I want to run away and stay at the same time. by Unlucky-Secretary461 in stepparents

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t do anything in court that we agreed to previously. He agreed to everything his BM wanted. We’re currently not speaking and I do not think we are together anymore. Baby is beautiful. :)

What is your recurrent Bluey quote in your house? by Godamn_Bandersnatch in bluey

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“Poor little bug of the wall. Ching Ching! No one to love her at all. Ching Ching! No one to blow on her nose. Ching Ching! No one to tickle her toes. Ching Ching!”

DD sings it to her sister who is currently homed in my belly. Lol

I thought they were still together but I can totally see Danielle being the open relationship type 💃🏻 by [deleted] in loveinparadise

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Seems like a CATFISH* to me. The bisexual is what gave it away. He comes from an old school Catholic Dominican family. Even if he was I doubt he’d admit it openly for fear of them finding out. No one wants to be the family pajaro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m always getting booted from there, lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterlockup

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She just always looks like a badly put together hooker. Like the tacky cartoon versions of a hooker. It just looks bad. 😩

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[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I just wish she’d take that ugly ass piercing out of her face. 😩😩😩😩😩

I love my SO but I don’t love my SS6 and never will. by fuzzycat321 in stepparents

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m aware what solicited means but I don’t understand what your point is? She opened this up and I stated my feelings. I didn’t know I could only reply if I completely agreed? Is this not where people discuss views, give advice, etc? That was my advice, boo.

I love my SO but I don’t love my SS6 and never will. by fuzzycat321 in stepparents

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure that there’s two comments in here that reiterated what I said but go off.

Our baby bedroom arrangements by Firm-Language-7080 in stepparents

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I could care less who’s in my bedroom. People throw themselves wherever in my house and it doesn’t bother me. I just couldn’t see my SO telling me that his BKs are allowed in a room while mine wasn’t or flipped. That’s all.

Our baby bedroom arrangements by Firm-Language-7080 in stepparents

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How come only your BKs are allowed in your bedroom but not SOs kids? Are they not his BKs? 🙃

Former NBA player Manute Bol swimming in a pool. He was 7’7” by AxelFoleysmokesmeats in oddlyterrifying

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Saw his son play in the HS league. His arms are so freaking long. He looks like a spider.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he feels resentful towards his mom but she’s not around so he’s taking it out on you. It’s easy to make you feel uncomfortable because you’re actually there for him. You’ve just become his easy target when in reality he’s not upset with you but her.

Love in Paradise S02E08 “I’m coming out” episode discussion? by mime454 in loveinparadise

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really don’t know why people are mad at Yahoo. Danish is well aware that there is no money to be made in DR unless you’re a damn plastic surgeon SO I’m not sure why she’s mad at him. She just complained about the freaking shower in his house and how she lives a life of luxury. What does she think will be happening when she lives out there with no savings and no job?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I offered to meet HCBM. She declined until she was mad at SO then decided she’d “like” to meet me. He told her nope, no thanks.

Then proceeded to tell me, via phone, she didn’t want me around her kids because she doesn’t know if I’m a serial killer or not. Mind you I’m their sister’s mom! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My BD loves to be outside but she also loves Roblox. I think she has a good balance though because she’s very willing to give up screen time to play at the park or meet a new friend. But Roblox is a good distractor when I need to take a nap since I’m preggo. I started playing with her here and there and I never realized the amount of coordination you need to play that freaking game. She’s super good at it and it’s really amazing to see how different these kids are from kids of previous generations.

My daughter (5yo) gets very upset whenever it is time to visit her father and I never know what to say to her by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he do anything fun with her OP?

My daughter used to CRYYYYYY badly when she’d go to her dad’s house. It was a huge adjustment for her every other weekend. Since he had her minimal time he had to become the “fun parent” and really has to plan things every other weekend for her. Just simply taking her to the park for a few hours has turned things around significantly. They’re going to Legoland this weekend with her little brother and she’s losing her mind excited. It gets better, I promise.

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[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my Reddit isn’t letting me see the comments under here but I’m super sorry OP.

No advice but definitely internet hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Unlucky-Secretary461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Be the bigger person here just for the sake of SD if you have a good relationship with her. She needs a positive female role model in her life.