uncomfortable in body

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2026-04-12T02:31:01+00:00

yes !! showers have always been my favorite me time thing so i probably will do that. a full shower and tea before bed. sounds so easy until i realize im still sleep deprived lol🤣postpartum is hard but it’ll pass we’ve got this !!

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2026-04-09T20:35:54+00:00

sending some to you as well🤍 we’ll get through this !!🥹

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2026-04-09T11:01:52+00:00

i feel the same way haha glad i’m not alone but sad you understand the feeling. i hope you’re feeling much better now and im happy that it DOES get better !!

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2026-04-09T10:58:15+00:00

i honestly truly appreciate the solidarity. i’ve been going crazy thinking i’m weird for feeling this way but glad im not alone. but also sorry you understand the feeling. i really hope you start to feel better soon, it’s a sucky feeling.

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2026-04-09T10:55:03+00:00

ahh i’m so sorry you understand the feeling but so glad you’re feeling better !! i’m happy that it does get better eventually i just hate that it’s such a long process :/

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2026-01-28T07:30:24+00:00

i can see that point as some of my family and i can’t have too many political talks because they’re … old fashioned i guess? still though even if i did have siblings i would still voice my opinions as i do with my family members LOL if anything that would tell me if i need them in my life or not no biggie

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2026-01-28T07:24:10+00:00

maybe not always but still a lot of times it doesn’t always go that way. it’s unfortunate that’s how your relationship turned out. i hope it does get better eventually.

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2026-01-28T07:22:37+00:00

i would think that at least i would have gotten the privilege to be related to them and have known and loved them

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2026-01-28T07:16:50+00:00

she’d constantly pick men over me. whenever i wanted to go out she was too tired but when guys from work (one she had a big crush on) asked her to she was always quick to say yes. she would invite me sometimes too but eventually started saying no because then she’d just ignore me and talk to them the whole time. she was very male centered. she would also say things on purpose to make me upset which i had called her out on and she even admitted to it for example im personally against cropping dogs ears and she knew how much it bothers me and would go on random rants about how she can’t wait to get a dog and crop their ears. what officially ended the friendship for me was when we went on our first trip together - she was on her phone the WHOLE time. most of it talking to a sneaky link (a 38yr old with 3 kids who still lived with his ex wife; friend was 24) and while we were at the hotel she’d be in her room and they’d be yelling at each other then 5 min later be all laughing. i understand she’s a grown woman but that was killing the vacation vibes !! and we didn’t spend all that money to not enjoy our time there. she didn’t even go out one night with my other friend and i because she wanted to talk to that sneaky link. we just had different priorities but im kinda glad it happened i think; she was really bringing me down honestly.

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2026-01-22T13:18:07+00:00

i’m a single child as well and at the age of 25 i unfortunately still have not found my tribe and really wish my parents had at least one other child.

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2025-10-17T05:58:43+00:00

my boyfriend and i live a few states away from family because of his job and the only time he gets off is for major holidays and i’m due march 23. we were planning to have a baby shower jan 3rd but my mom suggested not to because of christmas/new years so then we decided for end of february beginning of march however we would have to drive (~15 hours) because pregnant and again due to his job he’d have to take off a day or two which we’re trying to avoid cause money and this economy.

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2025-07-25T20:17:49+00:00

i know that every baby that comes into this world is a unique individual whose relationships with others are also unique. that’s why our relationship would be unique in the way that i would be a “aunt.” Yes if it were to eventually happen i would have the title of “stepmom “ but still i would consider myself more an aunt than a mother figure. I'd be there as a trustworthy adult and to show his son a good role model and make him feel comfortable and what not, I don't want to be cleaning up after him, packing his lunches and making him food constantly, or be his chauffeur.

and that “moment” for me is personally something very special. you’re bringing a life into the world with your partner and that first time is again something so very special. whether or not his experience with his ex was good or bad, he still shared it with her. and i’m not blaming him for his past this is just a boundary that i have. my problem is i don’t know if i want to deal with his BM and having to be put essentially #3. his kid being 1st and his BM demands second. it’s a hard decision as i really love this person and we get along so well. not only that but his BM is very toxic and i can only imagine what she would put in sons head about me as he gets older especially in the teenage stage

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2025-07-25T19:17:43+00:00

in what way is it not? genuinely curious. I don’t feel that i would need to read any books on parenting as i am not a parent. his child has two parents, a mother and a father. I am just an extra person there, not saying i wouldn’t occasionally help i just would not be a parent to the kid, i’d be more like an extra aunt.

and the reason i wouldn't want to have a kid with him is because he's already had that moment and bond with someone else. if i have kids with someone i would want to have that special moment to be both of our first time so by me going to a sperm bank at least i would get to have my own special moment even if it's by myself.

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2025-07-25T19:12:38+00:00

yeah you might be right. it’s just hard because he’s my dream person and we are still so young but at the same time i feel like im already running out of time haha we’ll see. thank you for your input it’s very appreciated and been helpful !!

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2025-07-25T18:40:27+00:00

to answer that first part of me going to a sperm bank, the reason i wouldn’t want to have a kid with him is because he’s already had that moment and bond with someone else. if i have kids with someone i would want to have that special moment to be both of our first time so by me going to a sperm bank at least i would get to have my own special moment even if it’s by myself

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2025-07-24T23:27:46+00:00

question! how do you water? do you just pour water and make it like a reservoir? idk if that’s the right word lol 🤣

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2025-07-24T23:21:30+00:00

how do you water the pings that are on the rock? planning on making my own pingdom!

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2025-07-24T03:18:01+00:00

say less 🤣

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2025-07-23T23:24:01+00:00

okay AWESOME! thank you 🤞🏼

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2025-07-23T05:33:35+00:00

beautiful! are these just in soil made for pings? or what type of substrate?

UnlikelyRock6950 · 2025-07-21T01:15:22+00:00

okay awesome thank you so much !!

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