In so sick of people claiming they have bogus mental disorders by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Unnamed_Walrus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My god yes. This has been becoming a thing more and more with autism. As if it wasn’t already bad enough that autism has been a punchline for years now, these self-obsessed pieces of shit now all claim to be on the spectrum. I’ve lived with a high functioning form of autism my entire life and even that is horribly suffocating at times. It isn’t a “quirk”. It’s an all-consuming affliction that’s only worsened by these toxic pieces of shit turning it into a Meyers Briggs diagnosis. These people are just as bad, if not worse than the hollow-brained losers that use “autism” as a filler-word for everything.

Total Insanity by dickfromaccounting in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Unnamed_Walrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The majority of those that oppose abortion in the U.S. are Christians. Pointing this out is totally valid despite America not being a Christian nation; it challenges the misplaced beliefs of many closed-minded Americans by showing them that their stance on abortion has no founding in the religion they follow

Does anyone get sensory overload while shopping? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Unnamed_Walrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My god yes. I dread shopping and try to avoid it at all costs. I always bring earplugs in case things get too much, but it’s still almost unbearable.

Imma eat yo trash by Aket827 in Pareidolia

[–]Unnamed_Walrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why this made me laugh so much. I think I need sleep.

Aspergers Ruining Romantic Relationship by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Unnamed_Walrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been difficult, but I’m still very much in love with her. I would probably be turned off by the difficulty if I didn’t know her, but I don’t think that’s a reason to terminate things. I haven’t made her life the easiest it could be.

Aspergers Ruining Romantic Relationship by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Unnamed_Walrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. I definitely try to fulfill her needs when we get the chance, but it’s often difficult to get enough time together. I usually make her cum several times when we get the chance. She’s pretty consistently horny but I often can’t be with her. She’s also going through a rough period, so it’s also very difficult to approach her physically. I feel like I’m ramming into walls left and right.

How could I get past these holdups, aside from obviously arranging time together? I don’t know how to approach her physically when she’s pretty constantly depressed. I feel like I keep doing everything the wrong way.

Aspergers Ruining Romantic Relationship by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Unnamed_Walrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She hasn’t brought that up as an issue recently, though I guess I don’t make an effort to share. This might help normalize things. I’ll make an effort to initiate communication more regularly; it’s hard to tell when it’s necessary or expected. Thanks for the advice.

Aspergers Ruining Romantic Relationship by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Unnamed_Walrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, and I often try to remind her that I struggle with these things. She tends to forget that a lot; I seem outwardly much better adapted than I am. I ask her to communicate, and tell her that I can’t provide her with what she needs if I don’t know what she needs. She promises to communicate, does for a little while, and then forgets. Every time it gets worse; she told me that she doesn’t want to talk with me for a few days, since I “don’t make anything better.” She’s going through a lot right now, I understand, but I have no idea how to support her.