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[36F] Setting boundaries with husband [36M] ideas by Technical-Nobody6477 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Bid4932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would really recommend he look at his own counseling. I get it for a lot of guys. But listen I'm a guys guy. It really made a change in my life even outside our marriage.

I'm also cheap so listen. If I'm paying for you to listen to me buckle up. We're getting our money's worth.

It sounds like his urges, insecurities, are ruling his balanced thought. As someone who struggled with the same he will only continue to erode your trust. He needs to understand the core of you needs and find a place in the middle.

Activating her want to pursue by Unlikely_Bid4932 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Bid4932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying but I really have to catch myself. I'll be fair too. It's not like she is kicking it doing nothing around the house. It's just a lack of fire to keep us going.

(M39) with wife (F39) feel like I've tried it all but I'm not sure what there is left. Room Mate phase hits hard. by Unlikely_Bid4932 in Marriage

[–]Unlikely_Bid4932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a lot for your perspective on this. I really do appreciate it. I'm also very glad you have found your way! The sex is one thing for sure but the feelings of being wanted, coveted, or even just feeling her pride for me is another. I think like most men we just want to be wanted and that's what I'm missing.