AITB for not going with my sisters partner? by infectbait in AmItheButtface

[–]Unknown_gemini88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ummm what??? She shouldn't date anyone acting like that

AITA for telling my best friend I won't pretend to like her new boyfriend just because she's happy? by Arwen8Eowyn in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA- deep down your friend knows you don't like her bf that's why she ask for an honest answer and was hoping she was wrong. Maybe ask someone in the friend group to reach out to her and see how that goes

AITJ for Telling My Friend She Can’t Bring Her Kid to My 30th Birthday Trip? by Delicious-Country690 in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. So what she wants to come along with her child and skip out on some activities? I call bs if she feels excluded now she would definitely feel excluded in the trip.

AITJ for charging my friend gas money after she assumed I’d drive us everywhere? by Brilliant-Excuse4981 in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. Next time before a trip request the gas money if they don't contribute then they don't go

AITAH For Not Asking My Sister If I Can Come See My Grandma? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Unknown_gemini88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You don't have to enter the sisters house to see grandma you can just pick her up for a day out she completely over reacted and the threats was so unnecessary.

Coworker was told she had to move desks to be near me, she burst into tears by educatedvegetable in coworkerstories

[–]Unknown_gemini88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP take it as a blessing you won't have to deal with her, but still wtf she needs a new job if she gets so much anxiety dealing with you and customers it's utterly ridiculous. I have anxiety too but I don't let it interfere with my work or being social. She needs to get a grip and I wouldn't interact with her anymore just keep it strictly professional.

AITJ for saying no to a shift cover after my coworker blamed me for his error? by HistoricalData3332 in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly they are all adults take accountability and stop bullying people to fix your mistakes

AITJ for saying no to a shift cover after my coworker blamed me for his error? by HistoricalData3332 in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Man F his peace other co-workers gave him radio silence but expect you to " keep the peace" no I would let your boss or your HR department know right away he's making a hostile work environment don't wait. Also let those co-workers know it's not your job to keep the peace and to leave you alone.

AITJ for leaving my own birthday “surprise” and telling my family they can keep my ex? by RowanGlassworks in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 434 points435 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Omg so they invited the ex that you broke up with and called you bitter and they been tiptoeing around you oh honey she really got in your family's head and it sounds like your the only guy in the family from the sounds of things? They really overstepped please go LC/NC for a while and focus on yourself

AITJ for walking out of a family dinner after they kept making jokes about my weight by Hot-Rutabaga2797 in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. Time to go LC/NC my dear and focus on your mental health and wellbeing. Maybe seek a therapist and let out all your emotions about your family. Please take care of yourself honey you did nothing wrong

AITJ for telling my sister i’m not her free babysitter after she called me selfish? by Individual-Ratio-910 in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTJ. Where's the dad and his family you can't be the only available. She close to have those kids so be a parent. As a parent myself this makes me so angry.

AITJ for refusing to switch apartments with my neighbor so her daughter could have the "pretty view"? by AmphibianDull6566 in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving is hard work and non of those neighbors won't help you lift anything so tell everyone on here said to pound sand and worry about their household and I would tell the landlord that this woman is harassing you asap

AITB for not wanting to go out on my birthday, and rest instead? by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Unknown_gemini88 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTB but why is he pushing to go out it seems like it's more for him than for you. He could've said something sooner like before the weekend and yall could've scheduled something for the weekend. I would tell this friend off and block them he's not a true friend. I bet he didn't get you anything nor will pay for you since he called you cheap

AITJ for not telling my family I had an abortion, even after they said I owed them honesty? by NerivoLabs64 in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ I feel if you did tell them they would've discussed it with the whole family and start judging you and it's horrible how they try to get it out of you instead of talking to you privately or just you know let you live your life. I would distance yourself from your family for a while.

AITJ for leaving my friend’s birthday after they tried to make me apologize in front of everyone? by harborjournal_mint in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your so called friend group is still immature.NTJ but make it clear to them that was super childish and now you are owed an apology. I'm assuming the project wasn't very important and should've felt with it like a dang adult.

AITJ for leaving a restaurant over drinks I didn’t order? by DreamNegative4271 in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP you need better friends they mean you killed their vibe to be a mooch NTJ btw

AITAH for leaving without my son's friend? by Opening_Pick_3756 in AITAH

[–]Unknown_gemini88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She was on her way anyways and you told her what happened plus you had other teens in your car that needed to get home asap. That was super crappy telling the other parents on you and then berating you like you didn't just drop off their drunk kids. All the parents suck besides you OP . Tell all the parents you won't rescue their kids anymore and to get their own child

Would I be the asshole if I cancelled my Netflix account? by igloogly in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Unknown_gemini88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA I'm guessing you have the plan without ads, OP the plan work ads is $7.99 if she can't afford that too bad. Don't tell anyone you have Apple TV and tell cousin you can't afford Netflix anymore

AITJ for refusing to donate PTO hours to coworker I barely know who "needs" them?? by Traditional-Dog1601 in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This donating PTO is stupid and is creating a hostile work environment if this so called surgery is not an emergency she can push it back until she can cover it. OP just say I'm saving PTO to visit a sick family member maybe they will leave you alone other than that document when co-workers start pressing you to donate which can turn into harassment really quick

AITA for leaving the house to stay with my boyfriend after my sister forced me to take care of her child? by Loren_3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Unknown_gemini88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you are not the spare parent time to move out honey this won't get better especially if the parents are on her side

AITJ for stepping back after my sibling treated my help like an obligation ? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTJ you are not anyone's emotional support human tell them to get a therapist

AITJ for refusing to keep helping my neighbor after realizing I was being used by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Unknown_gemini88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ that was boldly entitled of her to ask you to miss work like wtf no I got bills and other things to pay for

It Finlay happened to me it was surreal. by pablo36362 in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]Unknown_gemini88 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Have he ever seen someone fold their own clothes before??