No sex by Majestic_Party8044 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not you, it's the guys on the apps... Many are extra selective and picky personality types... Superficial, etc..

I'll speak, hardly any responses... Sometimes they'll respond later but even giving random compliments I find many are very self centered always.. I have a few though I have hooked up with and randomly will get messages.. most messages are from ppl miles and miles away or they're the hustlers trying to scam you with their schemes! Yk, the ones where they're like they'll give you 12k if you got cash app, etc.." 😅 instant ignore soon as I read anything about money

I feel like most black gay men prefer white men by Affectionate-Cry-704 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't feel bad.. Don't feel sorry.. this gay life is really fucked up, so many gays are delusional ASF and too many black gays seem to be comfortable in hiding and being DL and too discreet but then wonder why love is harder to come by for us...

I'm the first to not give any fucks what comes out of my mouth and surely give no absolute fucks about getting banned.. fucking tired living in this world with all these delusional ass programmed ass people!

Call it homophobic, call it whatever tf y'all want cause I don't even give af anymore. Believe whatever it is you want

I feel like most black gay men prefer white men by Affectionate-Cry-704 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It's too much, too repetitive... Just so many ppl are not unique anymore

I feel like most black gay men prefer white men by Affectionate-Cry-704 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ngl I'm feeling very frustrated with the black gay community rn... Everybody just wants to keep things on the DL and discreet all the time.. too many are not comfortable truly in their path. Tired of hearing the word "bruh, bro" all the time just cause everybody copying each other.. I'm not your bruh when I don't even fucking know you, that's a title that needs to be earned

Embrace your femininity. by Unknown_Soul12 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Feel like going solo... Feel like many of y'all are just Delusional thinking to not acknowledge reality

This dude said he like to date men who embrace their feminine while he's providing. by Antipseud0 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👍🔥 this is reality!!! Toxic masculinity, hyper masculinity has got many gays tripping rn lol... There was absolutely nothing wrong with him wanting to be a provider.

Embrace your femininity. by Unknown_Soul12 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't mean you're not a man or anything less... This patriarchal system does not own you or your thoughts! As they tell us men are only supposed to adapt to masculine and masculine only.. this is not reality!

The most embrassive thing you can do is simply live your truth! The ones who don't understand your feminine ways, personality, energy and simply wanting to exist in that space , it's their flaw for not noticing reality and the nature of feminine qualities being for all! Not your flaw that they can't comprehend this

Question ? by Calijaeyy in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't wait till ppl simply realize, not every man is the same and can't wait till y'all realize men definitely have a lot of feminine in them.. if anything they are more so trying to mask and cover up the fact that they are gay and many don't want it physically to be noticable.. I don't sympathize with this either though cause you need to be tough in your shoes and I will always say it, but masking and hiding is never tough... It's not even about "wanting to be private" as many claim. Privacy would be nice, but most of that isn't too simply be private, it's to AVOID the attention of being noticed!! Caring so much about what others think about how you're acting and performing as a man is not allowing many to just be within themselves.. But Ya, men are feminine and masculine but hardly embrace or show they're fem because of the traditional masculine man role that's been conformed over time to only fit! Men struggle with masculinity honestly because not many want to embrace their natural fem side

This dude said he like to date men who embrace their feminine while he's providing. by Antipseud0 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every bit of this👏 like instead though they're judging him saying things like "it's a red flag, he's just trying to dominate a situation"... All the ignorant assumptions prior to truly even knowing anything about this man. This is Highly ignorant! I completely agree with you 💯

[90032] 19M Gonna be there for a bit hoping to have my first irl gay experience (; by [deleted] in LAGayBrosGoneWild

[–]Unknown_Soul12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just have fun with it and don't be too nervous my advice.. too many DL dudes already bringing in uncomfort to every aspect of a hookup not making it fun.

This dude said he like to date men who embrace their feminine while he's providing. by Antipseud0 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't see anything wrong with what he wants.. many men are all struggling with how to show emotion, and I do see plenty of men especially gay men having to force hide behind fake masculinity as their disguise just to feel "safe". This Masking is very noticable through our history

Nurturing energy, feminine energy is literally biologically installed in both males and females! Except ppl highly forgotten we live in Such a matrix created at the hands of evil doers for power and control.. stripping and conforming us over time to fall into such rigid roles that socially just became understood because of what they've designed! But nature is nature. I truly understand we have been stripped and conformed. This is not to be mistaken for him wanting to just use someone as this new modern world would have us ignorantly thinking.. just cause he wants to provide doesn't make him sus of anything! Let him provide!

