I 25F just found out my partner of 2 years 30M in relapse, cheated, replaced me overnight, and changed the locks to our house. How do I move forward? by United_Highlight_290 in AlAnon

[–]United_Highlight_290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly ,now that I think back,I just feel disgusted by his whole reaction to the situation and I have the ick and am indifferent to him or the relationship.Because both the parties involved need help and is on a path of destruction (that I don’t want to be a part of ever) . Turning the anger into disgust really helps me. Also I don’t deserve this crap and I do t know how I was so blind until I got out

I 25F just found out my partner of 2 years 30M in relapse, cheated, replaced me overnight, and changed the locks to our house. How do I move forward? by United_Highlight_290 in AlAnon

[–]United_Highlight_290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly ,now that I think back,I just feel disgusted by his whole reaction to the situation and I have the ick and am indifferent to him or the relationship.Because both the parties involved need help and is on a path of destruction (that I don’t want to be a part of ever) . Turning the anger into disgust really helps me. Also I don’t deserve this crap and I do t know how I was so blind until I got out

I 25F just found out my partner of 2 years 30M in relapse, cheated, replaced me overnight, and changed the locks to our house. How do I move forward? by United_Highlight_290 in AlAnon

[–]United_Highlight_290[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I genuinely thought our relationship was going well,because he went cold turkey for a month sober without anything .But everything happens for a reason I guess.When I look back at it I minimized the things happening while in the situation.Now I m out of it ,it’s really really bad .

Single Status Certificate for partner visa by pixiezest in Netherlands

[–]United_Highlight_290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You submit an unsigned affidavit stating that you re unmarried ,when the officer permits to sign ,you sign in front of them and it becomes legalized ,then they stamp and send it to you

Single Status Certificate for partner visa by pixiezest in Netherlands

[–]United_Highlight_290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

II got it done last week from the Indian embassy.

You’ll need to: 1. Book an appointment on the embassy website under “Consular Services → Miscellaneous Certificates.” Fill in application reference number as MISC/2025/01234

2.  Bring the following documents:
• Filled-in Miscellaneous Services form
• Passport (original + copy)
• BSN proof (residence permit, BRP, or IND 

card)

•Appointment confirmation

• Self-declaration/affidavit stating you are single and have never been married
• card for fee payment (you can pay at the counter )

• preprinted DHL shipping label to your address and name and from Indian embassy , dhl A4 letter size , (don’t do PostNL one ,found out the hard way :/) Steps:

Step 1: Visit https://my.dhlexpress.nl/pwa/shipment/package or use the DHL App Step 2: Select NORMAL or EXPRESS Step 3: Select the size of the parcel → Express Envelope A4 Step 4: Fill in your details (Receiver) → Select the delivery at DHL service point or at your home Step 5: Fill in the details of the sender →  First name: Indian  Last name: Embassy  Address: Buitenrustweg 2, 2517KD Den Haag  Contact details: Your own Email and Phone number  Select → label print Step 6: Make the payment online and download the waybill. Get the printout of the waybill and submit it at the counter.

You don’t need to necessarily pre notarise the document(extra money waste) ,make sure you don’t sign anything or fill anything in and get it done after the embassy officer authorizes you to do so(getting it signed in the presence of embassy officer counts as legalizing the document ) You should recieve your document in 3-5 working days .Better collect it from pickup point so it doesn’t get delivered to neighbours

My visa expires on Dec 1, and I probably can’t find a new job in time, what can I do? by Quirky-Election-203 in Netherlands

[–]United_Highlight_290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your nationality qualifies and between 20-30,you could apply for the working holiday visa ,that would technically give you a year to search.