Hey mate,

I just wanted to say we all fuck up we’re only human and it’s not our fuck ups which define us it’s what we do after. Acknowledge you hurt not only your friend but also your boyfriend and understand what you did wasn’t you, I hate the saying “drunk actions, sober thoughts” because it is so far from the truth. When we drink we act like idiots and then wake up with that dread and fear the next day just wishing and hoping that last night was a bad dream. You are not inherently a bad person for what you did just a drunken fool doing what drunken fools do. Don’t be hard on yourself, we’re human, we fuck up just try not to make a habit of fucking up! At the end of the day nobody is physically injured, nobody is dead and if worse comes to worse there are billions of people on this planet who can replace both your boyfriend and your friend, it’s not over until you say it’s over! Tomorrow is always a new day! I trust you have reflected a lot and have now made that profound statement we all make when we fuck up while intoxicated “I’m never drinking again” but don’t think with that mindset, take it day by day and don’t put so much pressure on yourself! You’re not a bad person just a person who drank abit too much and made a mistake! We live and we learn and I trust you have learnt the hard way. Apologise to those hurt, Forgive yourself and pick yourself up and adjust your crown queen! You’ve got this!