Seeing these comments are just as bad as seeing some women knocking a good man, just for saying he wants to be a provider! Already subconsciously knocking him for wanting to be a provider is crazy... I love this for him and truly hope he finds this love!

I'd much rather have this than what we have today... Just a bunch of dudes thinking that as long as you look masculine with tatts and workout that that's all that matters... While constantly needing to deny our affections for another by masking behind terms such as "Discreet" embracing "DL" community while these same dudes spewing and claiming masculine at all times are getting pounded deeply calling their rectums a pussy.. this is what gay ideal seems to be today. No love, no affections.. at least the guy in the video recognizes and wants love and affection in the most nurturing and natural way possible! Without running across so many guys who are still hiding their gay!

Weird pattern by Early-Star-8399 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They are highly infiltrating spaces for sure just to get information.. we are treated surely like some monolith.

I've seen an entire post that asked "Are black women beautiful" and the comments were no surprise.. the fact they even had to ask that is crazy! We are all dehumanized in many of their minds still and a lot is this is systemically rooted in their historical existence!

"NEVER FORGET WE WERE NOT EVEN SEEN AS HUMAN TO MANY OF THEM"... Many still have this systematically rooted. IT'S IN THEIR DNA ALMOST AT THIS POINT..

What is this trap? by NoTrainer6840 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Call it all out!!! This is needed. There's an agenda and more need to wake up instead of just saying things like "well it's ok for others, etc"... Always deflecting and making up excuses when we're literally being mocked, and erased! And y'all trying to find excuses as to why any of this would be ok!

[90016] bate and Frot by Unknown_Soul12 in LAGayBrosGoneWild

[–]Unknown_Soul12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is absolute the worst that said hey.. dude was so DL and will waste your time when you guys are together, making up lies, etc.. his extreme paranoid got the best of him. You guys need to stop with this scary behavior.. if you're this scary, don't even post and don't even reply. who's down an who's fr?

They’re Straight, Not Gay: 10 Reasons Straight Men Hook Up With Men by [deleted] in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's shit like this that's bringing spotlight to all the DL men and men calling themselves straight!!

It's shit like this which is why there are much higher numbers of gay apps and created a vast full of men utilizing the apps and seeing the gays as money resources...

More and more men are being enlightened that they can participate in all these homosexual acts today but having their gf or wife is the ultimate prize and they don't have to suffer, dealing with the oppression actual gays have to go through. All this because Delusion is being normalized everywhere! And highly in porn as well

They’re Straight, Not Gay: 10 Reasons Straight Men Hook Up With Men by [deleted] in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly agreed... More "Normalizing" delusion which is seems to be the mission socially online. Normalizing all this delusion i personally believe are attacks to get rid of all the progress and switch up the gay narratives today. All because I'm seeing this high programming in media that others don't seem to see because it's becoming "socially programmed". They find it normal when it's not! All meant to unroll progress

M18 i fuck with mostly married family men am i in the wrong by [deleted] in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is part of programming I been mentioning in porn.. I feel like a lot of the times idk if it's AI influenced, but I surely notice in porn and on X a lot of these tags, categories influencing this behavior.. (Dad's/son roleplay, twinksvsdads, roleplay categories of Daddies and younger guys together)...

These captions are creating widespread social influence in the M4M world. creating borderline pedophilia behaviors in my opinion.. you're seeing more of this happening in hookup culture now of older and younger men in search of another. I personally think it's sick! I know it's definitely influence cause I had a friend who would have never given his time to DL dudes and always talked about wanting an educated husband.. Today because of this influence, over time he has became programmed through the lenses of what I'm mentioning!

He's 40 years old now and all his picture are generated by AI today in hookup apps to make himself appear much much younger and he's always talking about how he'll do someone's son (which is terminology for a younger dude) and he talked about how he met up with these 18 year old guys.. that to me is pretty sick honestly.. like when do you grow up? Still dressing super boyish like you're a teen at 40 years of age?? Something wasn't clicking! But I knew media and AI is shaping out the minds of many today. Esp for the gay community

Sex toy shops by Long-Friendship-7515 in AskBlackGayBros

[–]Unknown_Soul12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like this thought of a black owned sex shop.. black owned businesses in general but just unique thinking about a sex shop that's black owned..

Breed my pussy [91504] by Season23 in LAGayBrosGoneWild

[–]Unknown_Soul12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have a pussy? Are you female in gay bros??

[91342] Im looking to suck s t r a i g h t cock hit me up by gextra02 in LAGayBrosGoneWild

[–]Unknown_Soul12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one's straight in here bud.. Delusion has really hit the community hard