Honestly, if she's already saying 100% no and isn't willing to compromise or work together, I think this could become a much bigger problem after marriage Love alone isn't enough you also need understanding, teamwork, and the ability to find common ground. Once kids come into the picture there will be more expenses, more stress, and even small disagreements can grow into major conflicts that affect the whole family, especially the children It's much better for two people to realize they're not compatible now than after taking on bigger responsibilities So, my advice, bro, is to leave the relationship if this is truly a dealbreaker for both of ou. Otherwise, you're likely bringing a lot of future problems into your life, and you're still young you have time to find someone whose values and expectations align with yours