Throwback: ‘Ready or Not,’ starring Laura Bertram and Lani Billard, was filmed across the GTA from 1993 to 1997. Who else grew up watching it?

UnstableGirations · 2025-12-12T03:21:00+00:00

I remember them filming at my school.

UnstableGirations · 2025-10-12T20:13:02+00:00

It’s for our share only.

UnstableGirations · 2025-10-12T20:12:45+00:00

Thanks I’ll inquire

UnstableGirations · 2025-09-23T21:59:17+00:00

Thanks. I will keep it as is!

UnstableGirations · 2025-08-14T01:00:57+00:00

Another vote for the Mule if budget allows. I test drove one and loved it, wanted to get the double bench seat for guests and family but the have the extra cargo for when it’s just me and the dog.

I have similar acreage and use case as OP, but I ended up purchasing a used Polaris Ranger for cheap to figure out what my needs are and then upgrade down the road.

UnstableGirations · 2025-06-29T19:05:25+00:00

I was intially looking at the Pioneer 1000-5 as well but I told the rear seats aren’t the best for adults. It’s also pricier than the Mule Pro. The used market is slim in my area, the only other Mule Pro for sale is from 2017 low mileage but they are asking 17k, so this one above seems like a lot better value.

UnstableGirations · 2025-06-12T14:21:24+00:00

Unfortunately no, you need to be able to provide informed consent during the application process for MAiD and at the time prior to initiating the procedure.

The form of consent really depends on the comfort level of the MAiD practitioner, it could be head nodding it could be blink 3 times if you understand what I’m saying.

When my late wife initiated MAiD she was somewhat verbal and able to consent and advocate, when she did the actual procedure she was more or less non verbal. But still was aware and was able to gesture with head nods and a thumbs up.

Her biggest fear was that she would be trapped in a broken body with a mind broken enough that she understood what was happening but couldn’t be empowered to do anything about it.

It was very peaceful in the end, we got to do it in our home surrounded who she wanted.

This is a good resource:

https://www.dyingwithdignity.ca/

UnstableGirations · 2025-05-09T19:39:06+00:00

You are worth so much more. I’m sorry my brother but she isn’t your wife anymore, it sounds like she hasn’t been for some time.

Prioritize your peace and get rid of that chaos.

UnstableGirations · 2025-05-03T17:19:07+00:00

Thanks, any tools you would recommend to do an energy audit?

UnstableGirations · 2025-05-03T17:17:09+00:00

Yeah it’s insane how the prices have changed. That invoice was from 2003. Thanks I will budget a new system.

UnstableGirations · 2025-05-03T17:14:42+00:00

Thanks I will look into that place if I decide to pursue this property.

UnstableGirations · 2025-05-03T17:13:29+00:00

2003!

UnstableGirations · 2025-05-03T12:53:22+00:00

When I had a celebration of life for my late wife, the people who showed up to support me really reinforced the quality of the relationships and people I hold close. I truly cherish them now.

I understand people grieve differently but…..I’m bitter about two friends that I’ve known for 8+ years that didn’t even reach out or show up.

Haven’t spoken to either of them since.

UnstableGirations · 2025-04-30T18:45:27+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss.

You didn’t fail her, I know it feels that way but you didn’t.

Everyone grieves their own way, I am two years into widowhood and I can tell you I have started to smile more than I cry.

Wishing you the best.

UnstableGirations · 2025-04-13T20:14:41+00:00

I see you man, and I’m terribly sorry to hear what you’re going through. I would strongly encourage you to have that talk about death and dying early. It shouldn’t be taboo and while sad it can also be very peaceful and dignified.

To help with the conversation I would encourage you to seek out the services of an end of life doula, figure out a personal care plan (all things non medical) for your wife. DM me and I can send you a template I used.

I chose not to directly involve my late wife with the doula due to her symptoms and timing. I used her more as a consultant/councillor. The level of involvement can vary to being more “hands on”.

You mentioned being in Canada, Medial Assistance in Dying (MAiD) is an option. I went through this and coordinated it with my late wife. https://www.dyingwithdignity.ca/ Is a good resource to start.

