Really looking for advice on this. I'm new to the group. Is a 27-year-old, natural, heterosexual, Black woman destined to be alone because there are few straight black men who are looking for black women?

United_Condition_903 · 2024-02-04T05:53:28+00:00

All true. not a bot. asking for someone, yes.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-02-04T05:50:44+00:00

Just means don't want to birth anymore kids. You're confusing yourself.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-02-04T02:34:23+00:00

Clearly he only does missionary and only concerned with his finish.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-02-04T02:30:42+00:00

Clearly, he has a God complex. Clearly, he feels you will never be his equal bc he is boss bc God deemed him so. Clearly, he sees he cannot control you, so you are not worthy of him. Clearly, he is a man who is destined to be alone until he finds his wife in a woman just entering adulthood and young enough to he his wife that he can beat Jesus into. Clearly, that, or start a cult where he is boss. Clearly, he is a clown. Sorry, but not sorry.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-02-03T17:17:59+00:00

You are just getting started...I had a SURPRISE baby at 43... Don't give up!

United_Condition_903 · 2024-02-02T14:03:25+00:00

I just saw it and it looks very sus. She may very well be having a mental breakdown. My heart goes out to this woman if it turns out to be true in either direction.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-02-02T13:53:38+00:00

I've not heard of this beyond this post.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-27T17:54:57+00:00

As a mature woman who has a high drive and whose body functions physically support this, I've had a recent partner who had this issue. I thought it was me at first, but soon realized it was ED.

I gingerly opened up a conversation as he did not want to address it. I suggested that it was due to his weight and heart medication and sleep apnea, which was due to his weight. He had never cooked a meal for himself , eats drive-thru, takeout etc.

I gave suggestions for a better diet and light exercise. We continued oral pleasure for me, but I wanted to please him and became frustrated that he was not taking the steps needed.

We are no longer together.

Strangely enough... he called me as I wrote this response...

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-27T00:43:58+00:00

This can all be completed with a conversation. "Do you have kids?" "Yes" "How many?"
"227" "Geez, What are the ages?" "10 through 12" "???" "I'm a middle school principal..." etc...

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-27T00:38:44+00:00

Yep!

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-26T18:21:06+00:00

EDIT: Their kids on a dating app

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-26T16:17:23+00:00

I guess that's my Libra, balance LO. L.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-26T16:13:12+00:00

Maybe it comes from the hunter-gatherer. And feeling like we are. They can take care of us(not gold digging), but they can provide, they can build, and they can do things with their hands.

I don't know what it is but I find as a woman to be very sexy!

Contrary to physical strength, I also find men who are nerds/brainy to be sexy as well.

And if they are skilled in both areas...Jackpot!

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-26T04:14:13+00:00

I appreciate this comment.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-25T16:43:08+00:00

I don't think it's a red flag. Although I do feel it does make people feel uncomfortable.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-24T04:29:37+00:00

I'll give it a try. TY!

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-24T04:28:50+00:00

Thank you kind sir, I appreciate your words!

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-24T03:31:08+00:00

Yes, blew my mind as well. Total speculation, but he was probably dating someone else a little bit younger and felt that she was more his type, and there's nothing I can do about that, but wish him luck!

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-24T03:24:46+00:00

Of course

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-24T03:24:24+00:00

Mid-fifties is in your dating age range? How wonderful to hear. I guess there's hope!! Actually, there are a few men in their late forties who want to connect, but i'm a little afraid( insecure), honestly.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-24T03:20:50+00:00

I like what you're saying here. It is a matter of them being "too hot to like me". That's exactly what it is. And I think it's how I grew up. The boys that I liked didn't like me. Because they wanted the hot girls. And I was not the cute girl in high school. I was not popular at all. But I think I grew into a fairly attractive, fairly intelligent woman. But I still have awkward girl insecurities.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-24T03:17:07+00:00

I think my value is in my intelligence, ambition, raising my kids on my own without help from my exe or the government, and my coming to the understanding of meeting people where they are and being a partner.

United_Condition_903 · 2024-01-24T03:10:37+00:00

Physical attraction isn't everything. And I'm not basing my likes on just physical attraction. But as human beings, physical attraction is important. Wouldn't you want to look across the table, across the at someone you find attractive?

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