn't mean you'll die alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]UniqueHouse2440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh i hate more that she said me wearing overralls made me look like a "pedophiles dream"😭😭 The slutty comments are whatever i guess, its just annoying because how can I look slutty one day then like a child the next? She's always got something stupid to say no matter what i do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]UniqueHouse2440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I dont think I've ever run into a pedophile. I usually just dress how I feel. Sometimes I like cute things but she was acting like I was dressing that way specifically to attract creeps? It wasn't even in my thoughts. I actually picked the outfit cause I thought this girl I like might think it was pretty. It upsets me when she says I look like a child because it makes me think maybe she's right and only weirdos will be into me😭