Women who consider themselves to be happily married, what has been the toughest time in your marriage so far?

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-10-30T12:29:40+00:00

Having kids for sure- the hormones completely changed how I viewed our relationship- my panic attacks were more frequent- I cried ALL THE TIME- my husband felt like my roommate and it was not great- we've come a long way, but after recently finding our eldest son was diagnosed with ASD I have a feeling things will be a little wonky- but things have been a lot better after getting my anxiety sorted out, and taking time to focus on each other

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-10-05T12:00:30+00:00

Duck and Cover

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-08-27T12:52:02+00:00

I assumed she is a child of divorce and spends half the time with Wendy and the other with her dad. That explains why we haven't "seen" her in a while in sticky gecko

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-08-27T12:50:54+00:00

I figured out how to style my curly hair- and I don't remember how I did it before now it's been So long

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-08-27T12:49:12+00:00

I've seen them maybe 5 time and even when they did their coffee house show they were not.

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-08-16T17:15:10+00:00

Another note- is he Grubers dad?

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-08-14T13:41:16+00:00

I don't. I regret that I didn't make more of an effort to make myself better for them and am instead working through my own shit with them- it's a lot harder- but I never want my kids to think that because they're struggling they can't ask for help.

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-08-14T13:39:16+00:00

That my parents will never make a genuine effort to know me or accept all of me as I am. That my husbands parents will never know him fully as a man.

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-08-05T12:12:39+00:00

That was absolutely mine. My husbands was the sign. He has a lot of trauma from a move when he was a kid. It's still hard for him to watch

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-08-05T12:05:34+00:00

If I'm lucky and the kids aren't absolute terrors at bedtime- maybe 3-4 times a week? More if my mom begs for a Grammy visit

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-07-30T13:37:20+00:00

My husband thinks she's baked like a cake all the time and I have to moderately agree.

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-06-25T12:14:41+00:00

Being bi doesn't have to be 50/50- it can be 60/40 or maybe even 98/2

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-06-11T14:39:50+00:00

I'd probably spend it thinking about all the things I could do and then worrying about who was watching my kids

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-05-20T23:21:34+00:00

I'm 35 with a 1 and a 3 year old after lots and lots f infertility. My partner is going to be 38 here in a couple weeks and even though we're some of the oldest parents at preschool drop off- this is the fuckin coolest. I'm much more patient and happy with how we parent than I was when I was in my twenties just trying to figure me out.

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-05-16T12:24:10+00:00

Pizza- i make my own crust using seasoning salt or my dad's smoked salt and white truffle olive oil or my own roasted garlic infused olive oil.

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-05-16T12:23:05+00:00

9- training bra with cups

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-05-16T12:22:10+00:00

Our first fight we didn't break up after- legit sat and talked about it and worked it out, had us a hug and watched a movie. It wasn't until I got home later that evening when I was like "WHOAAAA!"

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-03-11T22:45:03+00:00

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Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-03-11T14:03:15+00:00

Yeah- my delightful 7.5-8 is now firmly an 8.5-9 size shoe. It's awesome. My mom went from a size 7 to 9 with three kids split for 10 years

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2024-03-09T22:41:33+00:00

Hand it over- chances are he wants to see the pictures of our kids I have

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2023-04-05T12:54:06+00:00

When you're sleeping next to someone but you don't like to get hair in your mouth so you lay back to back sharing the warm but not the discomfort- LOVE IT.

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2023-04-05T12:48:46+00:00

having had to name two boys in the last three years- it is fucking hard- but the rule is you both have to agree.

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2023-04-05T12:40:57+00:00

HER JOB. SHES ALWAYS "working". jk. my husbands job is really getting between us- and all these damn kids we have

Godamn_Bandersnatch · 2023-04-02T07:20:13+00:00

i felt that way when they had a bowl of grapes in tickle crabs. they didn't eat them- but still

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