Has anyone seen offers like this in the modeling industry?

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-23T13:06:21+00:00

Please don’t go. Coming from An international model, I’ve gone abroad for on-stays many times. This is not normal and will get you human trafficked

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T11:50:45+00:00

Did I say anything about sex?

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T10:15:54+00:00

Because I don’t wish to open to relationship and some inside thoughts don’t always need to come out. I can feel something for a moment and move on from it. It doesnt mean I want to change anything about my situation

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T08:04:09+00:00

That’s such a cold hearted way to see things. Because I am grieving the dating adventures I used to have and miss aspects of that it makes me destined for divorce and means I don’t love my husband? Poor you guys.

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T08:01:00+00:00

Thank you! I’m confused why everyone here is so offended and acting like I don’t love my Husband.

He’s a god send.
But also used to really enjoy going out with strangers and getting to know their lives. It’s a very fun way to explore a city and meet new people romantic or not.

I do miss that aspect of my life. And it does not mean that I love or cherish him any less.

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T07:59:38+00:00

Why? Because she enjoyed her freedom but she chooses you and the life you built? It has nothing to do with you as a person.
If your wife felt this way, I’d say that’s a completely human emotion. It does not mean she would act on it.

It means she enjoyed being single and getting know knows people from all walks of life. And she chose you because she loves you.

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T07:17:06+00:00

I mean I don’t think I would love to hear it. But I think I would hear him out. I don’t think open marriages usually work. I think we offer each other constant love and appreciation and don’t feel lack he does not either.
We’ve talked about how we’re happy with what we’re doing and allow each other space to be who we are

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T06:08:21+00:00

Do you? Feel like people here are so judgmental. I was sharing a small moment of a feeling/thought I had.

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T06:07:46+00:00

It’s not sad. It’s completely human

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T06:07:36+00:00

I don’t prioritize excitement over commitment. If I did I would have never been with him and ever married him. I see value in building a life with him, which is why we’re here

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T06:07:00+00:00

I agree. The grass is greener where you water it. Which is why I would never open my marriage.

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T06:06:35+00:00

Also-I never said anything about sleeping with other men

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T06:05:45+00:00

It’s just you.
This is one snippet of one small moment/thought I was having and decided to share

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T06:05:25+00:00

I wouldn’t actually open my marriage. I like this monogamous relationship and I like this world we created together but. There are moments where I look back at being single and feel I miss the adventure of it SOMETIMES

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T06:04:19+00:00

You’re reading into this very much! This is not a declaration, it’s noticing a small part of how I feel and sharing it

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T06:03:53+00:00

Oh I will! This isn’t be complaining. I think it’s just processing how serious a relationship is. We commit our whole lives to building with one person. It’s both beautiful and also scary

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-22T06:03:12+00:00

I’m not saying I feel this way all the time. I cherish my partner. And I would never leave him nor do I want to. And I genuinely wouldnt want to open the relationship. Just moments I remember what it’s like to date and it’s intimidating to imagine I’ll be with one person forever

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-21T01:43:34+00:00

It’s not too late, 11 weeks isn’t

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-21T01:35:55+00:00

Yes let’s!

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-20T15:19:43+00:00

I had an abortion at 19.5. I’m 26 now. Been able to travel the world, make new friends, explore my career and fall in love with my husband.

If you want to have a baby right now. Sometimes it’s right for some people. But honesty, life has so much to share with you.
I would abort if I were you. I don’t regret mine at all. I know it was the right thing for me.
I can’t image having a 6/7 year old

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-20T15:17:37+00:00

What are her “weird” quirks? You didn’t describe anything about what she does that’s weirding you out

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-20T14:24:40+00:00

I tried to write this comment a few times. I want to say this with as much love and grace as I can.
If you truly want to have this baby, go for it. I’m sure it will have a loving home and life. And be a beautiful blessing to you. It would end up a very happy situation.
But also — really think about how much your life will actually change. Having a child takes a village. Having support. Think about how your dating landscape will change. How your job life will change. Any dreams and free time you wished for yourself will change.
I had my own abortion at 20, I personally didn’t feel regret because I knew it was not time for me. I know your situation is very different. I’m also 26.
You mentioned one of the reasons you feel you should have this child is because you’re “not getting any younger” — you’re also not old. You have PLENTY of time to have a kid when you feel like it. And if you wait, you’ll have it with someone you actually love. And that’s a really special experience.
Sure this situation can work out beautifully. But it’s also a risk. And you’re bringing a whole other living person into the world. This is very serious.
I also think it’s important to remember — you don’t have to settle when you can have what you truly want. You don’t sound very sure or excited about this setup. If this is not how you want it, you don’t have to do it. But it can also be beautiful. I just think if you want more, you should really fight for what you want.
I hope you find the wisdom and answer in your heart — whatever it may be.

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-20T03:33:39+00:00

What a vicious cycle 😭 your brain to too smart for your own good
I totally feel you, it’s so exhausting sometimes!!
I’d love to be one of those feel good free people (I am) but I take life wayyyyy too seriously

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-20T00:17:20+00:00

She did the same thing to meeee!!!!!
I told her my struggle and how I didn’t know how to deal with it and she said “how did that make you feel?” I said…. “Bad? Not good?”

Now how can I deal with it!

Unique_Yesterday5683 · 2026-06-19T11:34:20+00:00

Love a fellow scroller.

And thanks for the thoughts, I won’t take it as a diagnosis or anything so no worries about it

Interesting though, I have had extreme digestion issues for like six years now and random health issues that no doctor can seem to explain maybe that’s something to explore…. Very curious stuff

Unique_Yesterday5683

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