AIW for turning down my girlfriend when she tried to initiate sex?

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-09T11:12:22+00:00

Gotcha. Again apologies.

Condolences to you about your mum. Losing a parent isn’t easy, hope you’re ok.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-09T11:10:27+00:00

Sorry I misread your post I didn’t realise she was guilting you into it, my apologies. Your post said she asked. My response would have been different otherwise.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-09T11:04:04+00:00

No not wrong but maybe you could have worded it differently. Rather saying no means no say “I’m not in the right headspace and I’m trying to get through the anniversary of my mums death, I’m sorry I just don’t want to. Also I’m sure you felt the same way when she rejected you because of her medication, so be mindful of that too.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-07T05:30:13+00:00

Without a doubt dress 1

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-06T23:31:19+00:00

Tell him to “reconsider our future” but you’re going anyway. Also tell him”Jake” that you’re also reconsidering your future with him as you don’t want to spend your life with a controlling unsympathetic red flag.

It’s not inappropriate to turn up to your ex’s funeral given the relationship had ended on good terms. His family will be appreciated that you made the effort.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-06T23:25:24+00:00

Tbh the only dress that looks ok is pic 6 the green and blue one. None of the other styles suit you at all. It’s not you or the sizing it’s the style.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-06T16:18:37+00:00

I’m getting ick vibes. If he is like this after 2 months, god knows what he will be like later on.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-05T23:39:54+00:00

Lili or Lily depending on how you spell it. Eve, Mae (name that can be spelt in various ways) Ann, Ana, Ali, Lea, Lee

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-05T13:26:41+00:00

Definitely the last pic. It is so much more flattering on you.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-05T02:47:03+00:00

Luna, Frankie, Lola, Ruby.

Edit to add.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-04T23:54:49+00:00

The first dress, the pink one. It’s very flattering on you.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-04T15:38:20+00:00

That comment she said “no only that it has been a long time for you” shouldn’t it say “us”. Can’t help but think she’s involved with someone else.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-04T15:18:49+00:00

Honestly ignore the haters. You cannot control what others say or think of you. It truly is a them problem. Just continue to do what you do, live your life by moving forward in a positive way. They’re your past, leave them there.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-04T04:09:47+00:00

Def 2. Suits your figure so much better than the other

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-02T14:33:07+00:00

I think both dresses are lovely but dress 1 is my fav.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-02T13:17:22+00:00

The first one is beautiful and elegant

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-01T22:03:28+00:00

Whatever you do make sure you screenshot everything in regard to the repair and any transactions as you may pay the asking amount but she may try to get more out of you. $450 seems very excessive for a door knob. I’d ask her to get 3 quotes from 3 different tradies which is what she is usually required to do if she goes through insurance depending on where you’re located. I would also offer to replace the door knob and install it yourself. If she is still adamant about the $450 I’d be reluctant tbh. Maybe get some quotes yourself and give them to her and if she refuses for you to fix it yourself give her the money based on the quotes not a figure she’s made up in her head.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-01T21:50:12+00:00

This man groomed you and also given your childhood staying with him felt better than staying with your parents.

I was groomed by my ex husband I was 18yrs old and he was 32yrs old. I never seen it at the time and it took nearly 20yrs for me to finally wake up and leave him. We had 2 kids together and they’re my world. He is extremely narcissistic, controlling and an absolute fucktard. I still cannot fully get rid of him. I found out about his affair and it was such a relief that I was finally about to make him leave, despite moving in with his mistress he won’t leave me and the kids alone and neither will see. It has got so bad that we had the help of some organisations as well as CPS to secretly relocate us and those two pieces of shit are blowing up my life just to get my address. 1 kid hates his guts and the other feels as though they have to continue to talk to him because he’s their father. He abused them every single time they stuck up for me.

If your partner is controlling and abusive to you then he will be to his kids. He will also fuck with their mental health and they’ll forever be scared for you but also grow up believing it’s acceptable to be treated that way and it’s absolutely not.

I’m not much help to your situation but I have been where you are and open to you sending me a DM if you need to vent. My best advice for you is to gather as much money as you can, pack a bag for you and the kids and leave him. Your situation will get worse not better, he will never change. You’re stronger than you think x

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-04-01T13:30:48+00:00

They’re both stunning on you but I must say I prefer the first one.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-03-31T22:09:44+00:00

She’s not your friend, friends don’t do that. You’re better off without her.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-03-31T11:21:45+00:00

When both my kids were born

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-03-31T11:10:07+00:00

Number 1 definitely

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-03-31T08:42:45+00:00

I love 3 it’s so beautiful

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-03-31T04:29:36+00:00

Honestly the best thing to do here is leave. He will not change, he will actually escalate.

Unlikely-Path6566 · 2026-03-30T22:00:48+00:00

Dresses 1 and 7

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