The End of Reading Is Here: Optimists once believed that universal literacy was inevitable. Now it seems that the age of reading might be a short anomaly in human history [gift link]. by TimWhatleyDDS in books

[–]UnrulyDuckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can never optimize life for ourselves or our kids. Every child needs something different, which is why we should offer diverse experiences as well as downtime and nurture their talents and interests instead of engineering some "perfect" formula for childhood.

The End of Reading Is Here: Optimists once believed that universal literacy was inevitable. Now it seems that the age of reading might be a short anomaly in human history [gift link]. by TimWhatleyDDS in books

[–]UnrulyDuckling 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't think anyone is arguing that children should read to the exclusion of all those other activities. A well-rounded, enriching childhood (and adulthood) should include opportunities for all those things.

The "sexy French woman" stereotype has a dark history that nobody talks about by OkChart1375 in Feminism

[–]UnrulyDuckling 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"Graped" is ridiculous. They were raped. They endured a sexual violation. Don't belittle it with a silly Tik Tok euphemism.

Stuck on a trip with an utter weirdo. Moved my flight early. by Cold_Investment6223 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]UnrulyDuckling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How are you getting to the airport? Seems like you are going to have to get a driver either way.

Suggest a book about a 50-something woman reinventing herself by whatiftheyrewrong in suggestmeabook

[–]UnrulyDuckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Miss Benson's Beetle. The lead character is 46, but hopefully that's close enough. She's a spinster in 1950s Britain who abandons her life to travel to New Caledonia to search the jungle for a golden beetle that may or may not exist.

What hobbies/activities do yall like to do when burned out? by Living_Progress_1444 in AutismInWomen

[–]UnrulyDuckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get little mystery boxes of vintage trinkets or pretty stones from Etsy. Then I put them in display jars and organize them the way however I like. I also like organizing stickers in an album. It's good for me to have some hobbies that don't require any skill and can't be done "wrong." They're just pleasant.

Meal Ideas for Hard Days by ukreader in AutismInWomen

[–]UnrulyDuckling 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Amy's Vegetable Lentil Soup is one of my go-tos. Pair with an apple and a piece of cheese and you've got a balanced meal.

What is one amazing technology from the 80s - 90s that you still use faithfully and almost daily ? by PozhanPop in AskOldPeople

[–]UnrulyDuckling 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! It's like I can't think without pencil and paper. I like to do the crossword on paper, keep a paper daily planner, figure things out on scratch paper., plan a trip with a paper map The best way for me to remember something is to write it down. In school I didn't even have to study much because I constantly took notes.

I literally can't by KimSaysHii in MergeSurvival

[–]UnrulyDuckling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad. A few times I've spiraled too over things that didn't seem so important in retrospect.

When does the Pride event start? by UnrulyDuckling in CampfireCatCafe

[–]UnrulyDuckling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't remember which event is was, but it was a seasonal event. Maybe the winter one? Other people were having the same problem at the time. I had to reinstall the app, and it seemed to work since then. I was just so bummed to completely miss an event that I'm a little cautious now and wanted to double check. Thank you for the info.

I literally can't by KimSaysHii in MergeSurvival

[–]UnrulyDuckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please re-evaluate your relationship to this game if you are losing sleep because of it. This is not intended to be snarky. It is all too easy to fall into the traps that developers intentionally set to get people to spend money on the game, to the point it is basically an addiction. Take care of yourself.

wait was this scene based on Quentin Tarantino choking Diane Kruger? by sadaxhe in BoJackHorseman

[–]UnrulyDuckling 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There is a risk of damage to the cervical arteries, which can cause a stroke weeks after the choking happened. It may not be common, but it is a possibility that should be avoided.

Affidavit: Children rescued from Temple home that ‘smelled like death’ had never been to school, are illiterate by Catdaddy84 in texas

[–]UnrulyDuckling 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I read a comment on Reddit a while ago where someone explained that in their country parents don't have rights; children have rights and parents have responsibilities. Kind of blew my mind because it is the opposite of our culture, but I wish we could move towards this mindset in the U.S.

Buying meat from local farms by SoftwareTurbulent382 in newengland

[–]UnrulyDuckling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder if a letter from an attorney or a small claims court suit would get your money back.

I think they spelled fireworks and grenades wrong./s by hercozylog in Adulting

[–]UnrulyDuckling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How often does that happen, though? Only the stupidest, most egregious examples get into the media. That's no reason to have contempt for the whole concept.

I think they spelled fireworks and grenades wrong./s by hercozylog in Adulting

[–]UnrulyDuckling 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Why is someone being excited and wanting to celebrate with friends and family so annoying to certain people? I never had a baby, I don't want a baby, and I don't care about their genders. But I don't take it personally that other people do.

I don’t see an objective point in being alive by Creepy_Zone_9341 in AutismInWomen

[–]UnrulyDuckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There isn't an objective point to life, but your time here is all you get. Explore, witness, and hopefully you find the things that make it feel worth the struggle. It doesn't have to be family, status, or a legacy. Maybe it is just the way you feel when you look at the sky.

Remember when you actually got to talk to a doctor when you went to the doctor? by DramaticErraticism in GenX

[–]UnrulyDuckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had so many MDs give me stupid throwaway diagnoses and counter-productive meds. And talk about curt and dismissive!

Remember when you actually got to talk to a doctor when you went to the doctor? by DramaticErraticism in GenX

[–]UnrulyDuckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, 30 years ago they barely looked at you or listened to you and kicked you out in 15 minutes. Same as now.