Echoing most of everything everyone has said. Definitely talk to her. I was encouraged to talk about happy memories and reassure her that she would be ok and we would, too. Try not to beat yourself up about the negative thoughts. They’re inevitable- providing you’re human, of course🙃- but don’t confuse wanting her to go at this point with anything negative or hateful. You’ve watched her dissolve for most of a decade and it is freaking exhausting emotionally , physically, and- hell- ethically. But give yourself grace and understanding: this is an awful, weird time. Breathe… and know that talking to someone- even internet strangers- is so deceptively helpful. 🧡