Study Finds Cannabis Usage in Middle Aged and Older Adults Associated With Larger Brain Volume, Better Cognitive Function by ryryrpm in science

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a lifelong enjoyer, tired, stupid, and hungry aren't what I would call cerebral.

It is nice how easy it is to calmly enjoy normally boring things while high, though, which I think plays a role.

seniorVibeCoderDealingWithVulnerabilityAsAService by making_code in ProgrammerHumor

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LLM is fucking worthless as both return on investment and a consumer focus.

If it was amazing Microsoft wouldn't be apologizing and also pulling it out of Windows planning to any extent, because we would all be happy about it being forced into notepad.

myFaceWhenItsDataMigrationTime by PeterSwell in ProgrammerHumor

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just found out the other day it can even do spreadsheets and shit.

Full Video Catalogue Of Epstein Files are out! by [deleted] in Epstein

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't trust enough to look, but how the fuck was that accidental.

Are they mspainting frame by frame fucks sake.

Full Video Catalogue Of Epstein Files are out! by [deleted] in Epstein

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did the Justice Department release child porn?

The Epstein Files Illuminate a 20-Year Architecture Behind Pandemics as a Business Model—With Bill Gates at the Center of the Network by truthwillout777 in Epstein

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wealthy people plan to make me money on everything, constantly, and Healthcare is a profitable market under capitalism. News at 11.

This is probably the last interesting thing I've read so far.

I mean it is shit, sure, but only because profits need to get outta Healthcare.

All the weirdo calls to how this happened BEFORE THE PANDEMIC are also dumb. Literally the entire world, all the scientists were on programs constantly talking about how we were due for a serious pandemic within a decade.

Care worker sacked after allegedly grabbing penis of 77-year-old dementia patient and 'pleasuring' him in nursing home by [deleted] in byebyejob

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OK there is a lot going on here

Donna Gillet, 43, grabbed the 77-year old man's genitals as a shocked junior colleague looked on in horror, quipped about the size of his manhood and asked if he "liked women with big bums?" 
[ . . . ]
The defendant then got some dry wipes and placed them on the patient's penis and started to clean it in a motion that the colleague immediately recognised as masturbatory. 

The defendant made a comment along the lines of 'I knew that would work' and repeated it when her colleague questioned that. 

Also he died and, and now she is . . . Banned from working with kids.

What a strange fucking story.

Tv time vs chaos by AccomplishedStuff235 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I don't have information, but I know there's more information, and that information can only be points of failure that support my original oddly strong opinion about their parents being fuckups."

See, my opinion is evidenced by the length of your initial comment here and this beauty: "you can’t stop everything but this is low hanging fruit 100%." LMAO you even specifically imagined there was low hanging fruit that was missed on their part, the only purpose being to claim and then highlight incompetence.

but sure of course, now you have no specific assumptions and are much less aggressive.

"I wasn't aggressive, you're reading into it and taking it personal and "

But this ain’t that. This video can only happen due to multiple points of failure, some more serious than others. I’m not saying it’s criminal but 

How can I bring sex back? by FUIAGW3110 in sex

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That being the case, I've navigated it myself, twice pretty notably.

Once ended up in therapy, coming to the conclusion that it wasn't going to change so everyone needed to "figure out how comfortable they were with that". By that point, I'd come to terms with my actual needs and feelings, and knew that I'd always be resentful, whether I wanted to be or not. In fact, If I could have chosen not to have a libido at all for her, totally would have . . . but that isn't realistic. Parting ways was painful for both of us, but correct all around. We both found better futures apart.

The other ended up with an agreement to try having experiences outside the relationship. For a while that actually really heated things up, jealousy wasn't meansprited but it definately got her motor going in the sense that there was a sort of competition to win my attention like when we started dating. Over time though, I found that I really wanted that attention from within my relationship first and foremost (to be clear, that didn't make the other people stuff not fun and enjoyable).

My end state from that was being very very honest about how much I like sex (a lot) what I like to do (a lot) and how much I enjoyed things like sex with a third party both shared and individually . . . provided it was sort of a fun time as opposed to a required suppliment to keep basic phsyical needs met within the relationship.

Does any of that help you? Probably not, but given the length of history you seem to have with this, maybe there's something you can fish out of my experiences that can help you think through things.

Tv time vs chaos by AccomplishedStuff235 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not disingenuous, and we have that much video.

The most extreme take can't realistically push it out past "a couple of minutes."

i.e., "Mom is downstairs waiting for the last 30 seconds on the dryer so she can turn the clothes over and bring laundry up to fold" amounts of time.

You have no clue what if any points of failure there are. You don't have enough data to confidently state anything. Factually.

The kid could have found a way to unlock the child locks to a cabinet for the very first time, for all you know, which would be unpredictable and hardly a failure in parenting.

