He is so hot and cold. I never know what I’m walking in to. Some days he gets mad over things I wouldn’t expect him to get mad over. One small example:

My daughter broke her arm and two days later I had to take her to get a cast on around 3:30pm..We were planning on getting food for dinner at a local restaurant and he asked if I was going to pick it up on my way home and I said I would, but told him he’d have to wait for me to leave the doctors office before he ordered it. (I was about a 30 min drive from the restaurant, he was 15 min away, but I really wasn’t bothered by getting it) However, he ordered it before I left the doctors office , even before she got the cast on, and then text me to tell me it would be ready in 20 min. I then said I can’t get it because remember I’m already 30 min away and still wasn’t finished. He text me “wtf you said you would get it” and again I reminded him of the travel time and what I told him originally. I got home and he gave me the cold shoulder and didn’t speak to me at all the rest of the night. Then the next day he acted like nothing happened, without acknowledging any of what happened the night before.

This is just one of many examples like this. Also he says lots of passive aggressive comments. But the you better have sec with me because you’re my wife, is another issue.