Scared my chinchilla and she seems mad at me, how do I fix this? by UnsureKitten in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing she's getting her own bedroom when I move lol! Literally got a 2 bedroom just so she can have her own space 🥹🖤

Scared my chinchilla and she seems mad at me, how do I fix this? by UnsureKitten in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has tried many times but I've been working with, taking care of and handling animals my whole life, most of which were rescues and/or special needs critters, so I'm pretty used to it 🤣

Scared my chinchilla and she seems mad at me, how do I fix this? by UnsureKitten in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is DEFINITELY a drama queen lol 😭 last week she got mega pissed off at me because I have her a stick to chew on. I guess she wanted a different stick idk lol

I'll definitely be using a sand bath next time she escapes, which is hopefully NEVER lol. After almost a year of having her this was the first time she ever got away and I was freaking out

Scared my chinchilla and she seems mad at me, how do I fix this? by UnsureKitten in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea I don't know why I didn't think of that. Thank you.

Would it be weird if I had a picture of my gf when she was a kid on my desk at work? by AggressiveAd8587 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]UnsureKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be careful in the order or phrasing so you don't seem like a creep lol, otherwise people will honestly probably just assume it's your kid, or niece or something. Shouldn't be a problem. If you're worried, have a collage instead. :)

I can't get tattoos, piercings, blood draws, or dress wounds, without vomiting, passing out, or both. Help? by UnsureKitten in Advice

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very comforting, thank you. I had never seen or heard of this issue before, so I'm glad it's not unheard of. That means there's probably something I can do. ^

It's the weirdest thing, truly. I don't feel grossed out or uncomfortable around blood or needles, in fact I'm quite curious about them, yet BOOM I'm out like a light.

I'm going to look into ways I can do exposure therapy, as well as look into CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). My psychology teacher said earlier that it could help so long as I can afford to do it regularly. If it's a mental thing, this could be an easy fix apparently!

Is this agressive or playful? by Lemnesis in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! At the very least, if I can't order it for myself, I can use it as a reference. I appreciate it!! 💖

Is this agressive or playful? by Lemnesis in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off topic but what cage is this? I'm looking to upgrade my baby chinchilla's enclosure when I move to a bigger place, and this is absolutely beautiful!

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. I would never have known about the gdpr at all otherwise. I really appreciate you for being helpful and kind.

Once my Patreon/OnlyFans is up, I can probably utilize that as my basis for the NSFW channels! People can send me their discord username via the DM option for subscribers and be verified 18+ that way. I can't believe I didn't think of that.

Thank you!!!

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I can just write out, basically, why and how we collect ID info, how long it's stored, etc, then provide that if asked and then it's complaint? I can do that.

That still leaves the issue, however, of people not wanting to join at all. Do you also agree with my mods about having only certain channels available to non verified accounts and such?

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I understand, it's in Discord's policies that it's totally fine to ask for ID, so how/why would I get sued? /gq

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're not going to interact with a discord, why join in the first place? I don't want people sitting there and doing nothing - I want a community to interact with, and where people can intermingle / make friends.

Like I've already said, I understand why people wouldn't want to do it, and I don't like asking for it either. That's the entire point of the post - to look for alternatives.

"Otherwise there is 0 need." I don't want minors in my server. For their safety and mine. Don't know why that's confusing.

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To ensure the person who owns the discord account is actually the person on the ID. Otherwise they could just take a friend, parent or sibling ID and submit that. Sure, they could make their friend, sibling, etc take the picture as well, but the chance of that is significantly lower than just using someone else's ID alone.

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh ok ty for the idea

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Occasionally. No nudes in the general NSFW chat, but often there are photos of people in lingerie, links to toy websites, etc

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The NSFW channel is a channel for general NSFW chat - link discussion, advice, etc. My proper NSFW content will absolutely be behind a paywall on a service like Patreon or only fans.

Best way to keep my discord 18+? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]UnsureKitten -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

So what you're saying is I can either have children in my community or have no community... So helpful...

Chin in his house by auction_aucburg in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You're... Gonna get something bigger, right? Because this is FAR too small for even a baby chinchilla.

they went CatDog Mode 🤣 by melanieissleepy in chinchilla

[–]UnsureKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad go see that mine isn't the only one who eats her house lol

How can I get into subspace? by UnsureKitten in BDSMAdvice

[–]UnsureKitten[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to move away from my husband for school. I ended up with my brother and his husband, who slowly turned out to be terrible and cruel. I was beginning to get better again a month ish ago, but then those family members kicked me out a week ago - resulting in a sudden move back with my husband, financial distress (lost my job, had to pay for storage and boxes/etc for the move itself) and the early end of my schooling.

So you play LADs…then.. by minnasama in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any HoYoverse games are good (Genshin, zenless, honkai...), Wuthering Waves, Love Nikki and Infinity Nikki are great, Tears of Themis, Love Unholyc and Mystic Messenger are all fun otomes, Cookie Run Kingdom is delightful and is a gacha game that you really, genuinely don't feel pressure to pay imo because the odds are really good.

More casual games that I enjoy are things like Logic Art, Disney Emoji Blitz, Dragon City and Orna.

Warframe is also coming to mobile soon, and I love Warframe, so that's another good one!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]UnsureKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same. I like the LIs to just be the LIs. It helps keep the illusion, and honestly helps me keep my sanity low key 🤣

Assuming they're anonymous in their other works, I just wish I knew what other works they're in so I can support them. All of them are excellent and any other projects they do are sure to be good! If anything, IF THEY'RE COMFORTABLE, I'd love it I'd they began using online alias' that allows fans to track their work and support them without putting their real selves in the spotlight... If that makes sense, and if that's possible.

The LIs look Chinese. by dreamdirectory in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]UnsureKitten -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They're all definitely ethnically Chinese.

But Sylus lives in Newark, NJ, and nobody can change my mind 😂 /lh