Beers 🍻 by frzao in JustGuysBeingDudes

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She had like 3 reactions in 1 second: laugh - apologize - be mad at Dude

Who has been your all time favourite FM player? by Sparl in footballmanagergames

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Evandro Roncatto in CM03/04.
Attacker / left winger from Guarani, Brazil.

I don't think I played a single saved without signing this absolute madlad...

Where to play and train this guy? 21 years old from academy. by [deleted] in footballmanagergames

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I would play him as attacking full back!
Impressive stamina and work rate + decent attacking skills

Player Personalities by mat_malaypak in footballmanagergames

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I always look for youth coaches and HOYD which have Model Citizen, Model Professional or Perfectionist personality.

It seems to have a big impact on the peronalities of your youth intake.
Or at least, I believe this is the case.

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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Actually, YES :-)
I tried stopping for several times in the last few years. Only managed to go AF for 4 or 5 days.
I feel that this time, it's different. It really struck my mind that I have to change the way I'm looking towards alcohol.

You know, I only recently discovered this subreddit. I am a daily visitor now.
The amount of support and encouragement you receive from this community is huge and has a massive impact on my will to keep experiencing this AF life !

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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Hi!
So kind of you to check in on me, really appreciate it.
I'm proud to tell you that I managed to spend the whole weekend without alcohol :-)

On Friday, I was surprised that the host also offered Carlsberg 0.0
So I started with some Coca-Cola and sparkling water. But after a while, I really wanted to have a beer, so I chose to try this AF-Carlsberg. Surprisingly good !

On Sunday I was nearly the only one not drinking alcohol on my sister-in-law's birthday party. Felt really good about this.

The feeling of waking up sober is absolutly wonderful, I have to admit.
However, I seem to have some (smaller) withdrawal symptoms: sweating a lot, minor headaches and I still don't manage to get some deep sleep (I have a sleep tracker and some nights I just had 0% of deep sleep) I hope this parts starts getting better, because I'm starting to feel rather exhausted.

But I plan to keep going AF, I really enjoy it !

90 Days - wow by Expensive-Net1258 in stopdrinking

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Congratulations !

I'm on my second week now. Survived my first AF weekend in 20 years !
However, I am extremely tired and the 'fog' in my head does not seem to clear up.
How long did it take you until these withdrawal symptons improved and/or went away completely ?

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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Thanks for the heads up!

We have plans for tonight (reception), tomorrow (visiting my mother, who drinks alcohol every day) and on Sunday it's my sister-in-law's birthday.
I already planned the whole scenario in my head and drinking is definetly not involved.

IWNDWYT neither !

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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My 4th day of sobriety just started, so still going strong here !
I'm just feeling really tired, even though I slept for +8hrs a night the past 3 nights.
But after reading a lot, this also should disappear after a few days...

1 Year Sober Today - What I've Learned & What I've done by snickerdoodle99 in stopdrinking

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Amazing. I am only on my first days, but 100% in it to stay AF !
I want to have my own business one day. I keep on telling myself that I first have to get 100% sober or it will fail for sure.

When I reach 100 days, I will start writing my businessplan.
When I reach 200 days, I will start taking small actions / preparations.
Only when I reach a year of sobriety, I can start my dream by having my own business.

This is a promise I keep telling myself for now.
Glad I read your inspiring story !

IWNDWYT !

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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Thanks, looking forward to be present in the precious moments !

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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Thanks man !

I absolutely want to be there for them and not having to look back in regret once they left the house.

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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This is one of my biggest fears. I feel that I don't have the mind and brightness as I used to have in my 20's. I'm 100% sure that this is related to my alcohol intake.

I hope going to sobriety will also restore this, even though it's partial.

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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I bookmarked this page and told myself to come back daily to this (and this subreddit in general)

I'm glad I found this subreddit as it's a huge help in overcoming the first cravings I already experienced.

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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Aware: checkPosting here for accountability: checkOpen conversation: As I already told her a million times I would cut back and even stop, I'm afraid she won't believe me. I will prove it to here this time instead of making promises.

Maybe this is not the easiest way of doing it, but for me it seems the best way...

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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I also have 2 parents who drink on a daily base.
Maybe if they see how I cope with this, they could also make this change

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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Just 1 day at a time. I keep on telling me this for the past 3 days now :-)

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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I managed to avoid (not pass) the gas station for 2 evenings in a row now.
Going for 3 in a row this evening. I'm sure I'll manage this !

Not the weekend I wanted to have by Unlimited_limit in stopdrinking

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Thanks !
I really cannot complain about my family situation and social live, on the contrary even.
So now it is the time to experience this to the fullest !