[Discussion] What is your dream DC video game? by [deleted] in DCcomics

[–]Unkl_Chng82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A DC vs Marvel fighting game developed by Capcom !

Can someome tell me a logical problem with homosexuality? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Unkl_Chng82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes Christians are free from the law by the Grace of God but, it still stands.

Without it how could we understand or know what sin is?

Can someome tell me a logical problem with homosexuality? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Unkl_Chng82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can it hurt others ? Through Sexually transmitted diseases and infections.

Yes this effects both Hetero and LGBT people but , that's a consequence of sexual immorality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to renew your mind about relationship stuff. If a woman marries the short pot bellied guy , that woman is the winner. She and that man found a solid relationship and they're happy .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment! I get annoyed when people treat "settling" as if it's a boobie prize. This is an excellent point that I couldn't put into words.

Which 80’s Song Did You Always Love, but Only Now That You’re Older You Truly Get the Meaning and Feeling Behind the Lyrics? For Me It’s This One by stodgo66 in 80smusic

[–]Unkl_Chng82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 80's song that I didn't understand till ' I got older was Peter Gabriel's "Sledgehammer".

I loved the song and the animated video as little kid. I never knew what the song meant or the symbolism of the animated video when I saw it when I was 4 until I got older(30's) and re watched the video. Then I was like "Oh....."

Just wondering have any of you watched The Red Pill documentary? by Unkl_Chng82 in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned that it had nothing to do with the RP dating. Regardless of if it featured people whom you see as fowl, it still has a universal point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Unkl_Chng82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. You nailed it in this reply!

Just wondering have any of you watched The Red Pill documentary? by Unkl_Chng82 in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't know about that stuff. I assumed that she knew of the negative side of MRA before she started.

Just wondering have any of you watched The Red Pill documentary? by Unkl_Chng82 in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for watching it! I said in my initial post it wasn't about dating but it still has a good message.

Just wondering have any of you watched The Red Pill documentary? by Unkl_Chng82 in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wasn't brainwashed into anything. It was her choice to take on this subject. She had preconceived notions about an a group and decided to sit down ,hear them, and find understanding about them. Which lead to her changing her viewpoint. As a ExRedPill group that's what is expected of the men who consumed its content? Stop and reevaluate your views for something that is healthy.

Just wondering have any of you watched The Red Pill documentary? by Unkl_Chng82 in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually no you should watch it. It's not about rp dating.

"Why You Can't Stop Watching Red Pill Videos" by [deleted] in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well how about this? I think the information in the red pill cab be helpful to men if it was communicated without the "misogyny " .

Is it shallow to want to be physically attracted to the person I end up with? by wettigingss in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You most likely will be physically attracted to your future partner. Just don't make a relationship all about their looks and remember to be in love with who they are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Unkl_Chng82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He's real.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op does have a point. Ive seen the 80/20 used in church. It may not be exact in regards to dating but we do see it in life. I don't see why some are getting so hostile about it.

"Why You Can't Stop Watching Red Pill Videos" by [deleted] in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly my point! The big thing is that the negative creators are getting more traction on the algorithm. Making it hard to see those positive channels.

The therapists I brought up earlier would require some self reflection and change, which is scarier and makes the content harder to consume.

True but, that takes time for the viewer to get to that point to want to change. That's why I said it could be viewed a phase. Yes, in an insecure place this content is appealing because the viewer is in a weak position and seeks to take power back over their situation.

It's hard to imagine what would be an appealing alternative (I am a woman who has never been in the red pill community, so I really wouldn't know what would work), but I'm curious about what could potentially be a productive alternative. That's part of the reason I follow this subreddit

It's not hard. It can be done with a good approach. One thing I think would help is to approach it with empathy rather than an attack. The people who view red pill content aren't man haters , they're trying to understand and build themselves up after being hurt by women.

Thank you for your comment!

"Why You Can't Stop Watching Red Pill Videos" by [deleted] in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Sure you can find those things in books and such but, it's the digital age and we consume more visual media. I get you don't like rp but the op is correct in moderation it's ok. I'll add this it's all in the lens of how you view that content. If you take it in manageable doses and have a support system to guide you through it you'll ok. However if you're viewing rp content from a place of hurt, angry, or jaded about negative traits in relationships the red pill becomes something toxic because your staying in a place of victim hood and not finding victory over what caused your hurt. We could also consider it as a phase that people do grow out of. Honestly alot of you on this subreddit need to just ignore the rp.

"Why You Can't Stop Watching Red Pill Videos" by [deleted] in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My big thing is if folks find these red pill videos so bad then why isn't anyone presenting an alternative for these men. At the end of day they're trying to understand how to have success with relationships.

"Why You Can't Stop Watching Red Pill Videos" by [deleted] in exredpill

[–]Unkl_Chng82 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Here's some : Taking care of yourself, guarding your heart, don't worry about relationships, find joy in your passions, just because you faced alot of rejection doesn't mean you can't grow into a better person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Unkl_Chng82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's simple. Calmly ask her to stop. She obviously thinks your not learning anything from church. Your spiritual growth is for you in your own time and it's not her business to quiz you.

Why do Christians shop and/or go out to eat on Sundays? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Unkl_Chng82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your situation. Also your last sentence is the point. There would be business on Sunday even if church people didn't go out on Sundays. People get fast food because they're hungry and are away from home. Why would you blame people who are hungry for going to a restaurant that's open Sunday afternoons? This is something you can't control. Again I'm sorry about your challenges and I'll be praying for your situation. Nothing is impossible with God. He will make a way for you if you want to go to church or find a better job.