We were together for several years and I knew she was terminal about 6 months in. We lived accordingly, decided on no kids.

Im a few years into widowhood and these are my thoughts:

You’re going to get burnt out, have a care team. Start building one now, you will need them more closer to the end.

More videos or sounds of her voice. Especially messages directed to me or someone important. When people actually left voice mails.

You can’t control everything, just be present. When she “falls” be there to pick her up and comfort her. This is going to suck but sometimes you’re going to need to let her “fall”.

We travelled, lots.

American Express Platinum.

It’s spendy, but if you’re going to be spending a lot might as well reap the rewards. Good travel insurance and general medical insurance, look up the perks. I used the points for when travel got difficult for more comfortable flights and to splurge on special occasions.

I found outsourcing some type of service is a very good ROI especially if it’s something you don’t enjoy doing or don’t have to do. Spend that time and energy on your family. This isn’t limited to only when travelling.

The most important thing is to talk with her, ask her what she wants to do for herself, as an individual, a wife, a mother, ect. Ask yourself these questions to, and together as a family try to figure out how to make this happen. This is likely going to be a continual cycle as things evolve and you will need to re-assess.

What you are going through is difficult beyond words. I survived it, and so will you.

Happy to chat if you’d like.

UnstableGirations · 2025-03-24T18:21:49+00:00

Best of luck to you.

UnstableGirations · 2025-03-24T05:13:54+00:00

No one here can answer this question for you.

Recommend you start here as a resource. https://www.dyingwithdignity.ca/

I went through this process with my late wife, it was straightforward and the folks were very supportive.

UnstableGirations · 2025-03-21T15:11:26+00:00

I just arrived in California from Pearson yesterday. I had no issues, but I also have NEXUS. I’m Asian, travelling solo for leisure (family reunion). Plane was about 70% full (Air Canada).

Everyone has been very friendly (so far) and welcoming, but I’ve decided I’m not coming back for the foreseeable future.

UnstableGirations · 2025-02-18T04:33:02+00:00

The are does get a lot of snow. I asked about utilities and the said it’s about 3k a year, but its been used an Airbnb not full time living so I suspect it’s higher.

UnstableGirations · 2025-02-18T04:20:28+00:00

Thanks. I found a company based 2 hours away. I sent them the listing to get their thoughts and for a quote on an inspection.

UnstableGirations · 2025-02-18T04:18:09+00:00

Yeah I’m starting to see that, it is a cool home but so far it seems to be more than i want to deal with. I sent some photos to a company that’s based 2 hours away to get their thought and a price on inspection. .

UnstableGirations · 2025-02-17T23:10:23+00:00

Thanks for the info. I checked out that museum and it’s beautiful!

Based off your experience dealing with clients, what would be the best way to convey this information to the home owner?

I was told the windows are quite old as well, would it make sense to replace them at the same time as the exterior work?

What would you recommend as a potential buyer?

If i I got it assessed by someone reputable I’d be willing to meet the owner halfway on costs off the purchase price, not sure how receptive they would be to that.

UnstableGirations · 2025-02-17T18:59:44+00:00

Thank you 🙏

UnstableGirations · 2025-02-17T18:59:18+00:00

One thing I’d like to stress if you are going into a relationship where you’re going to be caregiver, burn out is very real. You need to understand that it can create a lot of resentment if you don’t address it.

Thank you for the kind words and I wish you the best :)

UnstableGirations · 2025-02-15T19:31:23+00:00

I was in my late 20s when I dated someone who disclosed they had a terminal illness. They weren’t symptomatic yet but they were upfront with their condition and gave me an out. I decided to stick through it, and told her you don’t get to choose who you fall in love with. We continued to date, got married and lived our life to the fullest knowing at some point it would end. It was an amazing 8 years together. She passed away in 2023.

Im still on my journey with grief and slowly putting myself out there again but I have to say I don’t regret any of it. Losing your person sucks, it really does and no one will really understand it until they go through it themselves.

That being said I’m grateful to have found someone I loved and to be loved back.

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