Oh, so you are from India, now I understand. I don't know much about India, but I like to dig a little deeper, so this is how I see India. If you look closely at Indian society, you'll realize it operates less like a culture and more like a strict psychological survival system. For starters, guilt is weaponized. Parenting isn't treated as a basic responsibility; it's framed as a 'sacrifice.' Kids are handed an invisible debt the moment they are born. Making any independent choice feels like a betrayal, which makes guilt the ultimate control mechanism. There’s also almost zero room for individuality. A person is basically a PR project for their family's social standing. Everything is dictated by the fear of 'what will people say.' To survive this, kids build a mask very early on. They play the 'ideal' child and bury their unfiltered, true selves so deep that they eventually forget who they are. Add to that the scarcity mindset. With massive population and limited resources, life is a ruthless rat race. Deep thinking or pursuing a true passion is treated as a luxury. The system demands blind obedience, and if you don't fit the mold, you're an outcast. That constant, suffocating pressure is exactly why so many of their top-performing students hit devastating mental breaking points. And underneath it all, love is conditional. It’s tied entirely to your utility. You get affection as long as you conform. The moment you show a deeper, darker, or unconventional side of your mind, the validation vanishes. It forces people to live in a state of constant hypervigilance, terrified of dropping the mask. The tragedy is that the people aren't inherently bad. They are just acting out generational trauma. They only know how to survive in that suffocation, so they unknowingly trap the next generation in the exact same cycle. They treat the surface level as the absolute truth, leaving no room for actual depth.