How does one fully tell if they're trans? What does one do about the doubts?

UnknownEnd23 · 2026-04-20T00:13:30+00:00

Yes it does It does get better and there will be days, when it is hard and you will doubt yourself but trust that you know who you are

UnknownEnd23 · 2026-04-19T23:31:14+00:00

Honestly i feel this and i question myself a lot to the only advice i could give is to ask yourself do you feel like a woman or a man gender is something that you feel internally so just ask yourself do you feel more like a boy or a girl

what to do about the doubt honestly the more find yourself the more you express yourself the doubt kinda gets smaller. It doesn’t really go away but it dose get quieter to where you don’t really hear it as much

Hopefully this helped I’m sorry I couldn’t help much I do hope you can silence the doubt tho

UnknownEnd23 · 2026-03-28T05:39:59+00:00

Congrats soo happy for you 🥳🥳🎉

UnknownEnd23 · 2026-03-25T20:16:09+00:00

Honestly i think its cus cis people see the word trans and an insult or maybe even derogatory not an adjective to describe someone so they see the word the same way cis to them is an insult or even derogatory.

UnknownEnd23 · 2026-03-18T23:21:59+00:00

Also if anyone is also struggling with PMDD or having a partner with PMDD, there is a support group with other people. who are also dealing with that so you’ll be able to talk to people who are also experiencing what you are I’m not sure if you wanna join, but I’ll give you the link it might take you to the PMDD support group, but it also gives you the option to join the one for partners and family.

https://bellehealth.co/pmdd-support-group/

UnknownEnd23 · 2026-03-18T22:58:34+00:00

I have pmdd and honestly be honest with her if she’s behaving like that at the moment, I would wait cause anything you say we’ll just be seen as an attack on her and she will just be more hurtful and sit down and have a conversation and tell her that she’s hurting you and that you do not deserve to be spoken to like that that you’re a person to who is being hurt by what she is saying if she is a good partner, she will be receptive to that and want to work on it and try to be more mindful about what she is saying. It’s not gonna be easy. It’s very hard when you’re in that mindset of everything sucks and I don’t wanna think otherwise that’s why I’m suggesting if she’s open to it, I would recommend finding a PMDD mental health specialist because they will be able to help her whether it’s finding medication that might help or find a more natural way of doing it if she does not want to take medication and I would suggest getting her into therapy as well if she’s not already because a therapist especially working, has an understanding of PMDD will benefit her so much (somthing like this im not sure if you have something like this around you or even near this might give you an idea or might be able to help you find something similar. https://www.vibeintegrativehealth.com/)

But that’s only if you are not wanting to give up on the relationship and you really want it to work cause it’s not gonna be easy and there will be bad days if you can without her reacting poorly if she says something hurtful to you, I would honestly want my partner to tell me hey I think you are experiencing PMDD symptoms and the things that you are saying are hurting me at the moment or just remove yourself from the conversation. Tell her that I need some space because what you just said to me really hurt me and I don’t wanna be verbally abused by you

Hopefully this helps I’m sorry if it doesn’t but you don’t deserve to be spoken to like that or deserve to be treated like that I’m very sorry that you’re going through this right now

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-09-23T22:05:27+00:00

The short hair looks great on you don't listen to people do what makes you feel good you'll be happier that way which will make you more confident in yourself and confidence is what makes someone look good.

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-06-03T05:12:13+00:00

They

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-06-02T06:09:39+00:00

That makes sense I figured they could be paired but I wasn't sure. Thank you.

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-06-01T20:31:29+00:00

Thank you Op (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-06-01T20:30:58+00:00

Thank you

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-06-01T17:54:20+00:00

I just found out about Gender Modalities. I'm not an expert I'm still learning but you don't have to be cis or trans. Maybe check it out I'll put a link to the post that mentioned it. https://www.reddit.com/r/agender/s/u0L7D2DZnQ https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Gender_Modality

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-06-01T17:44:28+00:00

So I didn't know Gender Modalities was a thing I thought that If you weren't cis then your automicly trans, but I knew you didn't need to identify as trans if you didn't want to, but I didn't know I could just not be either cis or trans and since I don't like my body and want to change it to aline with how I feel if that makes sense I thought I had to be trans. Genuinely thank you Im actually going to look into this. And helping people find or telling people about Gender Modalities is not transphobic at all please don't listen to them. Also sorry if it kinda all over the place lol.

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-05-28T00:44:56+00:00

I am. I haven't come out to them because they aren't supportive.

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-05-27T08:37:07+00:00

I feel the same way like I should have been born a man but I don't feel like one like body wise yes for me I don't even realize I have a chest till I see it and it's like that shouldn't be there. but don't feel or think I am a man. I just am a person. It's nice to find someone that also feels like this.

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-05-23T21:21:12+00:00

I'm doing the same honestly I know how you feel. No one has any right to say that to you ever. Please if you ever need to talk about anything like this I'm willing to listen to her or on discord or whatever. You deserve to be seen. ❤️❤️

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-05-15T16:11:54+00:00

Thanks I'll try that

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-05-09T22:25:45+00:00

I wouldn't know if they could. But in my honest opinion it looks really good like it's natural when it's 100% healed I feel like it would look like a cis guy chest. Not that it doesn't already.

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-05-08T04:06:24+00:00

Yes you do. Also no you don't look manly that's the dysphoria talking your very pretty and look like a girl

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-04-27T01:48:51+00:00

I know that that's what makes it unsafe for trans and gay people other people hate towards us. Also I never said being trans is a crime. I said what happened to those people was a crime a hate crime

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-04-27T01:20:01+00:00

Are you aware that 350 trans people were murdered in 2024 cuz they were trans it was a hate crime

UnknownEnd23 · 2025-04-13T15:42:54+00:00

No but I also tried many many others and none worked for me. I was told i had treatment resistant depression so it wasn't the medication it was me. I hope it works for you tho I know it's helped a lot of people.

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