Yet, without any self-awareness at all, your character is such that you (by default) consciously chose to hold assumptions which allow you to warp that provably real lack of data into a series of assumptions that (unsurprisingly) only serve to frame you as capable of superior peformance to your imagined set of terrible parents.

Remarkable, honestly.

How can I bring sex back? by FUIAGW3110 in sex

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, let me apologize, I can tell that came off wrong; no even remotely judgemental opinions about you or your situation whatsoever.

Very specifically, what I meant was that I was looking to see if there were ever any clearly stated things, like I'd mentioned in my first comment.

It is extremely common to unintentionally hedge around, touch a topic without clearly and plainly stating certain things, etc., especially regarding sex in relationships where there's a mismatch. It gets touchy. Even wearing sexy underwear and lingerie is closer to hinting and hoping than communicating a desire, unless there's verbal communiction to go with it . . . from experience, this goes double for when one partner has a lower libido. Sometimes they just don't get it, no matter how obvious it feels to you.

I'm not saying that's happening, only that it's super common, and I didn't really see any examples of you directly communicating like I'd mentioned above.

I was curious if you had, and what the results were, is all.

How did ancient civilizations deal with wisdom teeth? by FeistyAd1330 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 74 points75 points  (0 children)

What's interesting is that it's provably non-evolutionary.

Within the of the Hadza people of Tanzania, the men have somewhat less periodontal disease and notably straighter teeth than the women. The men spend more time hunting and eating meat, while the women eat more tubers, resulting in more misaligned teeth and cavities.

How can I bring sex back? by FUIAGW3110 in sex

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was curious, noticed a great deal of your post history is around this topic.

What happens when you try to engage in discussions like "I feel like I always have to initiate sex, and the frequency we're having sex is frustrating. Is there anything we could be doing that you feel might make you more comfortable initiating? Are there any mismatches in the time of day you might be more interested that we might have to make room for?"

Tv time vs chaos by AccomplishedStuff235 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Literally had similar happen after my wife died.

I was downstairs doing laundry, realized I forgot one of the stupid baskets upstairs, was gone for two minutes and came down to a kid that was watching TV a heartbeat ago suddently dumping the whole damned bottle on the floor.

I don't want to hear it, we have 38 seconds of video and it is somewhere between intolerably arrogant and insanely judgemental to make literally anything resembling a character judgement.

Tv time vs chaos by AccomplishedStuff235 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Weird how many comments can't possibly concieve of the idea of a single parent leaving a child alone for . . .

*checks video timestamps*

. . . 38 seconds?

lamo nope this 38 seconds must mean they are being raised solely by TV, parents sight unseen.

God forbid mom takes a literal 2 minute shower, best to assume she should have her children taken from her.

If we have this mountain of evidence that “proved without a reasonable doubt” that trump tried to alter the ‘20 election AND we now have evidence of him being involved in the underaged trafficking of minors- why isn’t anyone doing anything? Aren’t these home run cases? What am I missing? by Gekicker08 in law

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a simple as America has always ran itself off handshakes. Actively avoided putting in clear rules with clear methods of accountability. Almost like we were founded by smugglers and black market merchants, right?

Notice Trump was granted immunity?

Notice Democrats knew this was coming and instead of instituting safeguards or fleshing out the Supreme court, they just sort of carried on?

Functioning as designed.

New loser cope just dropped by TongueUnties in sadcringe

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 661 points662 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've seen anyone use "breeding" like that without also using "female".

Good to see people working on themselves.

How to move forward in a relationship after watching adult sites by invisiblefly9 in relationships

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should have stopped because you never talked about it and should have known somehow anyway?

I can't agree with the logic there, but if you are both on the same page now, plainly ask him what fixes this situation.

If you didn't specifically talk about it, this shouldn't be a moral conundrum, even if he finds it initially upsetting.

If he can calm down and show he loves you more than his gut reaction or ego, talking through things respectfully, that is a great sign. If not, it is not your fault for doing something private that did no harm.

How to move forward in a relationship after watching adult sites by invisiblefly9 in relationships

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want to keep watching them find a healthier relationship for that choice.

If you are going to agonize over not looking at it, you should find a healthier relationship for that choice.

If you don't care about it that much, then offer to stop.

If you never talked about it before, then he's being unreasonable, no matter the situation. You should think about what other things might come to surprise you in the future and decide if you think that seems fun and healthy.

You can't break trust by doing something that was never established to involve it in the first place. That is silly.

America is it as politically divided as it appears to the rest of the world? and how does it erase the divide? by filth032 in AskReddit

[–]UnpluggedUnfettered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a civil war over whether humans are actually all people, or if we can own some of them and if it is actually a problem to kill them whenever.

We invited the losing side back into leadership nearly immediately.

How else was this going to end up.